Mechanical Problems with Vaginal Rear Entry

My wife and I have been married for 35 years, have good orgasmic sex a couple of times a week. Absolutley no complaints.

I'd like to have rear entry vaginal sex -- not really "doggie style," but more the backward spoon. In view of our ages it looks like it would be less strenuous for both of us, and also a change from the few positions we do use.

My wife, however, says her vagina "goes the wrong way." I've tried to research this on the internet and found nothing. I had rear entry vaginal sex frequently with my former wife, so I think I know how to do it. And I've had experiences with vaginas (although not for 35 years) -- and all feels deliciously normal to me.

Any mechanical suggestions on what we may be doing wrong? Does she need to make some sort of adjustment to her placement?

I know it's a weird question -- but hoping someone may be able to assist. Thanks!

 

You could try her laying facing down on the bed with you on top of her. This makes her feel tighter and it’s one of my favourites. Or if you prefer to be on your sides. Get her to bring her knees up to her chest as far as you can. That may help allow you in at an easier angle for her.

 

Thank you for the practical suggestions. We shall do some experimentation during our next session.