Ok so, I didn't know where to write this so I figured here would do. Basically, I've been with my partner for 8 years, we have a very good sex life, both open minded and there is not a lot we haven't experienced together. I seem to be getting more paranoid as I get older...(35) So...guys...do you all watch porn? Look at images of hot girls etc ? He always has we watch it together..but when he is alone too. He says he's a guy, that's what guys do and that it's nothing to do with anything he feels for me. I feel like a paranoid teenager . Not sure what I'm asking, and I do suffer from an anxiety disorder...and a hint of jealousy..so what I need is some lovely reassurance please Hope this makes sense I've just taken something yummy and a little wobbly lol
My sex drive is so strong that I do watch plenty of porn, even tho I have a great sex life. I rarely watch it with my gf, but I would if she showed any interest. Perhaps at my age I need plenty of confirmation that I've still got it, that I'm not too old, and a good solid erection will do that for me. I didn't do this much when I was younger, but that was before the World Wide Web made it so easy.
Yep the internet certainly opened up a whole world ..teenage boys must never leave their rooms! I just get the feeling guys like to have stuff that us girls dont know about. Im just not sure how he would feel if he found that I was watching hot guys on my own, I'm bi so tend to look at girls too...but still I think the male ego would feel threatened if the scenarios were opposite. Sent from my HTC One using Tapatalk 2
It does not bother me when my husband watches porn. It USED to..years ago (only if I was in the house... I'd be like..."and you didn't come get me?") .... but I've realized that he has never cheated on me and it's really no big deal. I'm so glad I don't have to worry about getting upset about stuff like that. It takes a lot of energy for no reason. and no, unless it's an obsession...something he does all the time.. it is normal. and not just normal- it's that sometimes people just want to be by themselves... don't wanna go through all the effort of having sex. I know it sounds nuts but it's true. it's no reflection of a relationship.
With this post this you tube video comes to mind . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R_DXgGuJG34"]The internet is born for porn (not a porn vid) - YouTube p.s. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WT0tPoGATNc"]The internet is for porn [Disney] - YouTube
Yeah I know, you're so right I'm being an idiot! He's not obsessed just male.. Thank you Sent from my HTC One using Tapatalk 2
But they are all so frickin perfect...and don't get me wrong. I'm not bad...but I'm not perfect! Sent from my HTC One using Tapatalk 2
I'm perfect to him ... See now I'm wasted I feel like an idiot for writing this post in the first place! I overthink....stupid stupid head
as they say boys will be boys and yes we like it for variety and squash fantasy so we dont "all" have to act out on fantasy. its important to know that women that we all love will never be replaced by anything intangible
You are not being an idiot. It's normal to feel like that... until you realize it has absolutely nothing to do with comparing to you...or wanting you less or anything like that... Like I said, I've been there and then realized those things and got over it. I really don't think they are perfect..come on now. And if they look TOO perfect then I guarantee it's not real... lots of work done or editing on the video or whatever..
Say that and most, and him, will think you cheat on him with girls. Or you just say it to get him angry and jealous, in pretty much the same way him watching porn makes you feel
No, no cheating on either part, he encourages me to look at stuff, he doesn't really get jealous as his logical mind doesn't see porn as a threat just a bit of fun. My mind isn't so logical, it was just something I needed to get out there and I'm glad I did as I feel much better for it.
I do watch porn and I have a girlfriend who will watch it with me from time to time, we have sex regularly, however there are times when I want to pleasure myself and its when she is not around (a man thing) it has nothing to do with her , she realizes this and is ok with it as long as it does not replace/interfere with our sexual intimacy.
I think you have to look at porn as junkfood or fast food. Every once in a while on it can be a nice break, even help your healthy diet (healthy sex life). Too much is bad for you. And there are some that swear of junk food. Those people are no fun at dinner parties. Plus a perfect woman would be cool with porn.
