Masturbation or Sex?

My wife and I (who both masturbate frequently) were having a discussion...
She asked me if I had only 2 choices-
1) Have sex for the rest of my life but I can never masturbate again, (and when youre married sex can be hit and miss, lets face it...) or

2) I can masturbate only, no sex ever again.


I was under the influence of alcohol when she asked me this and I was hesitant to answer, but i was thinking i would probably have to take masturbation because of the freedom of it.

The next day when i was not drunk i asked her what would she have chosen, and she said masturbation of course LOL. I said funny, me too. Only really because with sex you rely on the other person, with masturbation you are the master of your own domain! Do it when and how you want to.

What would you choose?

 

Is oral sex a sex act, or a variation of masturbation?

 

If I could only choose one, I would choose masturbation. I can choose the when and where, and not have to depend on the other person being there.

 

I'd pick sex I suppose, even though my back might give out. Does the sex have to be with the same person?

 

I would choose masturbation. (One good thing about masturbation is that you can't hear your hand complain when you cheat on it.)

BTW, how does your wife feel about playing "sex doll"? She could blow her sex doll until it was firm enough and then put the built in penis attachment where it will do her the most good.

 

Is oral sex a sex act, or a variation of masturbation?

 

Lol oral sex is most definitely closer to sex than it is to mastirbation

 

Are you sure, Kerri?

 

Yes I’m sure ;-)

 

I can masturbate with one hand tied behind my back.
But if two hands are tied, oral or PIV are the only options.

Therefore Oral is closer to PIV than masturbation.

 

Good question, and as others have said i tend toagree it is closer to sex than masturbation.Also it means you are reliant on that person to give you relief.

 

Sex every day over masturbation. But I like to masturbate if hubby is working nights and that deal would mean I would have to wait for him. Orgasms are better when you have to wait ...that's a tough decision.

 

I would chose sex in all its forms. Coupling is the essence of man and/or women.

 

I'll take sex, please

 

I too would have chosen masturbation as I do it everyday without fail and I masterbate more than we have sex .

 

He was just preparing a "Cuban" for a good smoke.
Bet that was an interesting taste/aroma...

 

Sex for me please, 100%

Masturbation may be easy, fun and undemanding, but damn, there is absolutely nothing like being body to body with another warm human being. I wouldn't care of the sex sucked, I'd still take it over masturbation any day.

 

^^ Masturbation don't take out the trash cans or change flat tires.

 

I would prefer sex over masturbation at all cost if I had the choice. Sometimes you get tired of only imagination or it's all in your head.Nothing like the real thing and never will be.

 

Definitely masturbation
You can reach the same levels of pleasure with masturbation all thats missing is the physical feeling of sex and the turn on from pleasuring someone.