Masturbation secret...

I was never ashamed, but approx. I talked about it until I was 13.

 

I’ll talk about it and do it in front of anyone tbh

 

Some might be quiet about it because of who they are with

 

My wife is the same. She considers it cheating.

She didn't masturbate growing up. I tried to ease her into it and encouraged her to get a vibrator. I was hoping to incorporate it into our foreplay, but she just can't do it in front of someone.

So, now, we both masturbate but NEVER talk about it. It's pretty sad.

 

:-(

 

Among friends I have no issues talking about Sex or jacking off. Never made a secret out of it.

 

Never hid my masterbating from my girlfriend. We mutual masterbate often. We watch porn, read erotic short stories and often roll play. I love it when she masterbates laying beside me with her vibrators and dildos talking dirty lost in her fantasy. She has sexy lingerie and naughty school girl costumes I love.
When I masterbate alone, I like to txt her and tell her how hard my cock is looking at her pictures or videos.
One of my fantasies is her walking in on me masterbating to her.

 

My half sister was divorced and came to stay for a while. She talked about sex all the time with me, her sounding board. She was obviously frustrated. I asked if she masturbated. No, no wouldn't do that.
The door to her room was ajar so I opened it to tell her dinner is on. There she was going at her clit like she wanted to break it. Shock horror. The secret was out. Still I knew of course she got off by herself.
One evening she had gone to bed, the door was ajar just a crack. I came out of the bathroom on a bath robe and I had a hard on. I'll give you something to grind off over, I thought. Standing facing the cracked open door where she could potentially see me, I opened my robe and stood there for a few seconds with my cock throbbing so she could see, then went to bed. I had to pull off slowly over that, knowing she would be fingering the life out of her poor hungry vagina. That'll teach her to tease.

 

Just a random thought but I’ve found that simply asking someone if they masturbate sometimes results in denial whereas first talking about your own masturbation often results in the other person opening up. My impression is that some people are burdened by the ridiculous, persistent social stigma associated with self-pleasure and so think they’re not supposed to do it, but once they realize they’re in good company will reply affirmatively.

This phenomenon can be observed even in people who will readily “admit” to masturbating— my point being made by my use of the word “admit.” Even enlightened people use this terminology, as if it’s something naughty that we expect to be hidden.

 

I think you're right. She got horny in the car once and surprised me by throwing her leg over me and wanting my cock, and she, prim and proper. Who'd have thought. The hot talk with her when we both opened up about our past and how horny we both are. I was amazed how much she fucks. Once I opened up, she let loose.

 

No shame, no guilt. Only fun.

 

Fun for sure. Damn i didnt know i could shoot so much come. She wanted it, she got it.

 

I'm kinda secretive about jerking off because of what i like to do. Have only told and showed one person my ex. what i love to do and really gets me off is probably bad by some people, but anyways I love to jerk off wherever and cum on things like Toilet Seats, hand rails, door nobs, on hand dryer, or soap dispenser. And leave it for others to find. I get so damn horny thinking of people putting their hand in it or sitting on it on the toilet seat. I imagine a hot girl 18-23yo petite short skinny Small B cup bubble butt going into the unisex bathroom at the mall or wherever and sitting down on the toilet only to discover they sat in my cum and I picture her getting horny from it and fingering herself and getting her juices all over the seat and leaves it for the next person.. so hott

 

I'd love to chat with you. Masturbation and porn are my favorite hobbies

 

Similar here though she actually said she didn't want to live with a pervert.

So, I do my nudity when she's out minding grandchildren. I masturbate wherever I want, just because I can.
Indoors, in the garden, down the service lane at night when I won't be seen though it feels like I could be.
My friendly neighbour moved away so She, who liked to watch, is no more.

Most of my wank time is online with guys. I like to see a guy wanking. Don;t know that I'd do it with him in real life but, I've not been in that circumstance to know.

Referencing another post;
Guys who are running around the house doing stuff, as if to earn points which can be cashed in for sex - that is a route to the end. For a woman to weaponise sex like that, imo, that is the signpost to a route that will deteriorate as you go down it ultimately to end in bitter break up.
I'll go so far as to be controversial. If she loved her man, genuinely loved him, she wouldn't even dream of manipulating him like that.

Also imv view that's a form of coercive control, which, in the UK, is illegal.
Awareness of prosecutions is increasing because of TV infomercials highlighting examples/instances of domestic abuse whic are drawing attention to the issue, which seems widespread and under-reported.

Doesn't matter if it's a guy being abusive or a woman, the abuse is wrong and the perpetrator will be prosecuted.

That bit isn't my view; it's da law.

 

My wife and I masturbate together frequently and I work with a bunch of guys who regularly mention masturbation. No drama.

 

I was never ashamed.

 

When I'm in a relationship I always bring up the subject at least once.

Other than that, I would talk to anyone about how I masturbate and that I love masturbating. But instead of losing all my friends or landing in jail, it's nice to know there are forums like this!

 

This is the one place where I feel like I can express myself freely about masturbating. My husband and I don’t really discuss it.

 

It’s not a secret, she knows I do and will sometimes ask who I was thinking about. Not a lot of details. Now I won’t pull it out and start beating it while we are watching jeopardy. I do it privately usually when the house is empty.