Masturbation Beside Partner

Hey, Probably talked about here already, but oh well. Just wondering what other peoples experiences are.
My wife and I have a great sex life, lots of sex and mutual masturbation. In the instance if she isnt in the mood it doesnt bother her at all if i just wank next to her, sometimes she will assist.
Sometimes we just agree to masturbate together laying side by side to get that relaxation which makes it easier to sleep.
Other times i will wake up in the early hours and quietly rub one out cos i woke with a boner. Of course i didnt get away with it, because my wife will text me at work and say to me it felt like there was an earthquake in the middle of the night lol.

What are your experiences?

 

I've done it with an ex. She starts first, and the wet, squishy sounds of her pussy get me going.

 

My wife is just starting mutual masturbation. She gets upset if she catches me masturbating alone. She swears she never masturbated prior to having sex for the first time and rarely any self stimulation after she got married.
I got her numerous sex toys and encourage her to explore her body as she is way behind most people.

 

My wife and I enjoy sex, though not so often that I never feel the need to masturbate, and how interested she is depends to a certain extent on where in her monthly cycle she is. She also enjoys cuddling at times when she is not particularly interested in sex but I find doing that gets me horny so when that happens I cuddle her and masturbate. I think she takes it as a compliment that she's got me horny. Sometimes she ends up getting horny too and we swap to having sex, sometimes she doesn't in which case I am not that bothered - I've still enjoyed the intimacy and getting off.

 

I hear you mate lol

 

We both love the mutual expereince .. if one starts before the other then we both know what they want ... :bulb:

 

I have always jerked off next to my wife. Our sex life is almost non-existent because of her menopause. Sometimes I use her as a toy ( on her ass, pussy, etc.) & lick it off of her. This used to make her horny as hell, not so much anymore. I think she just puts up with it because she has no desire anymore.

 

We often do mutual, especially when one or both are tired and can't summon the energy for a full on sex session. My husband wanks me and I want him at the same time. Do it head to foot and lie on you side. You can even get some nice head in on the action too!

 

My wife is happy for me to wank myself silly beside her if shes not in the mood.

If shes half interested,she will finish me off,usually all over her thighs!

 

If I woke up and was to see may other half wankin next to me.....I'd be straight on it. I'd find that a huge turn on. I'm a huge lover of masturbation, myself doing it and watching others.

 

If my wife wakes up and catches me 'at it', she often helps by asking me things like "what are you thinking about?" and telling me about handjobs she's given to previous lovers; she knows that I love to hear in vivid detail what she got up to in her sexual past!

 

My ex-wife and I didn't have sex all that often and over the years, I masturbated in bed next to her more times than I could possibly remember. She didn't masturbate. Not ever. Early on, she didn't mind if I did it in bed next to her but t hen she asked me to stop doing it. More recently, the relationships I've been in have been very open about masturbation and involved a lot of mutual masturbation along with the general attitude of "go ahead and masturbate if you feel like it." One girlfriend masturbated several times a day, and sometimes I'd go over to see her for dinner and to spend the evening and she'd get me worked up by describing her last session. She and I masturbated in bed next to each other, and also masturbated together outside while on hikes. We'd do a long hike and during a lunch break, we'd also have a masturbation break!

 

coming out of a horrible year in sex 2012, my wife hit menopause, I explored many things with myself and auto anal was one of them, so we were out of town one weekend and sex did not happen no shock there, she fell asleep so I fucked myself right next to her...being a big fan of edging, I elected not to climax

 

Sounds like we're in a similar situation. The only difference is that very seldom will I let go on her. If I do, although she won't say it, she gets pissed about the mess.

 

I am amazed and happy to see that so many people are finding masturbation so much of a common practice ....
it can be a real relief to rub one out before sleep or before getting up or before going out etc;

I am a female and my other half has gone completely off sex,,,

he has no 'urge' apparently so i am often left to take things into my own hands
i often masturbated next to him to get his attention or in the hope it would make him want sex ... but he just turns over and pretends like it is not happening...

he has never asked me to stop so i just look after things when and how i want .............

i have bought various toys although i find in the heat of the moment i just use my fingers ...............

if i didnt masturbate i think i would go crazy

 

My wife and I do mutual masturbation as a normal part of our sex life. We both enjoy it immensely ! Both with toys and without !

 

It is a wonderful thing to be able to share your masturbation with someone that you love ,,,,

good on you guys .....

keep it up !!!!!!!!!!! lol

 

You learn so much about what turns each other on !

 

When My wife and I were having sex issues, (I wanted it, she didn't,) I would be in bed next to her while she was sleeping. I would be so horny and have a rock hard erection that I could not sleep and would masturbate. Sex has gotten much better between us. Just recently, she did a strip show for me, one of my fantasies, she ended on the other end of the couch masturbating. I was so turned watching her I had to get off. She was amazed and the volume of cum that shot out. She really enjoyed watching me, but not as much as I enjoyed watching her.

 

I like to stick a finger in my vagina and masterbate laying spread eagle on the bed. My husband will climb up on the bed and give me a few good licks and watches me . I really like to masterbate myself rather than him do it. I can orgasm is about 2 min. He will slowly start to rub his penis but he's shy about masterbation in front of me. He asks to put it inside me and I do let him. Sometimes I will ask him to stop and rub my clit and then put 2 fingers inside and thrust harder and faster then when I'm ready to have my orgasm I let him stick it in and he gives me 2-3 pumps and I have my orgasm. He then comes a minute later .