MEN 105 Questions About You & Masturbation

105 Questions - Men and Masturbation Survey

I found this poll recently and thought it would fit here. It’s for men to answer but ladies can comment on the responses. I think one for women will be available soon. Please be frank & honest.

About You:
1. How old are you?
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship?
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation?
4. Do you masturbate?
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted?
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating?
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it?
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking?
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves?
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation?
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl?
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating?
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission?
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why?
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this?
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating?
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm?
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself?
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum?
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened?
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive?
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate?
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else?
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed?
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm?
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had.
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful?
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did?
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out?
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel?
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why?
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl?
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most?
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited?
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that?
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of?
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was?
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?)
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month?
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last?
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session?
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate?
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves
45. What are your reasons for masturbating?
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank?
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment?
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection?
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last?
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum?
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen?
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm?
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm?
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating?
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve?
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore?
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why?
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator?
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry?
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands?
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers?
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly?
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to?
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking?
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes?
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis?
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)?
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties?
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing?
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly?
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming?
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum?
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session?
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation?
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure?
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches?
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated?
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched
83. Have you ever watched another man
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate?
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation?
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
88. What activities do you fantasise about?
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer?
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about?
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see?
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had?
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you?
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature?
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve?
96. Is it hard or soft?
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different)
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove?
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming?
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection?
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger?
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past?
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner?
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)?

 

Oh my this is long... maybe later lol.

 

105???
Good lord.... some editing is in order

 

Very detailed but too long.

 

Another f**king long-assed poll!

 

Don't worry a bit, there are people here who love to be assigned homework

 

About You:
1. How old are you? 57
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? Married
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? No
4. Do you masturbate? Yes
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? Normal, just something you kept to yourself.
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating? Yes. Gave me a book called " A doctor talks to a 12 year old.
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it? I am sure they knew.
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? We compared notes. They were as intrigued as I was.
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? I used to think only guys. Then once I fingered a girl to orgasm, I knew they must masturbate too.
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? Not too much.
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl? Yes, Yes & Yes
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? Just knew it felt great!
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? Yes
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? Yes. Horny I guess.
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? No.
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? Erection yes.
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? 10 .Ejaculated at 14.
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself? We humping a pillow on my parents bed looking at a Hustler magazine.
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience It just kept feeling better and better ntil my cock exploded on the pillow. I was sooo shocked.
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? Just a few minutes.
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? Surprise. Amazed.
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? Guilty but intrigued.
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? Yes. Every chance I could.
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? Yes. Friends.
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? No. Naked completely.
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? Hustler magazine. Was helpful.
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had. Pictured myself fucking the model in the magazine.
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? Only a pillow until my wife introduced me to oil jobs. I may have used my hand a few times, but usually just the pillow.
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you first did? I now mostly use my hands.
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? Yes.
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel? I am sure my Mom opened the door on me humping. My wife has caught me a few times.
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? No. I like it.
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? Yes. A male friend in HS and my wife now regularly. I had GFs that we masturbated each other.
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? Now.
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? Less inhibited now. I know it is normal .
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? I jsut changed the method though experience.
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating? More positive.
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you should have grown out of? No. Why would you?
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? More.
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) Married and yes she knows.
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? Daily +
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? 20 minutes
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? All day.
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? Home office and mornings.
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves Usually a porn vid and some stroking.
45. What are your reasons for masturbating? Feels awesome!
· To relieve stress Yes
· Because sex with a partner is not available Sometimes
· To do things not possible with a partner Sometimes
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself Yes
· Other Yes
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? Just being horny. Usually in the mornings if alone. Afternoon mutual with the wife.
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? Yes
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? Both
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? Yes. Porn.
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? 3 times. Yes makes it more exposive.
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? Yes but not often.
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? Sometimes
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? Sometimes
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? Yes using a prostate massager.
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? I have. I usually have 5-6 orgasms if time allows it.
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? Yes.
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? No.
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up Yes
· Lying face down Yes
· Lying on your side Yes
· Standing Yes
· Sitting Yes
· Kneeling Yes
· Humping a pillow Yes
· Other Yes
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? Yes. Flesh lights and other pocket pussies.
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? Both.
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? Right, left pushing down on balls.
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? Both
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? Both
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? Yes.
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? Yes & Yes.
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? I have.
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants Yes.
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? Yes.
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? Yes.
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? No x3.
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? Yes grunting , panting , talking to the video.
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans Yes
· Concentrate on your glans Sometimes
· Stroke both the shaft and glans Sometimes
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls Sometimes
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus) Sometimes
· Play with your anus Yes
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach Yes
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus Yes
· Grip the base of your shaft Yes
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft Yes
· Use a cock ring Yes
· Use a band around your cock and balls Sometimes
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? Sometimes
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming? Touching yourself.
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? 20 minutes.
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? 14
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? Yes with prostate massage.
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? Yes I do and yes it does.
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? Yes
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? Yes
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat Yes
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched Yes
83. Have you ever watched another man Yes
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? Intergal.
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? Yes.
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn Maybe.
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons Yes
· A celebrity Yes
· Someone you know Yes
· A past lover Yes
· Your partner Yes
· An anonymous or non-specific person Yes
· A body part such as breasts or pussy Yes
88. What activities do you fantasise about? Being caught or watching.
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? Yes.
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? Being caught or watching.
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? Fantasize.
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had? MM
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? Yes. I can do without it.
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? Sometimes
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? Being a voyeur or being caught jerking off. Sometime fucking someone or being seduced.
96. Is it hard or soft? Hard.
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) Yes.
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? She accepts it. She knows.
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming? Yes.
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age No. I enjoy it too much.
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection? No . Sometimes.
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger? Yes. Use hands now. Pillow when younger.
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past? Sometimes and usually.
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner? Yes.
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)? No , it is in addition.

 

About You:
1. How old are you? 39
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? Married
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? Not really
4. Do you masturbate? Yes
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? Sinful
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating? They didn't really talk about it
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it? They knew but didn't say anything
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? Didn't talk about it but we all did it
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? Thought only guys did it
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? Very little
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl? Had only seen naked women in magazines
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? Didn't really think about it
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? Yes
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? Yes, normal teenage years
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? Knew that some did but didn't realize how many
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? No
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? 14 to both
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself? Had been watching a porn I found and wanted to see if I could make the "white stuff " come out
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? Managed to cum but it took around an hour
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? Surprised when it finally shot out, excited and maybe felt a bit guilty
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? Felt guilty
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? Became regular, 1-2 times a day
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? Told no one
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? Sometimes quick, sometimes took my time and usually naked
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? Mostly playboys and Victoria secret catalogs
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had.
Didn't really fantasize
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? Mainly one method
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did? Changed significantly
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? Never inhibited, did it late at night or when no one was home
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel? Caught once by a roommate and once by my mother in law. Felt very embarrassed, especially with mother in law
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? Tried when I was younger just bc I thought I was the only one doing it
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? Yea, have done it with other men and with my wife
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? College
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? Less inhibited and probably less frequent
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? Older, sexual partner
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating? More positive
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of? No
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? More
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) Married, yes she does
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? 2-3 times a week
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? Depends, sometimes 10 minutes sometimes a couple of hours
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? 6 hours
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? Usually in the bathroom or bedroom and at night
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves.
Mostly the same way, watch porn or go to a chat room
45. What are your reasons for masturbating?
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
Mainly to relieve stress and I enjoy it
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? No set routine. Usually seeing an attractive woman triggers it
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? Yes
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? Stimulate myself to erection
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? Usually a few minutes to get ready
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? I do edge, do it multiple times and definitely enhances
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? Sometimes but rarely
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? Sometimes yes
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? No
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? No
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? Never
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? Yes
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? When younger bc I felt guilty
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
Sitting
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? Yes
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? Usually dry
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? Right hand
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? Whole hand
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? Firm but gentle
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? I look
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? Watched, videoed and photographed
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? Yes
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants? Yes
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? Yes
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? Yes
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? Yes to all
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? Moan a little sometimes
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
Usually just grip my shaft, sometimes play with my anus
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? Yes
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming? The fun and pleasure
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? Depends, usually about an hour
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? Just one
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? No
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? Moan sometimes
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? Yes
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? Yes
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat? Yes
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched? Yes
83. Have you ever watched another man? Yes
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? Integral
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? Sometimes
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn? More important
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
Women I know
88. What activities do you fantasise about? Sex with others
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? Involved
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? My sister in law or mother in law
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? Enjoy what i see
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had? Circle jerk over a woman
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? I watch, not essential though
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? Images and videos
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? Mainly masturbate to trans porn
96. Is it hard or soft? Hard
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) just different
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? She knows I watch from time to tine
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming? Yes
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection?
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger?
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past?
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner?
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)?

 

105 Questions - Men and Masturbation Survey
About You:
1. I am 66.
2. I am single and not in a sexual relationship.
3. No
4. I do masturbate.
5. I personally didn't see anything wrong with it. It just seemed natural.
6. After my mother had caught me doing it at the age of 11, she told me about the 'facts of life', and said there was nothing wrong in what I was doing.
7. See above.
8. I don't recall ever discussing it.
9. Yes I did, my mother told me so.
10. When I started at the age of ten I knew nothing about sex or biology.
11. My mother told me everything I needed to know about sex and biology when I was 11. I was about nine when I first saw a naked woman and man. I woke up one night to the sounds of moaning coming from my mother's bedroom. I found her bedroom door ajar, so I simply went in to find my mother naked, astride a naked man laying on her bed. They failed to see me at first, so I got a eyeful of my mother's large breasts bouncing about as she humped the man. When she did see me she shrieked and got off the man. I then for a moment saw her bushy pubes, and the man's erect penis. I was 11 when the 11 year old girl living next door to me showed me her pussy. She asked if I wanted to touch it, but I declined.
12. I felt very comfortable about my body and the pleasure I obtained from my penis.
13. By the time I would have been experiencing emissions, I was already an established masturbator, therefore had few 'nocturnal emissions'.
14. My first experience of arousal occurred when I looking at the models wearing women's underwear in my mother's clothing catalogue. That led me to playing with my penis as I ogled the models. As I did so my penis became hard, and my plying with it produced a pleasurable feeling in my groin. It became a regular habit after that, especially after my first orgasm, albeit a dry one.
15. No.
16. The first time I saw a man with an erection was the night I entered my mother's bedroom and caught her having sex, I chanced to see the man's erect penis.
17. I was ten when I began to play with my penis for pleasure. I had had my first orgasm not long after, a dry one. I had just gone 11 when I had my first ejaculation.
18. See answer 14.
19. When I began to play with my penis I did so for the pleasure I felt, it wasn't long after that I had an erection, which gave me more pleasure as I stroked it. It was not long after when I had my first orgasm, but it was some months before I began to ejaculate.
20. I did not know at the time what it was I ejaculated, I knew it wasn't pee. From the start I loved the sticky stuff.
21. I don't know what I felt at the time, I do know I didn't feel dirty.
22. My masturbatory sessions became more frequent after my first orgasm, twice a day most days. After I began to ejaculate it became a daily routine, 3-4 times a day.
23. I didn't mention it to anyone, nor discuss it until my mother caught me doing it, then we had a lengthy discussion on the matter.
24. You could say I was furtive about it, it was something I did in private, in my bedroom, my mother's bedroom when she was out, in the bath, and frequently on the toilet, in my early days that is. It depended where I did it as to the nature of my dress. In the bath I was naked, on my bed or my mother's bed I was often wearing my Y fronts, or naked.
25. At first I masturbated while looking at the models in underwear in my mother's clothing catalogue. Later at school in the school toilets I would masturbate with the aid of the naturalist magazine 'Health and Efficiency' or the occasional copy of the men's glamour mag 'Spick' or 'Span', that could be found stuffed behind the cistern. I would occasionally take the mags home to enjoy in my room.
26. I sometimes fantasised while I wanked, but I couldn't possible discuss what I fantasised about.
27. I did occasionally hump a pillow or cushion, or the mattress, but I mostly stuck to the hand method. Since those early days I have used masturbatory toys.
28. As I said above I have experimented, but on the whole I have always preferred skin on skin.
29. At first I feared if that's the right word of being caught, for I felt it was a private pleasure.
30. Just before my 12th birthday my mother caught me masturbating on her bed. When alone in the house I often went into my mother's bedroom and lay on her bed in my Y fronts looking at the models in her clothing catalogue as I played with my penis. On the day it happened, a Saturday I think, my mother would go out to the shops, an errand that took her at least 30 minutes. I went into her bedroom wearing only my Y fronts, laid on her bed with the catalogue, and began to masturbate. I was so engrossed in my activity that I didn't hear her return early. It wasn't until she opened the bedroom door and saw me that she had come home. I was too far gone to stop, she just stood there with a look of surprise rather than shock as I climaxed and ejaculated into a pair of her panties wrapped around my penis. "Sorry love, I forgot my purse", was all she said at that moment. She picked up her purse off her dressing table and left to go to the shops. I was hugely embarrassed by the episode, so much so I couldn't face her when she returned home. She later came to my room where she sat on my bed and told me all she knew about biology and sex. She was OK with what she had witnessed and confessed to doing the same on a regular basis.
31. I have never tried to stop or restrict the number of times I do it.
32. Over the years I have enjoyed mutual masturbation with men and enjoyed masturbating in the presence of women.
33. The peak of my masturbatory life came between the ages of 18 and 21/22. At that time I was masturbating up to six times a day, more on some days.
34. My masturbation hasn't changed much, only in frequency. In my teens and twenties I would masturbate 3-4 times a day, at it's peak up to six times a day. In my thirties and forties 3 times a day, occasionally 4 times. Now in my sixties I regularly masturbate twice a day, and sometimes 3 times a day every day. I am far more relaxed about it, but I've never felt inhibited bout doing it.
35. It has only changed in frequency due to a lower libido caused by age, though I think twice a day, every day at my age is an achievement.
36. I feel very positive about my habit.
37. I thought I might, but thankfully I didn't.
38. I began to enjoy it more as I got older.
39. I am single.
40. I need to masturbate at least twice a day, therefore 14 times a week at least.
41. A typical session these days lasts about two hours, but with edging can last up to six. No 'quickies' these days.
42. After I discovered edging I pushed the limits as far as I could, my longest session lasted 12 hours.
43. These days now I'm retired I usually have a two hours session after breakfast, and a longer 3-4 hours session in the evening. During the warmer weather I often need another two hour session after lunch. I generally masturbate in my room these days.
44. My masturbatory techniques have changed little over the years. In my younger days I did experiment, but now my habits are fixed. I retire to my room, sit at my desk, switch on my laptop, and log into one of the numerous porn sites I subscribe too. I drop my jeans get my penis out of my Y fronts, and begin stroking it as I watch the porn.
45. The reason I masturbate is because I enjoy it.
46. I masturbate when I'm horny, though these days I have something of a routine due to my domestic circumstances.
47. Yes, you could say so.
48. I am often already erect when I begin.
49. I am easily aroused and often horny.
50. I do 'edge' in order the prolong the pleasure and intensify the orgasm. I also ejaculate more when I do.
51. I never lose interest.
52. Depends on how long I've allowed for a 'recovery' time, especially these days.
53. I only cum without an orgasm when I massage my prostate.
54. Not since I was 11.
55. I have in the past when my 'recovery' period was less, been able to achieve another orgasm shortly after the first, but not these days.
56. Often in the past, and caused my penis to ache.
57. Never tried to stop, why should I? I enjoy it far too much.
58. I have masturbated in various positions, but these days I sit at my computer and do it while I watch porn.
59. I have in the past used male masturbators and sex toys such as butt plugs and dildos.
60. I use baby oil these days, though I have experimented with various lubes in the past.
61. I always use my left hand to masturbate even though I'm right handed.
62. I have a small penis so I only use my fingers.
63. Firm, but gentle.
64. I often look at my hand when masturbating.
65. I have watched myself in a mirror, but never filmed myself.
66. I have masturbated through my clothes, usually in a public place like a cinema, on a bus or a train.
67. Often.
68. I have, yet unsuccessfully.
69. I have often tasted my own semen.
70. I often use a pair of woman's panties to masturbate with, usually an unwashed pair that I sniff before hand. I also wear women's panties when I masturbate as well as other times.
71. I don't make sounds.
72. When I stroke my penis I tend to concentrate on the glans, I also like to play with my balls. I have in the past fingered my anus, used a butt plug, and cock rings.
73. In the past I've had 'quickies', but these days I prolong the pleasure.
74. I get a lot of pleasure touching myself, but the main pleasure comes with orgasm.
75. It all depends on how long a session I have. I edge myself to prolong the inevitable as long as possible.
76. In the past I've had a number of orgasms during a session depending on it's length. The most I've ever had is six in an eight hour session. Those were the days!
77. I've never achieved what's called multiple orgasms in one climax.
78. I sometimes moan when I cum.
79. I have masturbated in front of others, but never a partner.
80. I have and occasionally do indulge in mutual masturbation.
81. No
82. Yes, often.
83. Yes, often.
84. My sex life revolves around my masturbation.
85. No.
86. I don't fantasise these days.
87-92. See answer 86.
93. Pornography is essential these days.
94. I view images and videos.
95. Women in their underwear, men and women having sex. lesbian sex, women masturbating, Tranny sex, and men masturbating.
96. Preferably hard-core, with some underwear glamour as an aperitif.
97. Better with porn.
98. I don't have a partner.
99. Yes, I like to watch other guys masturbate and cum.
100. As I've got older my libido is not what it was, therefore I don't need to masturbate as often. It is still an important part of my life.
101. I'm not as horny as I was, but I am still easily aroused, and yes I often wake up with an erection.
102. Not a lot differently, just less frequent.
103. I still have powerful orgasms, but my ejaculations lack power and are less copious.
104. I don't have a partner. Masturbation is my sex life.
105. I've never had a partner. Masturbation is the only sex life I've had.

 

I didn't think it possible to have 105 questions about men jerking off...six or seven tops...

 

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About You:
1. How old are you? 59
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? Married
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? Yes
4. Do you masturbate? Yes
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? Normal
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating?
Never spoke about it
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it? I think they suspected.
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? Never spoke with anyone else about it
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? Didn't know
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? Nothing
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl? I knew a little. Yes I had seen the body of an adult woman. I had seen a girl my age boobs. Yes I had touched a girl.
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? I figured out I liked it
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? No
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? Often. Whenever I saw a well endowed adult woman

15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? No
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? No
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? About 11
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself?
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
No one told me about it. I had seen my best friend's mom that day. She had on a tight red sweater and I couldn't stop staring at her breasts. That night in bed I was thinking about it and started rubbing my penis against the bed. It felt good. I climaxed but didn't ejaculate.
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? Second time I masturbated I came.
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? It was a surprise and it frightened me.
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? A little guilty at first but I got over it quickly
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? Almost every day
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? No
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? Depended on the situation. Usually in my underwear
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? No hard porn. Sears and JC Penney catalogues. I developed an affinity for women's wrestling and would buy a magazine that came out monthly that had a feature in it called apartment house wrestling in which the women "wrestled" in bikinis.
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had.
Always. Most of my fantasies revolved around my best friend's mom. I use to fantasize about her wrestling other women and being dominated by them. I also would fantasize about wrestling with her myself. Also fantasized about cumming on her breasts.
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? Mostly one method
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did? Changed some. I enjoy edging now. Also use lube.
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? Like most everyone else I worried about my parents catching me. No inhibitions now. My wife is well aware and she is fine with it.
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel?
Again this involves my friend's mom. I was 17 and my family belonged to a swim club. They had these cabanas we rented for the season and shared with my friend's family. We could get changed in there and keep towels in there. One of the benefits of belonging to the club was seeing my friend's mom in a bathing suit all the time. Would always go home with a hard on and stroke thinking about her. So one day she has on a new leopard pattern one piece that is really low cut and that shows almost every bit of her 36D breasts. Well I decided not to wait until I go home. I go inside the cabana and sit on the chair. Pull my bathing suit down and start stroking knowing it's not going to take long. Well, idiot that I was I forgot to lock the door. I'm just about ready to cum and doesn't she come walking through the door! She says "Oh my!" and quickly jumps back out and closes the door. I was horrified of course and did stop. Quickly pulled up my bathing suit and opened the door. She's standing out there and just says "I didn't see a thing" and she goes by me and gets a fresh towel and just goes back to her chair. So she was cool about it. As far as I know never said anything to my mother or anyone else. It was a little awkward for the next couple weeks but she didn't act any differently towards me. I'm sure it would have been a different story if she knew I was thinking of her while I was stroking.
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? When I was younger sometimes.
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? No
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? 13-25
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? Less frequent. I take my time more. I enjoy it more now also.
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? No fear of getting caught.
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating Positive
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of? Not at all
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? Always enjoyed it but more so now.
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) Married and yes she knows
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? Couple times per week
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? 3 hours
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? 6 hours
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? In bed. During the day.
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves Usually in the same way. I sometimes look at videos of women wrestling. Also have several pics of my friend's mom when she was younger that I utilize.
45. What are your reasons for masturbating?
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
I just enjoy it

46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? It varies
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? Yes
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? Depends
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? Yes. Like I said a couple questions ago I have several favorite pics I like to look at.
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? Always do that and it definitely enhances
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? No
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? Fortunately no
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? Sometimes a little drips out
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? No
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? Not usually
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? Yes but that was when I was much younger
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? No
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? No
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? Both
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? Bith
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? Bith
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? Firm but gently
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? Don't care either way
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? No
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? Yes, again when I was much younger
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants Yes
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? No
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? No
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? No. But I did get a hold of my friend's mom's bra when in my teens and used that to stroke with
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? No
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? No
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming? The feeling
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? I edge so it takes a while
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? 3
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? Yes
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? No
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? Yes
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? No
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat Phone
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched No
83. Have you ever watched another man No
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? Seperate
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? Yes
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn More
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know (best friend's mom)
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
88. What activities do you fantasise about? My friend's mom being dominated by another woman in a wrestling match. Cumming on my friend's mom's breasts.
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? Usually involved in that I select who my friend's mom is going to wrestle.
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? See above.
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? Both
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had?
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? I can do with or without
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? Images and videos.
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? Photoshop is a wonderful thing. As I said I have several pics of my friend's mom from years ago. I use them to actually put her in pics of women wrestling. Of course she is always on the receiving end.
96. Is it hard or soft? Soft
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) Neither
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? She knows and is fine with it
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming? No
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age. Yes and it is more important
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? No Do you wake up with an erection? Sometimes
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger? More edging and longer sessions
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past? Not quite as strong
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner? Yes
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)? No

 

105 question are you crazy!

 

About You:
1. How old are you? 4x
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? single
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? no
4. Do you masturbate? maybe 35 years ago
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? I don't know, I didn't care
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating? no
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it? no, I dont know
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? I didn't care
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? I knew
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? nothing, maybe I was 5
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl? yes
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? very good
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? few times
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? yes, always
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? no
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? no
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? first orgasm maybe 5, first ejaculation 12
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself? yourself
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience I do not remember
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? first: dry
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? excited
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? I m a king lol
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? yes, every day
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? no
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? no, naked
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? no
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had. yes, too dirty
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? both
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did? no changed
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? no, but fear
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel? yes, too dirty, fun
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? no, why?
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? yes, many boys, few girls
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? maybe 8-18
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? varies
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? ?
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating more positive
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of? never lol
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? varies
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) single
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? every day
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? varies
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? maybe one hour
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? varies
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves yes, no
45. What are your reasons for masturbating? Because sex with a partner is not available
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? no
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? yes
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? both
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? yes, varies
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? yes, varies
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? no
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? no
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? no
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? no
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? yes, varies
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? yes
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? no
58. Do you masturbate: varies
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? yes
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? dry, precum
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? both
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? hand
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? varies
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? both
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? yes, no
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? yes
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants yes
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? only tired
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? yes
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? never
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? silent
72. When you stroke yourself, do you: varies

Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? no
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming? fun
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? 15-20 mins
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? maybe 8
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? varies
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? no
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? yes
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? yes
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat no
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched yes
83. Have you ever watched another man yes
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? both
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? yes
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn varies
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy

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88. What activities do you fantasise about? too dirty
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? both
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? too dirty
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? both
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had? too dirty
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? yes, no, both
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? varies
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? too dirty
96. Is it hard or soft? hard
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) varies
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? yes, approve? why?
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming? yes
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection?
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger?
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past?
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner?
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)?