Just wondering what advice did or would fathers give their sons about masturbation. The advice I got was that it was a bad thing to do…. I would go blind, get hairy palms and my dick would not grow. So at 57 I’m just now getting over the shame and guilt over enjoying a wank.
I told my son that theres nothing wrong with it as long as he is by himself when he does it, not in the same room as his sister, washes his hands afterwards etc. Its just about being respectful, you can enjoy yourself as long as it doesn't affect other people.
Masturbation is a natural sex action. In the ancient time in Rome City every morning, Aflatoon, 350 BC, with his students gather in the city square to masturbate together in a circle line. He believed masturbation is a part of sport!!! H ha ha. So, we have to open our eyes and talk to the kids friendly to teach them safely, otherwise they will be learn from some other strange that could be miss leading
I'm 53, so I think we got the same messages from society. I was ashamed and I never wanted anyone to know that I was doing it. If I had a son, I would assure him that he can enjoy and explore his body in any way he chooses. I do it and so does everyone else.
My bachelor father kept me away from girls on case I got one pregnant at a dance like he did, so my brother and I pulled off a lot and shared how it felt. I pulled off for him and showed him my come when I first came. I pulled with a friend my age who had a huge stiff veiny cock. Hence my love of cocks and fear of women. Not a very balanced start to life. My son however, was happily fucking a few girls, and I was happy for him, although I would never mention it. I saw one smile some reassurance to him when she got her period. He was fucking her a lot, taking some risks.
I know what you mean I was told the same thing . But it’s normal to explore your body and it’s healthy to masturbate as well.
My parents never mentioned anything about sex or masturbation. I figured it out myself. My friend group talked about it though. I had the conversation with my own son though so he understands its OK to do it