I work a lot, have kids and a lot of stuff on my plate I take care of. Most guys my age have a hobby or hobbies like hunting or cars….whatever. I don’t have time for a hobby like that but what I realized the other day is masturbation is kinda my hobby. Haven’t had sex with the wife in years and my spare time is spent in my sexual fantasies and orgasmic sessions. Kinda sad really I suppose but I do enjoy it.
I don’t think I would necessarily call it a hobby, but more of a need. As you mentioned I have not had sex with my wife in a few years. I do have some hobbies, but seem to be taken with some sexual fantasies that I can’t stop thinking about. It can be a couple weeks between my orgasmic sessions. I will indulge my fantasies in my mind overtime, but it gets to the point that I cannot stand it anymore, and need The relief that has been building up. So many times of being worked up, playing with myself, only to have other responsibilities get in the way. It sux being an older man who has to deal with so much other's peoples sh*t. 2024 I need to take care of ME!
I probably wouldn't call it a hobby but a matter of doing what has to be done and in the absence of any other sex. Just make sure that you find plenty of time to indulge in your hobby!
I think it is not a hobby, it could be a positive addiction. Even it is not the alternative of the absent of any sex. Its pleasure is some times more than the regular sex with a partner, because you fantasize unlimited so, you like to fuck any body without any physical limitations.
It's either that or join the priesthood. So, you have a lot on your plate. You don't get sex. You work all the time. No better way to relieve stress. You deserve some fun and relief, it's not that you're cruising porn all day instead of your job.
I masturbate a lot because it feels good and it takes my mind off of the bs that’s going on right now.
i think it can be a hobby im very good at its i do it for enjoyment i spend alot of my time doing it seems like a hobby to me, its more exciting than fishing
yes that’s kinda what I decided….I enjoy the time I spend leading up to it, thinking about it and actually doing it. It’s just more fun than any other “hobby” that I’ve done. The only thing that sucks is it’s not a hobby you chat with friends (or my wife) about. it’s certainly more than a release for me.
There are many reasons to masturbate. The definition of hobby "an activity that someone does for pleasure when they are not working" certainly says it can be.
My wife and I believe you should do whatever makes you feel good. The thoughts before starting, the motions of masturbating and the after feelings, all make us feel great inside and out. I suppose that’s what a hobby does for you.
Well, you need to do something exciting while sitting in a boat in the middle of a lake drinking beer all day.
Great man, for me too, mastering more than 24000 times during my life is a perfect hobby. Once I calculated the volume of seman has came out of my dick was about 12 gallons during 60 years masturbating ,...lolol ...