MEN 105 Questions About You & Masturbation

105 Questions - Men and Masturbation Survey

I found this poll recently and thought it would fit here. It’s for men to answer but ladies can comment on the responses. I think one for women will be available soon. Please be frank & honest.

About You:
1. How old are you?
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship?
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation?
4. Do you masturbate?
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted?
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating?
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it?
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking?
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves?
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation?
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl?
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating?
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission?
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why?
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this?
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating?
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm?
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself?
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum?
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened?
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive?
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate?
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else?
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed?
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm?
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had.
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful?
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did?
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out?
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel?
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why?
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl?
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most?
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited?
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that?
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of?
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was?
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?)
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month?
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last?
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session?
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate?
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves
45. What are your reasons for masturbating?
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank?
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment?
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection?
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last?
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum?
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen?
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm?
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm?
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating?
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve?
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore?
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why?
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator?
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry?
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands?
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers?
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly?
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to?
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking?
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes?
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis?
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)?
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties?
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing?
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly?
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming?
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum?
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session?
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation?
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure?
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches?
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated?
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched
83. Have you ever watched another man
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate?
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation?
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
88. What activities do you fantasise about?
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer?
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about?
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see?
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had?
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you?
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature?
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve?
96. Is it hard or soft?
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different)
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove?
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming?
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection?
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger?
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past?
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner?
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)?

 

Oh my this is long... maybe later lol.

 

105???
Good lord.... some editing is in order

 

Very detailed but too long.

 

Another f**king long-assed poll!

 

Don't worry a bit, there are people here who love to be assigned homework

 

About You:
1. How old are you? 57
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? Married
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? No
4. Do you masturbate? Yes
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? Normal, just something you kept to yourself.
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating? Yes. Gave me a book called " A doctor talks to a 12 year old.
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it? I am sure they knew.
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? We compared notes. They were as intrigued as I was.
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? I used to think only guys. Then once I fingered a girl to orgasm, I knew they must masturbate too.
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? Not too much.
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl? Yes, Yes & Yes
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? Just knew it felt great!
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? Yes
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? Yes. Horny I guess.
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? No.
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? Erection yes.
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? 10 .Ejaculated at 14.
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself? We humping a pillow on my parents bed looking at a Hustler magazine.
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience It just kept feeling better and better ntil my cock exploded on the pillow. I was sooo shocked.
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? Just a few minutes.
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? Surprise. Amazed.
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? Guilty but intrigued.
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? Yes. Every chance I could.
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? Yes. Friends.
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? No. Naked completely.
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? Hustler magazine. Was helpful.
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had. Pictured myself fucking the model in the magazine.
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? Only a pillow until my wife introduced me to oil jobs. I may have used my hand a few times, but usually just the pillow.
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you first did? I now mostly use my hands.
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? Yes.
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel? I am sure my Mom opened the door on me humping. My wife has caught me a few times.
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? No. I like it.
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? Yes. A male friend in HS and my wife now regularly. I had GFs that we masturbated each other.
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? Now.
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? Less inhibited now. I know it is normal .
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? I jsut changed the method though experience.
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating? More positive.
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you should have grown out of? No. Why would you?
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? More.
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) Married and yes she knows.
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? Daily +
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? 20 minutes
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? All day.
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? Home office and mornings.
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves Usually a porn vid and some stroking.
45. What are your reasons for masturbating? Feels awesome!
· To relieve stress Yes
· Because sex with a partner is not available Sometimes
· To do things not possible with a partner Sometimes
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself Yes
· Other Yes
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? Just being horny. Usually in the mornings if alone. Afternoon mutual with the wife.
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? Yes
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? Both
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? Yes. Porn.
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? 3 times. Yes makes it more exposive.
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? Yes but not often.
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? Sometimes
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? Sometimes
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? Yes using a prostate massager.
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? I have. I usually have 5-6 orgasms if time allows it.
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? Yes.
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? No.
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up Yes
· Lying face down Yes
· Lying on your side Yes
· Standing Yes
· Sitting Yes
· Kneeling Yes
· Humping a pillow Yes
· Other Yes
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? Yes. Flesh lights and other pocket pussies.
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? Both.
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? Right, left pushing down on balls.
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? Both
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? Both
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? Yes.
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? Yes & Yes.
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? I have.
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants Yes.
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? Yes.
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? Yes.
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? No x3.
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? Yes grunting , panting , talking to the video.
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans Yes
· Concentrate on your glans Sometimes
· Stroke both the shaft and glans Sometimes
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls Sometimes
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus) Sometimes
· Play with your anus Yes
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach Yes
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus Yes
· Grip the base of your shaft Yes
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft Yes
· Use a cock ring Yes
· Use a band around your cock and balls Sometimes
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? Sometimes
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming? Touching yourself.
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? 20 minutes.
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? 14
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? Yes with prostate massage.
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? Yes I do and yes it does.
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? Yes
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? Yes
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat Yes
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched Yes
83. Have you ever watched another man Yes
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? Intergal.
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? Yes.
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn Maybe.
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons Yes
· A celebrity Yes
· Someone you know Yes
· A past lover Yes
· Your partner Yes
· An anonymous or non-specific person Yes
· A body part such as breasts or pussy Yes
88. What activities do you fantasise about? Being caught or watching.
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? Yes.
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? Being caught or watching.
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? Fantasize.
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had? MM
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? Yes. I can do without it.
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? Sometimes
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? Being a voyeur or being caught jerking off. Sometime fucking someone or being seduced.
96. Is it hard or soft? Hard.
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) Yes.
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? She accepts it. She knows.
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming? Yes.
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age No. I enjoy it too much.
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection? No . Sometimes.
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger? Yes. Use hands now. Pillow when younger.
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past? Sometimes and usually.
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner? Yes.
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)? No , it is in addition.

 

About You:
1. How old are you? 39
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? Married
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? Not really
4. Do you masturbate? Yes
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? Sinful
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating? They didn't really talk about it
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it? They knew but didn't say anything
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? Didn't talk about it but we all did it
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? Thought only guys did it
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? Very little
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl? Had only seen naked women in magazines
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? Didn't really think about it
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? Yes
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? Yes, normal teenage years
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? Knew that some did but didn't realize how many
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? No
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? 14 to both
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself? Had been watching a porn I found and wanted to see if I could make the "white stuff " come out
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? Managed to cum but it took around an hour
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? Surprised when it finally shot out, excited and maybe felt a bit guilty
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? Felt guilty
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? Became regular, 1-2 times a day
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? Told no one
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? Sometimes quick, sometimes took my time and usually naked
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? Mostly playboys and Victoria secret catalogs
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had.
Didn't really fantasize
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? Mainly one method
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did? Changed significantly
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? Never inhibited, did it late at night or when no one was home
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel? Caught once by a roommate and once by my mother in law. Felt very embarrassed, especially with mother in law
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? Tried when I was younger just bc I thought I was the only one doing it
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? Yea, have done it with other men and with my wife
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? College
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? Less inhibited and probably less frequent
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? Older, sexual partner
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating? More positive
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of? No
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? More
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) Married, yes she does
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? 2-3 times a week
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? Depends, sometimes 10 minutes sometimes a couple of hours
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? 6 hours
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? Usually in the bathroom or bedroom and at night
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves.
Mostly the same way, watch porn or go to a chat room
45. What are your reasons for masturbating?
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
Mainly to relieve stress and I enjoy it
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? No set routine. Usually seeing an attractive woman triggers it
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? Yes
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? Stimulate myself to erection
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? Usually a few minutes to get ready
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? I do edge, do it multiple times and definitely enhances
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? Sometimes but rarely
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? Sometimes yes
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? No
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? No
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? Never
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? Yes
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? When younger bc I felt guilty
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
Sitting
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? Yes
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? Usually dry
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? Right hand
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? Whole hand
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? Firm but gentle
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? I look
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? Watched, videoed and photographed
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? Yes
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants? Yes
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? Yes
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? Yes
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? Yes to all
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? Moan a little sometimes
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
Usually just grip my shaft, sometimes play with my anus
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? Yes
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming? The fun and pleasure
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? Depends, usually about an hour
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? Just one
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? No
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? Moan sometimes
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? Yes
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? Yes
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat? Yes
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched? Yes
83. Have you ever watched another man? Yes
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? Integral
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? Sometimes
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn? More important
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
Women I know
88. What activities do you fantasise about? Sex with others
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? Involved
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? My sister in law or mother in law
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? Enjoy what i see
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had? Circle jerk over a woman
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? I watch, not essential though
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? Images and videos
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? Mainly masturbate to trans porn
96. Is it hard or soft? Hard
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) just different
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? She knows I watch from time to tine
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming? Yes
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection?
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger?
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past?
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner?
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)?

 

105 Questions - Men and Masturbation Survey
About You:
1. I am 66.
2. I am single and not in a sexual relationship.
3. No
4. I do masturbate.
5. I personally didn't see anything wrong with it. It just seemed natural.
6. After my mother had caught me doing it at the age of 11, she told me about the 'facts of life', and said there was nothing wrong in what I was doing.
7. See above.
8. I don't recall ever discussing it.
9. Yes I did, my mother told me so.
10. When I started at the age of ten I knew nothing about sex or biology.
11. My mother told me everything I needed to know about sex and biology when I was 11. I was about nine when I first saw a naked woman and man. I woke up one night to the sounds of moaning coming from my mother's bedroom. I found her bedroom door ajar, so I simply went in to find my mother naked, astride a naked man laying on her bed. They failed to see me at first, so I got a eyeful of my mother's large breasts bouncing about as she humped the man. When she did see me she shrieked and got off the man. I then for a moment saw her bushy pubes, and the man's erect penis. I was 11 when the 11 year old girl living next door to me showed me her pussy. She asked if I wanted to touch it, but I declined.
12. I felt very comfortable about my body and the pleasure I obtained from my penis.
13. By the time I would have been experiencing emissions, I was already an established masturbator, therefore had few 'nocturnal emissions'.
14. My first experience of arousal occurred when I looking at the models wearing women's underwear in my mother's clothing catalogue. That led me to playing with my penis as I ogled the models. As I did so my penis became hard, and my plying with it produced a pleasurable feeling in my groin. It became a regular habit after that, especially after my first orgasm, albeit a dry one.
15. No.
16. The first time I saw a man with an erection was the night I entered my mother's bedroom and caught her having sex, I chanced to see the man's erect penis.
17. I was ten when I began to play with my penis for pleasure. I had had my first orgasm not long after, a dry one. I had just gone 11 when I had my first ejaculation.
18. See answer 14.
19. When I began to play with my penis I did so for the pleasure I felt, it wasn't long after that I had an erection, which gave me more pleasure as I stroked it. It was not long after when I had my first orgasm, but it was some months before I began to ejaculate.
20. I did not know at the time what it was I ejaculated, I knew it wasn't pee. From the start I loved the sticky stuff.
21. I don't know what I felt at the time, I do know I didn't feel dirty.
22. My masturbatory sessions became more frequent after my first orgasm, twice a day most days. After I began to ejaculate it became a daily routine, 3-4 times a day.
23. I didn't mention it to anyone, nor discuss it until my mother caught me doing it, then we had a lengthy discussion on the matter.
24. You could say I was furtive about it, it was something I did in private, in my bedroom, my mother's bedroom when she was out, in the bath, and frequently on the toilet, in my early days that is. It depended where I did it as to the nature of my dress. In the bath I was naked, on my bed or my mother's bed I was often wearing my Y fronts, or naked.
25. At first I masturbated while looking at the models in underwear in my mother's clothing catalogue. Later at school in the school toilets I would masturbate with the aid of the naturalist magazine 'Health and Efficiency' or the occasional copy of the men's glamour mag 'Spick' or 'Span', that could be found stuffed behind the cistern. I would occasionally take the mags home to enjoy in my room.
26. I sometimes fantasised while I wanked, but I couldn't possible discuss what I fantasised about.
27. I did occasionally hump a pillow or cushion, or the mattress, but I mostly stuck to the hand method. Since those early days I have used masturbatory toys.
28. As I said above I have experimented, but on the whole I have always preferred skin on skin.
29. At first I feared if that's the right word of being caught, for I felt it was a private pleasure.
30. Just before my 12th birthday my mother caught me masturbating on her bed. When alone in the house I often went into my mother's bedroom and lay on her bed in my Y fronts looking at the models in her clothing catalogue as I played with my penis. On the day it happened, a Saturday I think, my mother would go out to the shops, an errand that took her at least 30 minutes. I went into her bedroom wearing only my Y fronts, laid on her bed with the catalogue, and began to masturbate. I was so engrossed in my activity that I didn't hear her return early. It wasn't until she opened the bedroom door and saw me that she had come home. I was too far gone to stop, she just stood there with a look of surprise rather than shock as I climaxed and ejaculated into a pair of her panties wrapped around my penis. "Sorry love, I forgot my purse", was all she said at that moment. She picked up her purse off her dressing table and left to go to the shops. I was hugely embarrassed by the episode, so much so I couldn't face her when she returned home. She later came to my room where she sat on my bed and told me all she knew about biology and sex. She was OK with what she had witnessed and confessed to doing the same on a regular basis.
31. I have never tried to stop or restrict the number of times I do it.
32. Over the years I have enjoyed mutual masturbation with men and enjoyed masturbating in the presence of women.
33. The peak of my masturbatory life came between the ages of 18 and 21/22. At that time I was masturbating up to six times a day, more on some days.
34. My masturbation hasn't changed much, only in frequency. In my teens and twenties I would masturbate 3-4 times a day, at it's peak up to six times a day. In my thirties and forties 3 times a day, occasionally 4 times. Now in my sixties I regularly masturbate twice a day, and sometimes 3 times a day every day. I am far more relaxed about it, but I've never felt inhibited bout doing it.
35. It has only changed in frequency due to a lower libido caused by age, though I think twice a day, every day at my age is an achievement.
36. I feel very positive about my habit.
37. I thought I might, but thankfully I didn't.
38. I began to enjoy it more as I got older.
39. I am single.
40. I need to masturbate at least twice a day, therefore 14 times a week at least.
41. A typical session these days lasts about two hours, but with edging can last up to six. No 'quickies' these days.
42. After I discovered edging I pushed the limits as far as I could, my longest session lasted 12 hours.
43. These days now I'm retired I usually have a two hours session after breakfast, and a longer 3-4 hours session in the evening. During the warmer weather I often need another two hour session after lunch. I generally masturbate in my room these days.
44. My masturbatory techniques have changed little over the years. In my younger days I did experiment, but now my habits are fixed. I retire to my room, sit at my desk, switch on my laptop, and log into one of the numerous porn sites I subscribe too. I drop my jeans get my penis out of my Y fronts, and begin stroking it as I watch the porn.
45. The reason I masturbate is because I enjoy it.
46. I masturbate when I'm horny, though these days I have something of a routine due to my domestic circumstances.
47. Yes, you could say so.
48. I am often already erect when I begin.
49. I am easily aroused and often horny.
50. I do 'edge' in order the prolong the pleasure and intensify the orgasm. I also ejaculate more when I do.
51. I never lose interest.
52. Depends on how long I've allowed for a 'recovery' time, especially these days.
53. I only cum without an orgasm when I massage my prostate.
54. Not since I was 11.
55. I have in the past when my 'recovery' period was less, been able to achieve another orgasm shortly after the first, but not these days.
56. Often in the past, and caused my penis to ache.
57. Never tried to stop, why should I? I enjoy it far too much.
58. I have masturbated in various positions, but these days I sit at my computer and do it while I watch porn.
59. I have in the past used male masturbators and sex toys such as butt plugs and dildos.
60. I use baby oil these days, though I have experimented with various lubes in the past.
61. I always use my left hand to masturbate even though I'm right handed.
62. I have a small penis so I only use my fingers.
63. Firm, but gentle.
64. I often look at my hand when masturbating.
65. I have watched myself in a mirror, but never filmed myself.
66. I have masturbated through my clothes, usually in a public place like a cinema, on a bus or a train.
67. Often.
68. I have, yet unsuccessfully.
69. I have often tasted my own semen.
70. I often use a pair of woman's panties to masturbate with, usually an unwashed pair that I sniff before hand. I also wear women's panties when I masturbate as well as other times.
71. I don't make sounds.
72. When I stroke my penis I tend to concentrate on the glans, I also like to play with my balls. I have in the past fingered my anus, used a butt plug, and cock rings.
73. In the past I've had 'quickies', but these days I prolong the pleasure.
74. I get a lot of pleasure touching myself, but the main pleasure comes with orgasm.
75. It all depends on how long a session I have. I edge myself to prolong the inevitable as long as possible.
76. In the past I've had a number of orgasms during a session depending on it's length. The most I've ever had is six in an eight hour session. Those were the days!
77. I've never achieved what's called multiple orgasms in one climax.
78. I sometimes moan when I cum.
79. I have masturbated in front of others, but never a partner.
80. I have and occasionally do indulge in mutual masturbation.
81. No
82. Yes, often.
83. Yes, often.
84. My sex life revolves around my masturbation.
85. No.
86. I don't fantasise these days.
87-92. See answer 86.
93. Pornography is essential these days.
94. I view images and videos.
95. Women in their underwear, men and women having sex. lesbian sex, women masturbating, Tranny sex, and men masturbating.
96. Preferably hard-core, with some underwear glamour as an aperitif.
97. Better with porn.
98. I don't have a partner.
99. Yes, I like to watch other guys masturbate and cum.
100. As I've got older my libido is not what it was, therefore I don't need to masturbate as often. It is still an important part of my life.
101. I'm not as horny as I was, but I am still easily aroused, and yes I often wake up with an erection.
102. Not a lot differently, just less frequent.
103. I still have powerful orgasms, but my ejaculations lack power and are less copious.
104. I don't have a partner. Masturbation is my sex life.
105. I've never had a partner. Masturbation is the only sex life I've had.

 

I didn't think it possible to have 105 questions about men jerking off...six or seven tops...

 

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About You:
1. How old are you? 59
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? Married
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? Yes
4. Do you masturbate? Yes
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? Normal
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating?
Never spoke about it
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it? I think they suspected.
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? Never spoke with anyone else about it
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? Didn't know
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? Nothing
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl? I knew a little. Yes I had seen the body of an adult woman. I had seen a girl my age boobs. Yes I had touched a girl.
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? I figured out I liked it
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? No
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? Often. Whenever I saw a well endowed adult woman

15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? No
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? No
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? About 11
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself?
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
No one told me about it. I had seen my best friend's mom that day. She had on a tight red sweater and I couldn't stop staring at her breasts. That night in bed I was thinking about it and started rubbing my penis against the bed. It felt good. I climaxed but didn't ejaculate.
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? Second time I masturbated I came.
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? It was a surprise and it frightened me.
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? A little guilty at first but I got over it quickly
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? Almost every day
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? No
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? Depended on the situation. Usually in my underwear
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? No hard porn. Sears and JC Penney catalogues. I developed an affinity for women's wrestling and would buy a magazine that came out monthly that had a feature in it called apartment house wrestling in which the women "wrestled" in bikinis.
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had.
Always. Most of my fantasies revolved around my best friend's mom. I use to fantasize about her wrestling other women and being dominated by them. I also would fantasize about wrestling with her myself. Also fantasized about cumming on her breasts.
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? Mostly one method
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did? Changed some. I enjoy edging now. Also use lube.
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? Like most everyone else I worried about my parents catching me. No inhibitions now. My wife is well aware and she is fine with it.
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel?
Again this involves my friend's mom. I was 17 and my family belonged to a swim club. They had these cabanas we rented for the season and shared with my friend's family. We could get changed in there and keep towels in there. One of the benefits of belonging to the club was seeing my friend's mom in a bathing suit all the time. Would always go home with a hard on and stroke thinking about her. So one day she has on a new leopard pattern one piece that is really low cut and that shows almost every bit of her 36D breasts. Well I decided not to wait until I go home. I go inside the cabana and sit on the chair. Pull my bathing suit down and start stroking knowing it's not going to take long. Well, idiot that I was I forgot to lock the door. I'm just about ready to cum and doesn't she come walking through the door! She says "Oh my!" and quickly jumps back out and closes the door. I was horrified of course and did stop. Quickly pulled up my bathing suit and opened the door. She's standing out there and just says "I didn't see a thing" and she goes by me and gets a fresh towel and just goes back to her chair. So she was cool about it. As far as I know never said anything to my mother or anyone else. It was a little awkward for the next couple weeks but she didn't act any differently towards me. I'm sure it would have been a different story if she knew I was thinking of her while I was stroking.
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? When I was younger sometimes.
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? No
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? 13-25
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? Less frequent. I take my time more. I enjoy it more now also.
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? No fear of getting caught.
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating Positive
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of? Not at all
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? Always enjoyed it but more so now.
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) Married and yes she knows
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? Couple times per week
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? 3 hours
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? 6 hours
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? In bed. During the day.
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves Usually in the same way. I sometimes look at videos of women wrestling. Also have several pics of my friend's mom when she was younger that I utilize.
45. What are your reasons for masturbating?
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
I just enjoy it

46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? It varies
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? Yes
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? Depends
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? Yes. Like I said a couple questions ago I have several favorite pics I like to look at.
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? Always do that and it definitely enhances
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? No
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? Fortunately no
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? Sometimes a little drips out
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? No
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? Not usually
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? Yes but that was when I was much younger
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? No
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? No
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? Both
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? Bith
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? Bith
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? Firm but gently
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? Don't care either way
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? No
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? Yes, again when I was much younger
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants Yes
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? No
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? No
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? No. But I did get a hold of my friend's mom's bra when in my teens and used that to stroke with
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? No
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? No
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming? The feeling
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? I edge so it takes a while
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? 3
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? Yes
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? No
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? Yes
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? No
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat Phone
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched No
83. Have you ever watched another man No
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? Seperate
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? Yes
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn More
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know (best friend's mom)
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
88. What activities do you fantasise about? My friend's mom being dominated by another woman in a wrestling match. Cumming on my friend's mom's breasts.
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? Usually involved in that I select who my friend's mom is going to wrestle.
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? See above.
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? Both
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had?
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? I can do with or without
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? Images and videos.
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? Photoshop is a wonderful thing. As I said I have several pics of my friend's mom from years ago. I use them to actually put her in pics of women wrestling. Of course she is always on the receiving end.
96. Is it hard or soft? Soft
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) Neither
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? She knows and is fine with it
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming? No
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age. Yes and it is more important
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? No Do you wake up with an erection? Sometimes
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger? More edging and longer sessions
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past? Not quite as strong
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner? Yes
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)? No

 

105 question are you crazy!

 

About You:
1. How old are you? 4x
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? single
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? no
4. Do you masturbate? maybe 35 years ago
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? I don't know, I didn't care
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating? no
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it? no, I dont know
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? I didn't care
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? I knew
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? nothing, maybe I was 5
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl? yes
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? very good
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? few times
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? yes, always
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? no
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? no
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? first orgasm maybe 5, first ejaculation 12
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself? yourself
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience I do not remember
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? first: dry
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? excited
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? I m a king lol
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? yes, every day
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? no
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? no, naked
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? no
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had. yes, too dirty
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? both
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did? no changed
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? no, but fear
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel? yes, too dirty, fun
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? no, why?
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? yes, many boys, few girls
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? maybe 8-18
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? varies
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? ?
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating more positive
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of? never lol
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? varies
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) single
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? every day
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? varies
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? maybe one hour
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? varies
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves yes, no
45. What are your reasons for masturbating? Because sex with a partner is not available
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? no
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? yes
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? both
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? yes, varies
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? yes, varies
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? no
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? no
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? no
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? no
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? yes, varies
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? yes
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? no
58. Do you masturbate: varies
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? yes
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? dry, precum
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? both
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? hand
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? varies
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? both
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? yes, no
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? yes
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants yes
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? only tired
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? yes
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? never
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? silent
72. When you stroke yourself, do you: varies

Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? no
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming? fun
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? 15-20 mins
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? maybe 8
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? varies
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? no
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? yes
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? yes
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat no
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched yes
83. Have you ever watched another man yes
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? both
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? yes
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn varies
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy

all

88. What activities do you fantasise about? too dirty
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? both
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? too dirty
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? both
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had? too dirty
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? yes, no, both
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? varies
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? too dirty
96. Is it hard or soft? hard
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) varies
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? yes, approve? why?
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming? yes
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection?
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger?
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past?
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner?
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)?

 

105 Questions - Men and Masturbation Survey
A bit too long but stimulating

About You:
1. How old are you? 73
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? Married
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? I did when young
4. Do you masturbate? Oh Yes!
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? Yes
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating? Repressive
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it?
As far as I am aware they didn't know and I certainly would not have wanted them too. I was uninhibited when I wanked if I was certain I was alone and would not be disturbed but took great pains to obviate being caught
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? Boys at school were always boasting about wanking but they did it quickly and furtively and clearly felt guilty, For most the fact that it was 'dirty' was what made it exciting
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? No, the prevailing view of girls and men was that they were virginal and innocent. I didn't know that girls did it until m first sexual encounter (mutual masturbation) at 17
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? Not much, no sex education, but I read a lot of biology books
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy? Had you touched a girl? Not an adult. At 13 I saw an older girl's boob as a swimming pool and a girl let me feel don her knickers [panties in the USA!] several times when I was 11
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? Good, I felt pretty positive
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? Yes, before I started masturbating to ejaculation
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? Teenage guys are such a cauldron of hormones it's wonder we can walk properly! Even the most modestly erotic sight [e.g. stocking top or glimpse of underwear] or idea produced and instant and prodigious erection and a massive hard on regularly appeared without any stimulus and often at the most inappropriate moment! I was relieved when my mother agreed to buy me briefs rather than shorts underwear as they kept an ertion firmly and more discretely anchored!
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? Yes. I discovered how to masturbate by myself and found out about ejaculation and orgasm this way but started because I knew other guys ere already doing it
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? Once when about 11 the older cousin of a friend (about 14 I guess) invited a group of us into his bedroom then got his cock out and started to stroke it. I recall being shocked at how large and stiff it was and the veins sticking out around his shaft. he invited us to stroke it but we declined and left him to it but I wondered if I would ever have a cock like that!!
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? 13
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself? As indicated, I knew men did it and that my schoolmates were doing it before I started but I discovered it for myself
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
I tried several times without success for several months and was desperate to find out what all the excitement was about. Eventually one day I was examining my penis when I discovered how to touch it that was so exciting I just carried on until suddenly I exploded into a massive orgasm.
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? Answered - several months of trying
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? I knew about cum, that you released semen as I had been nocturnally but I had no idea about ejaculation or orgasm, its ferocity and intensity. I was amazed and excited
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? It felt magnificent, potent and empowering. It as totally guilt free and so exciting to know that from now on this intense pleasure was mine to have whenever I wanted
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? Goodness YES! I did it evry opportunity I got, evreey day and often several times
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? No I was happy it was my secret
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? Initially and preferably naked or in my underwear taking as long as I could to enjoy touching myself but, later, when I could not be sure of not being disturbed I did it quickly to reach orgasm and without undressing
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? No, in a small town porn was impossible to obtain and would certainly have been discovered. Like so many of my generation, used the underwear adverts in magazines and catalogues
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had. Sometimes - I imagined a girl in her undies and had a long running fantasy of masturbating in front of a group of women
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? I always wanted to be able to vigorously rub the hole of my shaft but couldn''t do it until I discovered baby oil! Istuck mainly to a trusted method but experimented eagerly
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you first did? I masturbated stimulating my glans (head) for more than 20 years until I was circumcised
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? Only when I was not sure if I would not be interupted
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel? Nearly a few times but fortunately not
31. Did you ever try to stop the bedroom, or limit your solo pleasure? Why? No
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? My first girlfriend and then a girl I had known for years
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? When I left home at 20
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? It has chnged ith age and experience, is not more or less inhibited and is still frequent
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? I have learned new qnd varied ways of pleasuring myself
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating More
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of? Absolutely not, it is a vital and invigorating essential to a healthy life
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? Still enormously enjoyable but sadly not as intense as when I was younger
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) Married - she doesn't know but probably suspects
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? Depends on circumstances but around 2-4 times a week
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? 20 minutes, longer if circumstances allow
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? In my teens, 20's and 30's well over an hour and often several in succession
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? In the bedroom, study or bathroom. No specific time
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves I like to vary so masturbation does not become formulaic but, inevitably, there is a usual pattern = A look at soft porn images (usually newly sourced online), red mild erotica or fantasise until I am aroused. Then I undress and cress myself through my underwear until I am well on the way usually whilst watching my favourite videos or images then I remove or pull down my underwear and manipulate my erect cock to slowly reach orgasm when I concentrqte on intensifying the orgqsm and watch my mayself ejaculate
45. What are your reasons for masturbating? it is relaxing, reduces stress, is good for prostate health, make me feel alive, potent and empowered and it is intensely and unashamedly enjoyable
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? As above no set routine or time. Nothing 'triggers' the desire/need to wank if I am in the mood I will masturbate and usually am in the mood
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? Oh Yes, anticipation has always being exciting and increases desire and pleasure
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? In the past I was always massively erect as soon as I started. Now I often have to help my cock get started (ant tips here that others want to give ould be gratefully recieved)
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? Definitely, a period of gentle arousal such as surfing the net or reading stuff like this is part of the fun, I've always preferred t tke my time and enjoy sex (solo and partnered) not rush to cum
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? I often do 2 or 3 times maybe and it des enhance the final climax
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? Everyone does fr many reasons but still today not often
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? Sometimes but not too often, it is possible to ejaculate without orgasm....
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? ....and orgasm without cum
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? sometimes
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? I could and did often both in sex and masturbation when I was younger. Now I can orgasm and start again an hour or so later
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? No
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? I tried a couple of times when I was young to 'save'myself for a girfriend.
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
I have masturbated in all these ways over the years but face down, on my side and with a pillow only a few times
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? Yes, my wife's vibrator and she bought me masturbatory sleeve but they dont do much for me
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? Both. I wait until I start to handle my naked erection before I know how I want to masturbate each time and have no preference
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? Mostly my dominant hand but sometimes the other or both
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? Fingers - love the thought and sensation of using the whole hand but only so when I am entering orgasm unless using a lubricnt
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? Vigorously and roughly has been a wish since I first started masturbating but it rarely works for me and I need a light slow touch
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? When I first started I preferred not to but now it is a key part of masturbation especially at the point of orgasm
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? From the start I loved to look at my naked erection in the mirror and often watched myself masturbate and still do regularly
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? Often aqnd it is a regular factor in masturbation in my later period but I do not cum into my underear
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants As a youth I often had to masturbate this way so that, if I was in danger of being caught, I could dress quickly. It was not how I wanted to wank but was nonetheless exciting sometimes
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? Wo hasn't been intrigued by the thought but it is not possible
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? I did after my first masturbation to orgasm
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? The idea of aa man wanking whilst wearing women's undies is ludicrous. I have often sniffed my wife's panties and used them to stroke myself. Stealing/using a woman's panties without her knowledge or permission is perverse and wrong
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? This has been covered and, yes, vocalising whilst you masturbate is highly arousing
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
All those highlighted are part of my regular masturbation. Applying pressure to the perineum. the base of my shaft and applying pressure to my stomach at the base of the shaft intensifies orgasm especially the perineum which also delays it.
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? Of course, but not often
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming?The long process of self loving is best but orgasm is the essential concusion
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? That depends on what I want and am feeling. At least 20 minute
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? Masturbatory, three over an hour plus.
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? Yes in my prime
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? I always moan and nearly always vocalise what is happening and what I am feeling. The following is a fictional example of how that might go - Heightened Arousal / Approaching Orgasm "God I'm SO hard, my cock feels So good" Entering Orgasm Phase "Oooh I'm gonna cum" then "Here I cum, Here I cum!" Whilst Ejaculating/Orgasming "I'm cumming, I'm cumming Oooh, Ooh, So Good, So intense!"
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? Often, its aamzingly sey and intimate
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? Of course! My first serious girlfriend and I when I was 17 used to undress and masturbate each other. I can vividly remember how fabulous it felt with my fingers in her wet vulva as her fingers gently flickered up and down my penis stood upright in my lap. I used to cum prodigiously
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat No
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched No
83. Have you ever watched another man No
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? Both
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? It's there, not essential but part of early arousal
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn Less
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
88. What activities do you fantasise about?
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer?
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about?
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see?
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had?
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you?
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature?
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve?
96. Is it hard or soft?
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different)
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove?
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming?
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection?
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger?
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past?
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner?
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)?



2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship?
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation?
4. Do you masturbate?
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted?
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating?
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it?
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking?
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves?
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation?
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl?
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating?
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission?
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why?
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this?
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating?
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm?
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself?
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum?
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened?
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive?
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate?
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else?
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed?
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm?
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had.
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful?
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did?
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out?
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel?
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why?
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl?
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most?
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited?
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that?
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of?
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was?
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?)
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month?
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last?
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session?
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate?
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves
45. What are your reasons for masturbating?
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank?
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment?
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection?
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last?
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum?
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen?
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm?
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm?
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating?
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve?
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore?
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why?
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator?
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry?
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands?
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers?
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly?
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to?
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking?
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes?
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis?
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)?
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties?
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing?
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly?
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming?
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum?
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session?
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation?
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure?
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches?
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated?
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched
83. Have you ever watched another man
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate?
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation?
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
88. What activities do you fantasise about?
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer?
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about?
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see?
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had?
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you?
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature?
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve?
96. Is it hard or soft?
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different)
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove?
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming?
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection?
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger?
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past?
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner?
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)?

 

That is a lot of questions. I am going to take this survey later and complete it while I edge/masturbate.

 

05 Questions - Men and Masturbation Survey
A bit too long but stimulating

About You:
1. How old are you? 73
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? Married
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? I did when young
4. Do you masturbate? Oh Yes!
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? Yes
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating? Repressive
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it?
As far as I am aware they didn't know and I certainly would not have wanted them too. I was uninhibited when I wanked if I was certain I was alone and would not be disturbed but took great pains to obviate being caught
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking? Boys at school were always boasting about wanking but they did it quickly and furtively and clearly felt guilty, For most the fact that it was 'dirty' was what made it exciting
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? No, the prevailing view of girls and men was that they were virginal and innocent. I didn't know that girls did it until m first sexual encounter (mutual masturbation) at 17
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? Not much, no sex education, but I read a lot of biology books
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy? Had you touched a girl? No
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? Good, I felt pretty positive
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? Yes, before I started masturbating to ejaculation
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? Teenage guys are such a cauldron of hormones it's wonder we can walk properly! Even the most modestly erotic sight [e.g. stocking top or glimpse of underwear] or idea produced and instant and prodigious erection and a massive hard on regularly appeared without any stimulus and often at the most inappropriate moment! I was relieved when my mother agreed to buy me briefs rather than shorts underwear as they kept an erection firmly and more discretely anchored!
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? Yes. I discovered how to masturbate by myself and found out about ejaculation and orgasm this way but started because I knew other guys ere already doing it
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? Once when about 11 the older cousin of a friend (about 14 I guess) invited a group of us into his bedroom then got his cock out and started to stroke it. I recall being shocked at how large and stiff it was and the veins sticking out around his shaft. he invited us to stroke it but we declined and left him to it but I wondered if I would ever have a cock like that!!
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? 13
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself? My cock of course
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
I tried several times without success for several months and was desperate to find out what all the excitement was about. Eventually one day I was examining my penis when I discovered how to touch it that was so exciting I just carried on until suddenly I exploded into a massive orgasm.
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? Answered - several weeks of trying
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? I knew about cum, that you released semen as I had been nocturnally but I had no idea about ejaculation or orgasm, its ferocity and intensity. I was amazed and excited
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? It felt magnificent, potent and empowering. It as totally guilt free and so exciting to know that from now on this intense pleasure was mine to have whenever I wanted
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? Goodness YES! I did it every opportunity I got, every day often several times
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? No I was happy it was my secret
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? Initially and preferably naked or in my underwear taking as long as I could to enjoy touching myself but, later, when I could not be sure of not being disturbed I did it quickly to reach orgasm and without undressing
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porn? No, in a small town porn was impossible to obtain and would certainly have been discovered. Like so many of my generation, I used the underwear adverts in magazines and catalogues
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had. Sometimes - I imagined a girl in her undies and had a long running fantasy of masturbating in front of a group of women
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? I always wanted to be able to vigorously rub the hole of my shaft but couldn't do it until I discovered baby oil! I stuck mainly to a trusted method but experimented eagerly
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you first did? I masturbated the same way for more than 20 years until I was circumcised
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? Only when I was not sure if I would not be interrupted
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel? Nearly a few times but fortunately not. The fear of being caught was inhibiting
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? No
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? My first girlfriend and then a girl I had known for years
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? Initially and then when I left home at 20
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? It has changed with age and experience, is not more or less inhibited and is still frequent
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? I have learned new and varied ways of pleasuring myself
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating More
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you should have grown out of? Absolutely not, it is a vital and invigorating essential to a healthy life
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? Still enormously enjoyable but sadly not as intense as when I was younger
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) Married - she doesn't know but probably suspects
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? Depends on circumstances but around 2-4 times a week
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? 20 minutes, longer if circumstances allow
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? In my teens, 20's and 30's well over an hour and often several in succession
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? In the bedroom or bathroom. No specific time
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves I like to vary so masturbation does not become formulaic but, inevitably, there is a usual pattern = A look at soft porn images (usually newly sourced online), red mild erotica or fantasise until I am aroused. Then I undress and caress myself through my underwear until I am well on the way usually whilst watching my favourite videos or images then I remove or pull down my underwear and manipulate my erect cock to slowly reach orgasm when I concentrate on intensifying the orgasm and watch my myself ejaculate
45. What are your reasons for masturbating? it is relaxing, reduces stress, is good for prostate health, make me feel alive, potent and empowered and it is intensely and unashamedly enjoyable
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? As above no set routine or time. Nothing 'triggers' the desire/need to wank if I am in the mood I will masturbate and usually am in the mood
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? Oh Yes, anticipation has always being exciting and increases desire and pleasure
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? In the past I was always massively erect as soon as I started. Now I often have to help my cock get started (ant tips here that others want to give would be gratefully received)
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? Definitely, a period of gentle arousal such as surfing the net or reading stuff like this is part of the fun, I've always preferred t take my time and enjoy sex (solo and partnered) not rush to cum
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? I often do 2 or 3 times maybe and it des enhance the final climax
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? Everyone does for many reasons but not often
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? Sometimes but not too often, it is possible to ejaculate without orgasm....
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? ....and orgasm without cum
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? sometimes
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? I could and did often both in sex and masturbation when I was younger. Now I can orgasm and start again an hour or so later
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? No
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? I tried a couple of times when I was young to 'save' myself for a girfriend.
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
I have masturbated in all these ways over the years but face down, on my side and with a pillow only a few times
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? Yes, my wife's vibrator and she bought me masturbatory sleeve but they don't do much for me
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? Both. I wait until I start to handle my naked erection before I know how I want to masturbate each time and have no preference
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? Mostly my dominant hand but sometimes the other or both
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? Fingers - love the thought and sensation of using the whole hand but only so when I am entering orgasm unless using a lubricant
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? Vigorously and roughly has been a wish since I first started masturbating but it rarely works for me and I need a light slow touch
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? When I first started I preferred not to but now it is a key part of masturbation especially at the point of orgasm
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? From the start I loved to look at my naked erection in the mirror and often watched myself masturbate and still do regularly
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? Often and it is a regular factor in masturbation in my later period but I do not cum into my underwear
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants As a youth I often had to masturbate this way so that, if I was in danger of being caught, I could dress quickly. It was not how I wanted to wank but was nonetheless exciting sometimes
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? Who hasn't been intrigued by the thought but it is not possible
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? I did after my first masturbation to orgasm
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? Personally, the idea of a man wanking whilst wearing women's undies is ludicrous. I have often sniffed my wife's panties and used them to stroke myself. Stealing/using a woman's panties without her knowledge or permission is perverse and wrong
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? This has been covered and, yes, vocalising whilst you masturbate is highly arousing
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
All those highlighted are part of my regular masturbation. Applying pressure to the perineum. the base of my shaft and applying pressure to my stomach at the base of the shaft intensifies orgasm especially the perineum which also delays it.
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? Of course, but not often
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming?The long process of self loving is best but orgasm is the essential conclusion
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? That depends on what I want and am feeling. At least 20 minute
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? Masturbatory, three over an hour plus.
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? Yes in my prime
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? I always moan and nearly always vocalise what is happening and what I am feeling.
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? Often, its amazingly sexy and intimate
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? Of course! My first serious girlfriend and I when I was 17 used to undress and masturbate each other. I can vividly remember how fabulous it felt with my fingers in her wet vulva as her fingers gently flickered up and down my penis stood upright in my lap. I used to cum prodigiously
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat No
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched No
83. Have you ever watched another man No
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? Both
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? It's there, not essential but part of early arousal
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn Less
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons Sometimes. Past lovers/women I knew. A fictional person or anonymous things like panties, boobs r pussy
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
88. What activities do you fantasise about? Masturbating while a group women watch, being masturbated by a woman
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? Involved
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? Qs 88
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? No
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had? Being made to cum while 3 women strip
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? Not always
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? Images (usually vintage) and video clips
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? Mainly women fingering to orgasm and always homemade amateurs
96. Is it hard or soft? Only ever soft
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) Different, it depends on mood
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? No and Yes
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming?No but have done a few times
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age It is slightly less now, it is as important as it always has been
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection? I always up hard but arousal is not otherwise as spontaneous
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger? Yes
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past? Sadly but inevitably not
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner? Yes
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)? No



2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship?
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation?
4. Do you masturbate?
Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted?
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating?
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it?
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking?
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves?
Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation?
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl?
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating?
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission?
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why?
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this?
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating?
Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm?
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself?
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum?
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened?
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive?
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate?
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else?
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed?
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm?
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had.
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful?
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did?
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out?
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel?
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why?
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl?
Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most?
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited?
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that?
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of?
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was?
Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?)
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month?
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last?
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session?
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate?
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves
45. What are your reasons for masturbating?
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank?
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment?
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection?
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last?
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum?
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen?
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm?
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm?
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating?
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve?
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore?
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why?
58. Do you masturbate
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator?
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry?
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands?
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers?
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly?
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to?
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking?
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes?
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis?
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)?
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties?
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing?
72. When you stroke yourself, do you
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls
Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly?
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming?
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum?
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session?
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation?
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure?
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches?
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated?
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched
83. Have you ever watched another man
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate?
Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation?
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
88. What activities do you fantasise about?
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer?
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about?
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see?
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had?
Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you?
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature?
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve?
96. Is it hard or soft?
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different)
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove?
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming?
Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection?
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger?
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past?
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner?
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)?

 

About You:
1. How old are you? 68
2. Are you single, married, in a sexual relationship? Single(Divorced)
3. Do you belong to a religion, ethnic group or community with specific attitudes to sex and masturbation? I did, that's why I am no longer religious.
4. Do you masturbate? Yes, often

Attitudes to Masturbation:
5. When you were growing up and first discovered masturbation was it seen as normal and acceptable or sinful, dangerous, dirty or perverted? Sinful, dirty and perverted
6. Did your parents have positive or repressive attitudes to sex and mastturbation? Did they tell you anything about touching your penis or masturbating? They were repressive and told me that masturbation was bad and that touching my penis for that purpose was bad.
7. Once you’d started, did your parents/family know you masturbated? How would you have felt if you had discovered that they knew or if they had challenged you about it? They did not know about it, but suspected that I did (I hid it well). If they knew I would have felt guilty and ashamed, but it wouldn't have stopped me.
8. How did other young men you knew feel about masturbating? Did they feel ashamed or guilty about wanking?Some felt guitly and ashamed and wouldn't admit that they did it. Others acted as if it was the most normal thing and no big deal doing it!!
9. Did you know that girls also masturbated or did you think that it was only young men who played with themselves? I knew what female genitalia looked like, but I never knew that they masturbated because they didn't have any external genitalia to play with.

Education:
10. When you started masturbating, how much did you know about sexual biology, sex and masturbation? I didn't, I was just amazed by the fact that my penis would get stiff and that it felt good when I rubbed it.
11. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, did you know anything about female biology? Had you seen the body of an adult woman? Had a girl of the same age shown you her boobs or pussy?Had you touched a girl? I knew they had breasts and that their genitals were different than boys. Yes, I has seen my mother nude when I was a child and I had peaked on my older sister a couple times. No, I had not yet to touched a girls breasts or genitals or see a girl my age naked.
12. By the time you reached puberty and sexual awareness, how did you feel about your body, your penis, sex and masturbating? I was rather thin as a teen and didn't really like my body, but I was amazed by my penis and loved it. I masturbated quite often and loved it, but I didn't have an sexual experiences with girls until my mid teens.
13. Did you experience ‘wet dreams’ and nocturnal emission? Wet dreams are nocturnal emissions and yes I experienced quite a few!!
14. Did you experience unexpected erection and arousal? When and why? Yes, I experienced unexpected and unwanted erections and arousal quite often and they happened anywhere and any time!!
15. Prior to starting to masturbate, did you know that men or other boys did this? No
16. Prior to starting to masturbate or experimenting with touching yourself, had you seen another man/boy with an erection or masturbating? No

Starting to Masturbate:
17. How old were you when you first started to play with your penis or tried to masturbate? How old were you when you first masturbated to ejaculation and orgasm? I started "playing with myself" when I was 6. The first time that I masturbated to orgasm was about 9 (it was a dry orgasm). The first time that I masturbated and ejaculated was 13.
18. What led you to start? Did someone tell you about it, show you, masturbate you or in front of you or did you discover it yourself? I discovered at a very young age that it felt amazing to rub my penis. I would just rub it and fondle it. Soemtimes I would hump my pillow or my bed. Eventually some older boys described to me "the correct way" to do it.
Please feel free to explain or describe your experience
19. Did you orgasm the first time or did it take a while before you ejaculated and orgasmed? If so, how long was it before you managed to Cum? The first time that I had an orgasm I hadn't reached puberty yet! Once I started puberty it took a couple years before I had an orgasm with an actual ejaculation. Prior to my first ejaculation, I produces a lot of precum.
20. The first time you reached orgasm and ejaculated, did you know what it would involve or was it a surprise? What was your reaction? Were you amazed, excited, or frightened? I experienced my first dry orgasm before puberty so I did not know what was happening and I was shocked, frightened and very surprised. Once I got over that and had my second dry orgasm I was excited and amazed! The first time that I ejaculated I was totally shocked, frightened and amazed.
21. Once you had started or experienced masturbation to orgasm, how did you feel about it? Did you feel dirty, guilty, ashamed or was your reaction guilt free or positive? I felt guilty and ashamed because I loved it so much and my parents had taught me that it was perverted, dirty and disgusting.
22. After you had discovered masturbation to orgasm, did it become a regular activity. Was it frequent and how often did you masturbate? Yes, it became a regular and frequent pastime. I masturbated at least two times a day, once when I woke up and once when before going to sleep at night. Some days I would masturbate multiple times.
23. Did you tell others that you masturbated? Did you discuss it with anyone else? No, I did not discuss it with others and no I did not tell anyone else that I masturbated.
24. Did you masturbate furtively or hurriedly? Were you naked, in your underwear, dressed? I have always like taking my time while masturbating. I like to prolong the period of enjoyment as long as possible. I masturbated clothed, in my underwear and completely naked. It depended, and still does where I was at.
25. Did your early/initial masturbatory experiences involve the use of porn? How important was it for you? What porn did you use – underwear adverts and catalogues, soft porn, hard porm? Before puberty all it involved was the thought of playing with my penis and I would immediately become erect. Sometimes it didn't even take that. After I reached puberty I would use Playboy magazines.
26. Did you fantasise when you wanked? Was fantasy important? Describe the fantasies you had.Yes, I definitely fantasized. It was not necessarily important because looking at the photos of naked women was generally enough. The fantasies were of me having sex with the naked women that I was looking at or of me having sex with some of my gorgeous, female school mates.
27. Did you experiment with different ways to bring yourself off or stick with the one method that had proved successful? I pretty much stayed with the tried and true hand stroking method, but I did fucking some things a few times.
28. Has your masturbation changed significantly since then or do you still mainly wank as you firsst did? I still masturbate as I did back then, but somewhere along the line I switched hands. I think that had to do with the fact that I'm right handed and I can't type while I masturbate with my right hand. So, I had to switch to masturbating left handed.
29. Was your masturbation inhibited? Did you fear getting caught or found out? No, my masturbation was not inhibited, but I did fear getting caught.
30. Were you ever caught wanking? If so, what happened? How did it make you feel? I was caught once by my older sister. I was lying on my bed completely naked and masturbating. As I neared orgasm I became oblivious to my surroundings. When I reached orgasm I heard a loud gasp as I let out a loud moan and I squirted semen all over my chest and stomach. When I regained my composure, I turned my head to see my sister standing in my bedroom doorway with a shocked look on her face. She grinned sheepishly, turned and walked away without saying a word. At first I felt ashamed and humiliated, but once I got over that I thought it was funny.
31. Did you ever try to stop or limit your solo pleasure? Why? I have never stopped, but there have been times when I cut back significantly. I slowed down because I was having sex with different women too often I didn't need to masturbate.
32. Did you ever engage in mutual masturbation with someone else? If so, was it another male/males or a girl? Yes, one of my old girlfriends and I would masturbate together, for each other and in front of each other.

Masturbation History:
33. At what point in your life did you masturbate the most? During puberty.
34. Has your masturbation changed since those early experiences? Is it different? Is it more or less frequent? Is it more or less inhibited? No, it has not really changed. It is less frequent. I went from at least twice a day during puberty to about 4 times a week at 68. My masturbation has never been inhibited.
35. If your masturbation has changed, why is that? It didn't change.
36. Do you feel more or less positive about masturbating I feel much more positive about it now. I always knew that it was fun, but over the years I have learned that masturbation is completely normal, natural, healthy, you won't go to hell because of it and that almost 100% of the human race has done it at least once, if not on a regular basis!!!
37. Do you think that masturbation is something you whould have grown out of? No, I love playing with my penis!!
38. Is masturbation more or less enjoyable than it was? Truthfully, I think that it is more enjoyable because I have gotten over the feelings of shame and guilt about masturbation that were drummed into my head as a child.

Masturbation Now:
39. Are you single, married / in a relationship (if so, does your partner know you masturbate?) Single (divorced)
40. On average how often do you masturbate in a week or month? Roughly 4 times a week
41. How long does a masturbation typically session last? It varies, but none are shorter than 2 or 3 hours.
42. What’s the longest time you’ve spent on a single masturbation session? 12 hours
43. Where do you masturbate? When do you usually masturbate? Sitting in front of my computer. I usually masturbate in the morning or early afternoon.
44. Do you always masturbate in the same way? Describe what a typical masturbation involves Yes I always masturbate pretty much the same way. My sessions involved edging for hours.
45. What are your reasons for masturbating? 2 reasons, because a sex partner is not available and the main reason, I love making love to myself and it's fun playing with my penis!!
· To relieve stress
· Because sex with a partner is not available
· To do things not possible with a partner
· Because you enjoy making love to yourself
· Other
46. Is your masturbation a set routine? Do you have a set time/date for masturbating or do you respond to when you get aroused? If so, what things trigger you want to wank? No set routine and no set date and time.
47. Is knowing you are going to masturbate later a part of the enjoyment? Yes, I get aroused thinking about masturbating at a later time.
48. When you start masturbating are you already erect or do you stimulate yourself to erection? I have done it both ways.
49. Do you have an arousal phase where you get yourself excited and ready to wank such as reading erotica or looking at porn? What does it involve and how long does it last? No, I just decide I'm going to masturbate and then I start reading erotic or looking at porn.
50. Do you ‘edge’ – masturbate to nearly cumming then stop, wait and start again? If so, how many times would you do this before allowing yourself to cum? Does it enhance orgasm when you finally cum? Yes, I always edge. I don't count how many times I start and stop, but I do it for hours at a time. Yes, it enhances the orgasm and the subsequent ejaculation!!
51. Do you ever start to masturbate but lose interest? How often does this happen? Yes, not very often.
52. Do you ever have trouble reaching orgasm? NO
53. Do you sometimes cum but without orgasm? NO
54. Do you ever orgasm without ejaculating? Not after reaching puberty.
55. Do you ever masturbate to orgasm then start again to another orgasm? How often do you do this? How many orgasms would you typically achieve? Yes I have. I have only done it a few times and I could only manage 2 orgasms and ejaculations in a row.
56. Have you ever masturbated so much you made yourself sore? Yes, I once masturbated and edged for 12 hours and my penis was sore for a couple days.
57. Have you ever tried to give up masturbating? Why? No, why would I??
58. Do you masturbate Generally, sitting in front of my computer looking at porn or reading things on sites like Hip Forums.
· Lying down face up
· Lying face down
· Lying on your side
· Standing
· Sitting
· Kneeling
· Humping a pillow
· Other
59. Do you/have you used a sex toy or male masturbator? No, never had the need for one. I like feeling my erect penis in my hand.
60. Do you use a lubricant or wank dry? Dry, but I produce volumes of precum.So what I don't eat ends up lubricating my penis naturally.
61. Do you always use the same hand? Do you use both hands? Yes, I always use my left until I near orgasm and then I switch to my righ
62. Do you touch your cock with your palm/whole hand or your fingers? The tips of my fingers and thumb.
63. Do you touch your cock, gently/lightly, firm but gently, hard or roughly? When I'm masturbating I prefer gently and lightly.
64. Do you look at your hand stroking your cock or prefer not to? I love looking at my penis while I masturbate. I love looking at my penis period!!!
65. Do you or have you ever watched yourself wanking in a mirror? Have you videoed or photographed yourself wanking? Yes to all three.
66. Do you or have you ever masturbated through your clothes? NO
67. Do you or have you ever masturbated with your cock protruding from out of your trousers or underpants YES
68. Have you ever tried to suck your own penis? Yes, when I was much younger and I actually succeeded. I would suck my own penis often.
69. Have you ever tasted your semen (cum)? Yes, all the time.
70. Have you ever masturbated using a pair women's panties to stroke with? Masturbated while wearing a woman's panties? Masturbated while sniffing a woman’s panties? No to all three
71. While you are masturbating do you make any sounds? Do you vocalise how it feels or what you are doing? I don't generally vocalize anything while masturbating, but I do make a lot of noise when I orgasm and ejaculate!!
72. When you stroke yourself, do you I generally just stroke the shaft, but I will occasionally use one of my fingers mid stroke to wipe the precum from the tip and smear it onto the shaft.
· Stroke your shaft but not your glans
· Concentrate on your glans
· Stroke both the shaft and glans
· Touch, cup, stroke or play with your balls
· Touch/caress /apply pressure to the perineum (the space between the scrotum and anus)
· Play with your anus
· Touch/caress other parts of your body such as your nipples, buttocks, stomach
· Use a butt plug or something inserted in your anus
· Grip the base of your shaft
· Apply pressure to your stomach at the base of your shaft
· Use a cock ring
· Use a band around your cock and balls

Your Orgasm:
73. Do you ever wank just to reach orgasm quickly? No, I enjoy the process as much as the end result. So most of my sessions last hours before orgasm!
74. What is more important, the fun/pleasure of touching yourself or actually cumming? Both are equally important, but nothing compares to an earth shattering orgasm!!!
75. Usually how long after you start stroking do you cum? 2 or 3 hours
76. What is the most orgasms you’ve had in a single session? 2
77. Have you ever achieved multiple orgasms through masturbation? Not at the same time. I have reached one orgasm and then started over immediately and then reached another.
78. Do you make any sound when you orgasm (cum)? What? Is vocalising your orgasm important, does it heighten/intensify your pleasure? I can be very vocal during orgasm.
79. Do you/have you ever masturbated while a partner watches? Yes, my ex and I used to masturbate for each other quite often.
80. Do you/have you ever mutually masturbated? Yes, my ex and I used to masturbate together quite often as a precursor to sex.
81. Have you masturbated on the phone or video chat Yes, video chat.
82. Have you ever masturbated while a man watched Yes, on Skype.
83. Have you ever watched another man I've seen it in porn.
84. Is masturbation an integral part of sex with a partner or entirely separate? Entirely separate.

Fantasy:
85. Is fantasy integral/essential to your masturbation? It can be, but not always.
86. Is fantasy more or less important than porn About the same, depending on the situation.
87. Do you fantasise about another person or persons Certain celebrities, certain nude models (not necessarily porn) and breasts and pussies!!
· A celebrity
· Someone you know
· A past lover
· Your partner
· An anonymous or non-specific person
· A body part such as breasts or pussy
88. What activities do you fantasise about? Receiving a blowjob, performing cunnilingus, intercourse.
89. Are you involved in your fantasy scenario or an observer? I am always a participant!!
90. What are your common or most frequent fantasies about? Same as question 88
91. If you are looking at porn as you masturbate, do you fantasise about the person or situation in the image/video or just enjoy what you see? Can be either, depending on the situation.
92. What is the wildest fantasy you’ve had? Either a 69 or trading blowjobs with a beautiful trans woman.

Pornography:
93. Do you use pornography when you masturbate? Do you always use it? Can you masturbate without it or is it essential for you? Yes, I use pornography. I generally always use it in some manner or form. I can masturbate without it, but what fun would that be?
94. If so, is it images, videos, GIFs, Erotic Literature? All of those!!
95. What images, scenarios, etc. does your porn involve? Naked women and women masturbating to orgasm. Heterosexual blowjobs, handjobs and vaginal intercourse. Lesbian sex.
96. Is it hard or soft? Both
97. Is masturbation better with porn, better without or neither (just different) I would have to say better with some type of porn, either visual or written.
98. If you have one, does your partner know that you masturbate to porn? Would she approve or disapprove? Does not apply.
99. Do you ever look at pictures/videos of cocks and/or men masturbating and cumming? Yes

Older Men (50plus):
100. Has your masturbation reduced as you got older? Is masturbation more, less important? Has its purpose or significance changed with age Yes it has reduced, just because of time constraints. Masturbation is more important these days. No, it's purpose has not changed, but it has gotten more significant.
101. Do you have trouble getting aroused or erect? Do you wake up with an erection? No and yes.
102. Do you masturbate differently now than when you were younger? Yes, I am much more into edging and long session masturbation than I was when I was younger. I like to string out the enjoyment of stroking my penis for hours.
103. Do you ejaculate as forcefully and as copiously as you did when you were younger? Are your orgasms as strong as in the past? My ejaculations are not as forceful or copious as when I was younger, but they are stronger and more intense now than they were then!!
104. Do you have a regular sex life with a partner? Regretfully, not at this time.
105. Is masturbation a replacement for a reduced sex life (fucking)? Yes and no!!