Masturbation Makes Me Depressed

I want to masturbate so badly, but I feel depressed about it. It's just that I am sort of a loser kind of person in real life; I do not believe I will ever actually have sex. Masturbating just reminds me of what a failure I am. I would appreciate some advice to make me feel better.

 

When you do do it, there's no reason to feel bad about it.

I recommend that you do it infrequently though. Not ejaculating frequently helps to keep your sexual energy strong, which will help you attract a partner was well as be more energetic and successful in life.

From the perspective of traditional chinese medicine, men should not ejaculate if they are in poor health. Also, during the winter time, one should strive not to ejaculate at all.

Maybe you could try ejaculating not more frequently than once per week for a little while, and then see if that helps.

 

There is nothing wrong with masturbation. It's normal and healthy (if you are doing it in the privacy of your own home.)

You need to work on your self esteem.

 

i don't know, masturbating tends to make me feel better.

 

God, I thought I smelled a troll. Where did it go?

 

Eh, he might not be a troll but really have such a bad self-esteem

Masturbation is not the solution though, work on your self-esteem or set your expectations low. Date a not so good looking girl, there are plenty of them who will love you like you have never been loved before. You don't have to date someone who looks like a celebrity or a pornstar, just date someone normal...its sex and feels amazing still whether you do it with a hot chick or a not so hot one. To your dick, a vagina is a vagina...heck its happy with a hand even for a lot of years of your life and also after it tastes a vagina

 

There's no reason to feel bad about it. It used to make me feel really guilty. Lol.

 

Its unfortunate you feel that way dude, but understandable why you would feel guilty.
using masterbation to relieve an urge of something you feel you wont be successful at is common to many people , my advice is to not give into the urge of just physical lust and take some time out to view the perspective of sex a lot wider. see a sex therapist if you wish, look at the whole thing from different angles, at least to give yourself some time to relax more and learn.

 

pay hooker for handjob or blowjob .

 

It's probably because you associate it with the person you used to be and don't want to be that person anymore. By masturbating you are feel like you are slipping back into that person. It brings back all the feelings and emotions you had back when you used to masturbate alot.

 

Try do more activities n spend your time with sport or something like that.masturbate start with imagination,if u dont do anything,your mind will gone wild and start imagine about sex..hmmm.i know its hard to stop watching porn,but try endure it.maybe u want try hooker to release your feeling bout sex,but the best sex is with the girl u love...sex without love,,waste..