I have masturbated off and on for several years now, and have tried to stop completely more times than I can count. I just have an incredible lust for beautiful women and amazing sensations, although I have never actually had sex. I am still in high school and obviously can't just go up to a girl and say "wanna fuck?" but I just don't want to keep the excuse of "I only masturbate because I haven't had sex yet." So advice on how to just let sexual urges go? Yeah, I know, this is a weird post, but I am looking for advice. Thanks.
I masturbate at most once per day, but honestly if I can abstain for a few days I usually do. I have tried the schedule thing but I always screw it up and end up doing it anyway because I become soo. damn. horny... so I just want to let it all go. All or nothing kind of deal.
Ok, this is killin' me hey bro, Gainz... if you want to stimulate your poophole, sure whatever... different strokes. Pretty sure some Jurgens lotion and your imagination gets the job done. Don't try to schedule rubbing one out it is beyond natural. Don't go apeshit on it. Instead, channel that drive and tell yourself "You know what?! I don't have to stick things in my butt OR by some rubber cooter. I'm just going to start being confident and channel my life in a way that lands me some action from females." Get out there, be a mover and a shaker, be positive, don't take it too seriously, stand up for yourself and your friends... a girl will notice.
You jerk off once a day and want to stop? You havent had sex yet...you also say you cant walk up to a girl and ask if they wanna fuck... You are wrong. You can ask. The worst you can get is a No, which in that case, your in the exact same situation you were in anyways, but you WILL get a yes eventually. My pick up line was I introduced myself and asked if they wanted to fuck. It works because girls want a guy whos confident, an asshole, and freaky.
OP, need to separate the "animalistic" instinct to masturbate and impregnate the world with the idea of just trying to talk to girls at your school and other surroundings. I really don't have many regrets in life at all and think for the most part I've made some good decisions and am happy with where I'm at. That said if there's one thing I could turn back and redo it would have been Middle school and high school in that I really didn't have much confidence (which looking back now I blame on my upbringing) but despite that, hell it's a time to just go for it. I mean really what do you have to lose? Yeah it's tough going up to a girl and talking to her but in the end, why not do it? I know fear is a hard thing to get over but if figure if you talk to zero girls, what will happen? And if you talk to 2 girls what might happen? If you talk to 5-10 girls what might happen? Years later I look back and had a knew certain girls were into me or heard from other means and yet I still had some fear for some reason, if I'd known then what I knew now, well hot damn... But still the answer / solution is not to "bone" everything you can see but to meet, talk to, have relationships with, kiss, hug, grind, spend time with, fondle, whatever. The point being it's not just "sex" that matters but anything and everything in between as well. Hell just being with a girl makes you feel on top of the world even if you're just holding her hand or walking with her. Hope you get what I'm talking about or if not read it a few times, throw caution in to the wind and just go for it (and no I'm not talking about going up to a girl and asking if she wants to have sex with you dummy). Good luck
