And women are from Venus is a definite fact. As a man, i have learned what sex with my wife means and does for me. I think most men have these same emotions. Sex with my wife fills multiple needs. It obviously fills the physical need as a man and as someone who’s DNA drives him to want to be physical with his SO. BUT sex also means love to me, it means acceptance and that everything is ok. See most men want sex first with their SO and THEN go hang out and soend social time together. When we fuck on a Saturday morning, in my eyes its going to be a great weekend. According to my wife, a women wants to spend time with here SO first and then have sex. We want the same things just in different order. I know I may get in trouble for this but if women would just accept that the old saying “keep his balls empty and his belly full” is about a true a statement as it is and if you just do that simple thing, there’s nothing a man wont do for you. As long as there’s testosterone running through a mans veins all you have to do is take care of his cock and he’ll take care of you. Anytime is a good time. If you dont want sex then he’d love a handjob. Just ask him. Women, don’t resent us for what we are and for how simple we are. We love you with all our hearts and will treat you like the queens you are if you will just accept that.
There is indeed a consensus that men and women have very different attitudes to sexuality. But men don't just want sex first, they are sex-oriented, whereas women are relationship-oriented. Men don't just want to have sex first, they are often happy to do without the remaining - let's say optimistically – 23 hours – with the same person after their sexual refreshment or exhaustion. This is because they find different women optimal for different types of interaction, and they don't like to be monopolised by one person.Men, unlike women, need a lot of sexual variety, while women prefer the same person. Men want youth, women want men who are a bit older. In my opinion, from a gender-conforming male point of view, a 60% loss of attraction per sexual interaction is realistic for above-average bodies: Remaining sexual attraction at 90% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 10%, 2) 1% Remaining sexual attraction at 80% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 20%, 2) 4% Remaining sexual attraction at 70% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 30%, 2) 9%, 3) 3% Remaining sexual attraction at 60% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 40%, 2) 16%, 3) 6% Remaining sexual attraction at 50% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 50%, 2) 25%, 3) 13%, 4) 6% Remaining sexual attraction at 40% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 60%, 2) 36%, 3) 22%, 4) 13%, 5) 8%, 6) 5% Remaining sexual attraction at 30% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 70%, 2) 49%, 3) 34%, 4) 24%, 5) 17%, 6) 12% Remaining sexual attraction at 20% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 80%, 2) 64%, 3) 51%, 4) 41%, 5) 33%, 6) 26%, 7) 21%, 8) 17%, 9) 13%, 10) 11% Remaining sexual attraction at 10% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 90%, 2) 81%, 3) 73%, 4) 66%, 5) 59%, 6) 53%, 7) 48%, 8) 43%, 9) 39%, 10) 35%, 11) 31%, 12) 28%, 13) 25%, 14) 23%, 15) 21%, 16) 19%, 17) 17%, 18) 15%, 19) 14%, 20) 12%, 21) 11%, 22) 10% Remaining sexual attraction at 5% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 95%, 2) 90%, 3) 86%, 4) 81%, 5) 77%, 6) 74%, 7) 70%, 8) 66%, 9) 63%, 10) 60%, 11) 57%, 12) 54%, 13) 51%, 14) 49%, 15) 46%, 16) 44%, 17) 42%, 18) 40%, 18) 38%, 19) 36%, 20) 34%, 21) 32%, 22) 31%, 23) 29%, 24) 28%, 25) 26%, 26) 25%, 27) 24%, 28) 23%, 29) 21%, 30) 20%, 31) 19%, 32) 18%, 33) 17%, 34) 17%, 35) 16%, 36) 15%, 37) 14%, 38) 14%, 39) 13%, 40) 12%, 41) 12%, 42) 11%, 43) 10% Remaining sexual attraction at 2.5% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 98%, 2) 95%, 3) 93%, 4) 90%, 5) 88%, 6) 86%, 7) 84%, 8) 82%, 9) 80%, 10) 78%, 11) 76%, 12) 74%, 13) 72%, 14) 70%, 15) 68%, 16) 67%, 17) 65%, 18) 63%, 19) 62%, 20) 60%, 21) 59%, 22) 57%, 23) 56%, 24) 54%, 25) 53%, 26) 52%, 27) 50%, 28) 49%, 29) 48%, 30) 47%, 31) 46%, 32) 44%, 33) 43%, 34) 42%, 35) 41%, 36) 40%, 37) 39%, 38) 38%, 39) 37%, 40) 36%, 41) 35%, 42) 35%, 43) 34%, 44) 33%, 45) 32%, 46) 31%, 47) 30%, 48) 30%, 49) 29%, 50) 28%, 51) 27%, 52) 27%, 53) 26%, 54) 25%, 55) 25%, 56) 24%, 57) 24%, 58) 23%, 59) 22%, 60) 22%, 61) 21%, 62) 21%, 63) 20%, 64) 20%, 65) 19%, 66) 19%, 67) 18%, 68) 18%, 69) 17%, 70) 17%, 71) 17%, 72) 16%, 73) 16%, 74) 15%, 75) 15%, 76) 15%, 77) 14%, 78) 14%, 79) 14%, 80) 13%, 81) 13%, 82) 13%, 83) 12%, 84) 12%, 85) 12%, 86) 11%, 87) 11%, 88) 11%, 89) 11%, 90) 10% Remaining sexual attraction at 1.25% loss of attraction per sexual interaction: 1) 99%, 2) 98%, 3) 96%, 4) 95%, 5) 94%, 6) 93%, 7) 92%, 8) 90%, 9) 89%, 10) 88%, 11) 87%, 12) 86%, 13) 85%, 14) 84%, 15) 83%, 16) 82%, 17) 81%, 18) 80%, 19) 79%, 20) 78%, 21) 77%, 22) 76%, 23) 75%, 24) 74%, 25) 73%, 26) 72%, 27) 71%, 28) 70%, 29) 69%, 30) 69%, 31) 68%, 32) 67%, 33) 66%, 34) 65%, 35) 64%, 36) 64%, 37) 63%, 38) 62%, 39) 61%, 40) 60%, 41) 60%, 42) 59%, 43) 58%, 44) 57%, 45) 57%, 46) 56%, 47) 55%, 48) 55%, 49) 54%, 50) 53%, 51) 53%, 52) 52%, 53) 51%, 54) 51%, 55) 50%, 56) 49%, 57) 49%, 58) 48%, 59) 48%, 60) 47%, 61) 46%, 62) 46%, 63) 45%, 64) 45%, 65) 44%, 66) 44%, 67) 43%, 68) 43%, 69) 42%, 70) 41%, 71) 41%, 72) 40%, 73) 40%, 74) 39%, 75) 39%, 76) 38%, 77) 38%, 78) 37%, 79) 37%, 80) 37%, 81) 36%, 82) 36%, 83) 35%, 84) 35%, 85) 34%, 86) 34%, 87) 33%, 88) 33%, 89) 33%, 90) 32%, 91) 32%, 92) 31%, 93) 31%, 94) 31%, 95) 30%, 96) 30%, 97) 30%, 98) 29%, 99) 29%, 100) 28%, 101) 28%, 102) 28%, 103) 27%, 104) 27%, 105) 27%, 106) 26%, 107) 26%, 108) 26%, 109) 25%, 110) 25%, 111) 25%, 112) 24%, 113) 24%, 114) 24%, 115) 24%, 116) 23%, 117) 23%, 118) 23%, 119) 22%, 120) 22%, 121) 22%, 122) 22%, 123) 21%, 124) 21%, 125) 21%, 126) 20%, 127) 20%, 128) 20%, 129) 20%, 130) 19%, 131) 19%, 132) 19%, 133) 19%, 134) 19%, 135) 18%, 136) 18%, 137) 18%, 138) 18%, 139) 17%, 140) 17%, 141) 17%, 142) 17%, 143) 17%, 144) 16%, 145) 16%, 146) 16%, 147) 16%, 148) 16%, 149) 15%, 150) 15%, 151) 15%, 152) 15%, 153) 15%, 154) 14%, 155) 14%, 156) 14%, 157) 14%, 158) 14%, 159) 14%, 160) 13%, 161) 13%, 162) 13%, 163) 13%, 164) 13%, 165) 13%, 166) 12%, 167) 12%, 168) 12%, 169) 12%, 170) 12%, 171) 12%, 172) 11%, 173) 11%, 174) 11%, 175) 11%, 176) 11%, 177) 11%, 178) 11%, 179) 11%, 180) 10%, 181) 10%, 182) 10%, 183) 10% Of course, there are also men who are completely undemanding when it comes to eroticism, and all they care about is the number of breasts and orifices.
