Masturbation secret...

My wife certainly know I jerk off and often.

 

It’s no secret to my wife that I masterbate. Heck I’m stroking now as she is going to sleep beside me. She even placed a hand over and stroked me a few times.

 

I'm 73 and live alone and masturbate everyday, wearing stockings,bra and knickers helps when masturbating, but never wear lingerie any other times, even at 73 the feeling is absolutely incredible when I cum

 

You’re 82 and only masturbated 8000 times in your life? I believe I more than doubled that before I was 25. If you’ve been doing it since you were 12, you’ve averaged less than once every three days over that entire span. When I consider the times per day at different stages of my life, doing the math, I believe that in 56 years of stroking it, I’ve exceeded 40,000 masturbations. If an orgasm lasts, say, 5 seconds, I have spent 2.3 solid days of my life in the throes of self-induced orgasm. And I don’t regret one moment of it. I’m glad you don’t either (and I think that when you do your own math, you’ll find that you have tallied significantly more than 8000).

 

Been Masturbating at 7 times a week for 63 years so makes mine 22,932, but sometimes masturbate 3 a day, so would be appropriately 30,000, what a wonderful stastistic, and loved everone

 

I only disclose it to guys I date.

 

I'm not saying you guys are wrong but that's a lot of masturbation. Lester, at 56 years it would be 20,440 days (56x365). Therefore you have been masturbating twice a day, everyday during that span on average. Rocket, your initial number misses 1 day per year but to get to 30k you have to jack off at your 3 per day rate 30% of those 63 years.

I gotta ask when did you two have time to fuck?

I'll venture his calculations are pretty close given he throws in the number of orgasms from fucking and the slow down with age. If you either fuck or masturbate an average of 5 times a week from age 14 or so across 63 years (to age 77) it comes in at 16,000 plus ejaculations. But only if you remain constant across those years. Then during that span you fuck half the time you will have masturbated near the 8k figure.

I will go with 5 ejaculations each week for myself, 50 weeks per year, (a couple off each year for illness, stresses, lack of desire, etc.) as I have been active 45 years. That totals 11,250 ejaculations so far in my lifetime. At least a third have been from fucking pussy. That leaves 7,500 semen spews out of my cock from masturbating.

 

Being in a relationship in which I got laid on a regular basis has never stopped me from masturbating. During my married years, I would frequently masturbate after having sex with the wife, while she peacefully snored away by my side. During all those years, masturbating was always an integral part of my morning shower. That was true even in the first year of marriage when I was getting laid two to three times a day. And any time I found myself alone in the house, that was an opportunity to rub one out. It’s only recently, in my late 60s, that there are frequent days in which I masturbate only once.

My calculations are this: From age 12 to 30 (when I got married), I was masturbating around of 4 times daily. From age 30 to 60, it was around twice per day. That already exceeds 40,000 times. I know that sounds like a lot to some, but I’m sure there are guys who will read this whose habits over a lifetime have been similar. And if I am an outlier in this regard, so what. I consider it a blessing that my male anatomy has been capable of such prodigiousness over the decades. Masturbating costs nothing, and I’ve enjoyed it immensely. So I’ll continue to do so for as long as I am able.

 

Open with the wife, online open of course.
But not friends. Guys don't sit around and talk about wanking themselves.

 

Ha... that's funny the number of times masturbating in your whole life.
Wow... I would guess... let's see..
Age
12 - 16, prolly 3 or 4 times a week so.... about 900
17 - 25, before married.. prolly 5 times a week so... 2300ish
26 - 40, married w/sex... prolly 2 - 3 times a week.... about 1950
41 - 50, married no sex... prolly 5 - 6 times a week.... about 2900
51 - 56, remarried w/sex... prollu 2 -3 times...about 780

So in total..... about 8,830 times... give or take.

 

I use to keep a masturbation log. Once I started having serious relationships it fell by the waste side.

Wish I knew how many orgasms I’ve had over my years. I’ve tried to figure it out but in my teen years I was doing it so much without that log I wouldn’t have been able to keep up.

Always been curious with how much cum I’ve ejaculated over the years. I’ve tried doing the math but can’t remember now, I want to say it was a gallon or two. With adding the “average” ejaculation of a teaspoon.

 

Never hid masturbation from wife but hid the fact that occasionally I would fantasize about men. One night after I mentioned that a big fantasy of mine would be to have a threesome with two women and they also pleasured each other, she told me she sometimes thought about women.

Took me 6 months to confess I sometimes thought about men. Nowadays my wife and I both have exclusive same sex fantasies. She openly watches and masturbates to lesbian porn, I openly watch and masturbate to gay porn.

 

Well said,

Well said, and accurate , masturbated roughly 30,000 times, for 45 years i was a international truck driver and never at home, sometimes away 3 weeks at a time and just home day and a half then off again, ive never been into prostitutes so the only other option is masturbation

 

I grew up in a very prudish and sexually repressive family. Nudity, masturbation and any type of sexual talk was strictly taboo. So, I pretty much had to keep my masturbation a secret and grew up with the "guilt trip" mentality. I never experienced a lot of childhood sexual exploration (playing doctor, circle jerks, playing with each others cocks). So I basically kept the fact that I masturbated to myself. I never had any "special" friends to discuss this with. Until the internet came along I never talked to anyone about my masturbation or anything sexual. Don't get me wrong, I had plenty of sex with women over my life, but I was never open enough to discuss the fact that I like to play with my own cock too. Now I find it very comforting to be able to talk about the fact that I (like so many billions of other people) like to masturbate because it feels good!!

 

Same here, never been able to talk about masturbating to anyone until finding hipforum, its unbelievable that i can discuss masturbating with someone 3000 miles away

 

I feel no qualms, shame or guilt talking to you about this. Yes, it is amazing that we can comfortably discuss masturbation and all our fantasies with some anonymous person on the internet and not feel ashamed or guilty, but it's a shame that we as people can't be open enough and accepting enough of others to not judge them. It would be so much nicer if we could discuss these things with someone in person and not be afraid of them judging us by our sexual orientation or judging us as weird or crazy. For all we know these people are as weird or crazy as we are or even more so

 

Masturbation is not a secret in our family. My wife knows that I jerk off everyday and I know that she does it most of the days. We always feel free to do it next to the other if we need to. We also love mutual sessions and we use to have one together at least once per week and we masturbate alone anytime we need it. We had also spoken with our children about masturbation, we had answered all their questions and we have told them that it's a totally natural thing and that they can do it as much as they need and want it in the privacy of their own room.

 

I wish my parents had been as open about masturbation and sexual things in general, instead of the Victorian prudes that they were.!!!

 

I began masturbating a lot with a friend before puberty, and when he matured and got interested in girls, about a year before I did, he blew me off and called me "homo", and I was afraid to talk about masturbating after that. I discovered solotouch and the chat room twenty years ago and was so nervous--and excited--to even utter the word "masturbation" with others, and I was then and still am sexually aroused to openly talk about anything related to masturbation.

I have friends now that I masturbate with both in person and on line. For me the "secret" is changing from that I masturbate to what awesome sex I'm having.
Anyone who would enjoy masturbating while chatting about masturbation, let's get acquainted!

 

I think that I’m open about it.