I am married and have a good sex life with my wife. We are nudists, so we are naked much of the time at home. The kids are grown and we have an empty nest so to speak. I don't even know if masturbation is the right word, but I like to be aroused as much and as often as I can. I like the feeling of tickling or caressing my skin anywhere on my body. I like to stimulate my nipples and lightly caress my penis just enough to get and maintain an erection. The best is to do this in the sun out by the pool and even better with a good buzz. It is not "edging" and I am not looking to "rub one out". I just love being aroused and love the feeling of all of the following and preferably all together. The hot sun on my naked skin, a good alcoholic buzz, some good music playing, a cool breeze, the hormone rush when I have a full erection, caressing my skin anywhere/everywhere, stimulating/pinching my nipples etc etc. I used to hide it, but I have been married for almost 30 years and the other day she had made a comment about me having an erection and me caressing myself or something. I just said, that I feel no need to hide it around her and I welcome any attention that she may offer as well, but I just love all of the above and how it makes me feel and I no longer want to feel the need to hide it. Basically, if I am laying around and feel like touching myself, then so be it. She is welcome to join in or not. No big deal either way. Anyone else have a similar experience? I would love to hear about it.
Sounds about right… I do love the feeling of being naked anytime I can get away with it. laying in the sun just gives me a peaceful stimulation to start and I love allowing my fingers to wonder and explore what I find excites me. Feels nice to slowly stroke myself and get erect or just a chubby. Floating in the pool and feeling your erection bobbing on the surface. I love doing the same to or with my partner. Out on the deck together enjoying the day. We have watched each other as we tickle and stimulate ourselves, or each other. We have done it very discretely on nude beaches as well letting my fingers roam the surface of her skin, I’ve used a melting ice cube to slowly drip ice cold droplets on sensitive areas. It gets her (our) senses to a heightened state. on a few occasions it has got her very wet and those around us that picked up on what we are doing seem to be very sensually entertained watching. I’ve seen more than a few erections develop and a woman once started to follow along mimicking the areas I was teasing and doing the same to herself no more than 30 feet away. That was fun. My turn to grow hard… She was getting as wet as my GF following along. Again just very discrete little tickles or a soft tug on a nipple. cold drips pooling in a bellybutton then running over and down between her legs. Her warm hand cupping my balls or lightly tugging on my sack while I sit next to her. Teasing and taunting but not all out masturbation or overtly sexual. Just the tease. It can be hot. it has gone further a couple times (posted here somewhere I think - but all great fun. Had a young guy watch my wife tease herself with one very large erection)
I wish I could get my wife to go along with some teasing and public arousal. I like touching her lightly here and there. I swear it is like electricity. I want to get aroused somewhat, but as soon as I touch her, it can be anywhere like her arm or leg, instantly my penis starts to wake up. I just love the rush of hormones that adds to the pleasure of all of the rest of my senses being aroused as well. Sun the breeze, seeing other naked bodies and being seen as well. It makes me feel alive and connected.
It’s great fun, my past couple partners have been keen to play along. Both playing solo or together. I love watching as much as being watched. Or alone in the sun. Slowly for hours light touch is amazing.
