ok i had this dream last night and i was eating out a girl i knew back in high school. she was two years behind me and very promiscuous. but last night in my dream i was eating her out and i liked it alot in the dream. it was so vivid too. i could see everything... she was completely naked.. i'm not sure if i was. she had this sly smile on her face the whole time i ate her out... she also kept playing with my hair. oh, and along with eating her out, i was fingering her.. AHH! what does this mean? i have no idea... i've never even been with a girl. i've thought about experimenting but i have never even gotten close. i've never even kissed a girl! hellpppppp!
It's said that many dreams are in the form of wish-fulfillment. Maybe you're curious about experimenting with other girls. If you feel that way, then go for it. It would have been healthier to have been eating broccoli or carrots.
Cool dream! I think that dreams can either have no meaning at all, and just be a random collection of images that your mind sorta "organizes" to seem coherent... or something like what that other guy said about "wish fulfillment." I definitely have had dreams that I wish were real, or that reflected things I actively wish for in real life. It doesn't mean you're gay. It may mean that you have curiousities, though -- even if they do not rise to the level of anything you'd ever act on. Dreams are a safe, unassailable playground. You can do whatever you want there, and no harm done. I am not gay, haven't ever kissed a guy, or touched a guy's genitals... but I've had a few dreams in which I did suck a guy off. In the DREAM, I find it kinda exciting. In real life, I don't want to do it. Go figure. -Jeffrey
haha i'm not worried about being a lesbian.. i know i'm not but i just found the dream pretty odd. thanks for the great advice everyone! especially peacefuljeffery!
Maybe you should relive the dream and then go from there. Hey it can't hurt. It won't mean your a lesbian either. Worth a try I think.
Hey i had a dream relatively similar where i was eating a girl out and it was so explicit, and i’ve been having thoughts about my sexuality for a long time now, im in a relationship with my boyfriend have been for nearly 3 years. but these lesbian thoughts have like come out of nowhere within the last year or 2; after i had the dream i thought about it and i liked the dream and the whole concept of it but then i felt so much guilt for enjoying the dream and waking up to think about it and enjoy it more, I feel so bad because i love my boyfriend so so much; i couldn’t talk to him about this dream. and i know a dreams harmless it means nothing but this isn’t my first dream i’ve had like it.
Wow the last post before yesterday on this thread was almost 16 years ago! How in the world did you find it? At any rate welcome to hip. This can be a fun place. Folks come in here from all over the world and have lots of interesting perspectives. I hope you stick around and enjoy yourself. As far as your dream - its just that. I don't know anyone who can control what pops into their head while they are sleeping. At worst you are a bit bi-curious.
