Masturbation After Age 40

Man, I’m 45 and am just getting back into it, bigger sex drive now. As a teenager I was beating off all time then stopped for two years. College some but my girlfriend and later wife went wild, (Bjs, hand jobs, sex in bed and in public, along with other things.) A year and a half ago I was covered in bruises from her biting me during intense sex. Now at 42 for her and 45 for me once every three months and I’m living with I vibrator in my pocket. I’m getting used to wet pants… thank goodness for long John’s and showers at work. If I sleep with her I’ll be covered in our sauces for days. If I beat it I need to shower but oh I I can come for almost 3 minutes on my own and she has little interest.

 

I’m sitting here spending time with my penis and letting him enjoy his erection, stimulating him so his erection can last longer. He’s totally enjoying himself and it wouldn’t take much for him to ejaculate…

 

I’m 55 and I still masturbate up to 9 times a day and I cum 9 times a day

 

I am 49 and masturbate 10+ times a week. That number does not include anal masturbation or my local adult book store.

 

I also felt the signs of aging with weight gain. Mood swings. Fatigue. Muscle mass declining and And erectile disfunction and size decrease. The worst being severe gynecomastia where my breast tissue grew so much I could fit into a Dcup. My primary doctor gave me a script for a few vitamins and told me to eat better. And I was enraged this is my life. So I paid for my own bloodwork and found out my testosterone was non existent and I was making a ton of estrogen. I went to a urologist with my tests and started testosterone therapy with a pill to block estrogen. But there were delays because my insurance would not pay the costs. Which I’m paying for the best I can get. It’s a travesty that our health doesn’t see this as an epidemic with men but they prescribe the blue pills all day long which just masks the problem.

 

Why cure it when you can get perpetual income by forcing men to continually pay for and erection band aid instead of a permanent cure???

 

Oh it’s definitely a money grab

 

Anything to do with the healthcare industry, health insurance or big Pharma generally is!!!

 

I think it's definitely use it or lose it....and it's fun to use it...win win!

 

following up on my post. Since I’ve been taking it for a few months. I’ve beat off more than ever and it’s good to have a dick again it shrunk like a small clitty. And maybe one day I’ll have my chest back. I’m still all boob.

 

I’m 46 and I masturbate and cum regularly.

 

I married my current wife in our late 30s. She ended up being my sexual soulmate. A lot of frequent sex. But I travel quite a bit, and every night alone in my hotel room, I just had to! That pattern continued through my 40s and early 50s. I used to keep track of it in a personal calendar. Between sex and solo fun I was having 30-40 orgasms a month. Life was good! Now in my early 60s,my frequency has dropped off considerably. The Mrs has not been interested in quite a while, And I just don’t feel the need as often.

 

Sounds like me at 15......or was that 30-40 for a week?

 

Past 40!??! There should be decades of sex and orgasms ahead!
There are several causes of declining sex and masturbation some not restricted to ageing- Ill health and physical or mental health issues / the health of a sexual partner / stress / time and career pressures / declining testosterone, libido and erectile problems associated with age and cultural beliefs and taboos against sexual activity in 'senior' years. Also specifically toward masturbation there is the fact that many of us (particularly those of us over 60) will have negative attitudes toward sex and especially masturbation at our age. From what I've read here, many of us enjoy regular masturbation and, like me, it has increased both to replace sex with our partner and because we have more time on our hands (pun intended)!

 

It just keeps getting better....