Mature Married Men Curious

Go for it. Contact him and get things going. He was interested, you were. Forget that covid slowed things down, get back to living what you want.

Just some encouragement for the day

 

After almost 10 years of no sex from the wife, yes, I have fantasies and thoughts, and have been having such now for years. I'm 55 y/o and fantasize about a man who I would initially share those fantasies with, and then he would exploit those and... well, ...

 

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My thoughts were once only of women now they are only of sucking other men.

 

I get that.

 

After almost 10 years of no sex from the wife, yes, I have fantasies and thoughts, and have been having such now for years. I'm 55 y/o and fantasize about a man who I would initially share those fantasies with, and then he would exploit those and... well, ...

I'd be open to a discussion of this and other topics, here or in person.

 

I get that, as do many here within the forum. Long periods of no sex with my ex-wife had the very same effect on me as I found myself enjoying mutual oral with other married men in the same situation.

 

I had bi curious feelings when I was younger, but had to supress them. Because at the time I didn't know anyone bi or gay (or at least willing to admit it), I live in the Bible Belt, and have plenty of relatives I refer to as `Jesus freaks' (ie, overly religious and believe that homosexuality is a sin, amongst other things). These feelings started to come back several years ago, soon before I met my now wife online. Still, didn't do anything about it, and they went away again. I didn't dare tell her or anyone else that I was bi curious, and kept it to myself. The last two to three years, the feelings have come back, but stronger than ever before. I'm seriously conflicted, because I am frustrated because I love my wife, but crave sex with a man. And just sex, not any kind of relationship. If she ever found I felt this way, she would kill me. I know, because she gets jealous easy. Found this out when we were out and ran into one of my female cousins she hadn't met before. I really wish I had some friends who are bi (or gay) in real life who could help me figure out how to deal with this. (And no, I don't necessarily mean by them fucking me.) I want anal sex bad. I've stated several times in the past that I have no real interest in sucking cock unless its mutual (ie, 69ing), but I've watched a few videos lately that have changed my mind. I really want someone else's cum in my mouth....as well as a hard cock in my ass. I also don't drive due to medical issues (brain damage from an accident), which makes things more complicated. I know a handful of cruising locations, but most are monitored by park rangers or police, so I would be reluctant to go there even if I did. And I don't know of any gay/bi clubs for 50+ around here.....

All I do is share pictures, for the moment. Though I have had `text sex' with a couple of people online. NOT the same thing, by any means.

 

Finally went for it and emailed him just now. Hope he responds, he was such a great guy.

Hope you’re having an awesome day!

 

Way to go, I hope everything works out. This helps make my day awesome, thank you. I hope yours is as well. Good luck!!!!

 

Been reading A lot of these threads on here.As I have got older the more I want to try this,seems to be a lot of like-minded guys out there.Anyone with advice how to get this fantasy into reality?would be keen to hear others thoughts and stories cheers

 

Same here

 

I believe part of the allure is the fact that you don't have to go through a lot of bullshit, just to get a good blowjob. What married guy has the time and money to spend on another woman, just to get laid? When a gay friend jokingly said he would be happy to help out, my simply said "go ahead". After a while the offer appealed more and more, especially since my wife was into it. She thought it would be a great solution for both our friend and myself. I have to agree . Since she was good with it and Im too old to give a shit anymore, the appeal turned into a desire. Sucking a cock turned out to be a "unique experience" and well worth the effort. Its not something I get to do that often, but when it happens its a good experience.

 

Hey fellas,
I'm one!!! And damn proud of being bi, but it was brought on even stronger once my beautiful wife lost interest in making love, having sex...we've talked about it and like a lot of you, resentment, angry thoughts, etc... I believe some of you have or is already there. All I can say, is we all have ONE life...ONE! So make the damn BEST of it, you answer to one and that's you at the end of your life

 

You're right! Time to look at things a little different. Past experiences were enjoyable. There is no reason that I couldn't find a new friend in the same predicament. Im just not out there like I used to be. Maybe someone on the pickleball court.

 

I was 61 on a business trip out of state, my curiosity got the better of me and feeling safe that nobody would find out, I answered an ad on Craigslist and invited a guy to my hotel room. It was even better than the fantasy. I am now retired and find it very difficult to get away from my wife. Do it’s been a couple of years since I had a BJ from a guy. I really want to be with a submissive guy, but.,. I know it can be hard. But if you really want it, just do it next time you feel safe enough to get away with it. Jump in head first!

 

Love that you said this. We're in the same age range. This turns me on like crazy. Good for you.

 

Jcinalco, has he written you back?
Please update us & good luck!

 

Unfortunately he never wrote back.

Been too busy with work and other things going on in life to get out and meet guys. Kinda frustrating in a way. But life is good. Thanks for asking!