me and my boyfriend looking for company?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by xox.chrissie.xox, Jun 28, 2011.

  1. xox.chrissie.xox

    xox.chrissie.xox Member

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    haha yes we just make one up :)

    ooooooh really not fair you get organised threesomes, and yet i havnt managed to get one yet, really should go out more often i guess..on the hunt lol but sounds like you had a great time :tongue: ..xox
     
  2. Puddloflaj18

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    I wouldn't have the guts to go round seeing who would be up for it!
    I'm sure there's plenty of people who would love to.
    Go partying, have to find one person! Haha
     
  3. RickyRicardo

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    You'll find the third wheel, don't worry :)
    Oh I had a ball, yes. :2thumbsup:
     
  4. xox.chrissie.xox

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    haha why not, we want to try and have one and find someone, so only way really is to be upfront i guess, :) yes partying is deffinately on the cards soon..xox
     
  5. xox.chrissie.xox

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    lol theyll hardly feel the third wheel though, joining in a lot :) ..so how did you start your first ever threesome? just get down to it straight away or what haha..xox
     
  6. Puddloflaj18

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    I'd only be happy having the third being someone I trust. So yeah fair enough xD.
     
  7. RickyRicardo

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    Well they will be the third wheel, but still join in a lot :)

    I was at my girlfriend's house, and her friend came over unexpectedly to do some things, and collect some material - then as she was about to leave, she went to go and use the bathroom, and we could hear her moaning upstairs as she fingered herself.

    My girlfriend went upstairs to investigate, and opened the door and saw her, than whispered to her 'Why don't you let us do that for you?'
    So, it started from there.
    We proceeded to fuck.

    For someone who is mostly attracted to girls though, my girlfriend's friend knows what she's doing, hehe - as does my girlfriend of course :)
    The sex with her is amazing.
     
  8. xox.chrissie.xox

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    oooh what an unexpected way to start it off, :p
    do you ever prefer sex with just one of them? like both feel different right? i know your in a relationship and are faithful but just speaking about the sex here lol ..xox
     
  9. xox.chrissie.xox

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    ye idealy id like someone who i really trust and know where theyve been kind of thing, but ive tried a threesome before with my ex and a close mate. basically it didnt work, my ex really liked my friend and said he fancied her to me, whilst we both were trying to sleep :/ so kinda weird if i got a friend involved again ..xox
     
  10. RickyRicardo

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    Yeah, it was rather unexpected, but it added some spice :p

    When it comes to the sex side of things, I'd honestly prefer sex with my girlfriend, than her friend - and even during the threesomes, I fuck my girlfriend more often than her friend (most of the time in fact).

    Though both do feel different, yes.
     
  11. zerojanai

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    So it seems the consensus is that friends may have difficulties with attachment issues, yet they can be among the most trustworthy. Personally I would lean to having a friends join in before a stranger. Plus it would be enjoyable to be able to have it as an open possibility for future fun in the bed (or outside!)

    Hmmmm. Well I suppose I am probably thinking about this a little too much. Currently my other half has only expressed interest in an additional partner a few times. There is a female friend that may fit the bill, yet I personally have my doubts about her as open communication is not where I would feel comfortable with including her in anything yet. Oh well! :)

    Mobile
     
  12. xox.chrissie.xox

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    i bet it did :D

    ye id guess you would, and thats great :) also like to hear you fuck your girlfriend more lol, think id prefer that in a threesome, afterall he is my boyfriend :p..xox
     
  13. xox.chrissie.xox

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    its easier to say you want a threesome and with a friend than actually getting round to doing it for me. i actually have no female friends in mind that wed both want to join us. as for males i have a few of those who would openly accept the invite, but like i say only looking for a women :)
    of course id like to do with a friend, hence you trust them know where theyve been but i dont think its going to happen right now.
    what if i find someone we have a threesome, or get to know them on the basis we want on haha.

    you and your partner spoke properly about a thressome together? first we just mentioned it from time to time, that sat and spoke about it..xox
     
  14. RickyRicardo

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    My girlfriend's great in bed - so the more fucking, the better :D
    Then again, you can never say no to threesomes either. :2thumbsup:
     
  15. zerojanai

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    Yeah- we've both had some chats while we were pretty horny, but in all seriousness it may be strictly fantasy. I hope not though- as a threesome sounds like a lot of fun!

    Tell me, if you find someone new that you want to join in the bedroom fun- how would you image involving them when not in bed? Would you hang out casually, or have it as a strict sex only deal?
     
  16. xox.chrissie.xox

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    ye i know what you mean, not all things are serious when your both extremely horny talking about them, hopefully for you though it wont just be a fantasy :)

    i dont know as for the involving them, depends who it was with. obviously prefer not to be a close friend so probably wouldnt be hanging about with eachother, not for proper friend days anyway. mainly just stick to the sex side of it only, less strings attached then which to me is the best way if your in a relationship already..xox
     
  17. xox.chrissie.xox

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    haha very true, not many people would turn one down im sure..xox
     
  18. RickyRicardo

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    I actually know of a few that will, and do turn down threesomes.
    I know of more girls that will turn down threesomes than guys though - seeing as more guys are eager to try that sort of thing.
     
  19. Mr.Writer

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    I've turned down every threesome offered to me (all were ffm) for various reasons, usually because the girls were complete sluts and that's an instant boner killer for me.
     
  20. Shazz1993

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    I'd say go for it. I'd love to have affm with my hubby.
     

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