Masturbating next to Bf/husband

Curious how many guys would be upset or if their lady used vibrator next to them in bed at night to get off before going to sleep? For ladies do you feel comfortable enough that you can get yourself off in front of your guy without him being involved?

my wife uses a vibrator to get off almost every night. She says it helps her go to sleep. It doesn’t bother me at all. I was surprised when she told me that she never would have tried doing that with any of her exes out of fear that they would get upset. Apparently that is the norm which seems crazy to me.

 

My wife has never and will never masturbate in front of me. She says that is her private time” and I respect that. I, on the other hand, have been masturbating and had her walk in on me multiple times over the years. She’s good with that.

 

Completely fine by me. I love the sound of the climax!

 

My “upset” would have been just because we always watch ea other. In this case, o own the next night. Initially romantic. Then to erotica. And to dreamy.

 

Wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. I’d welcome it

 

It doesn't bother me at all, in fact, I gave her a vibrator for Christmas a long time ago. I would use it on her sometimes but she often buzzed her clit while I was fucking her. She never would do it in front of me unless it was part of sex with me.

I don't think she masturbated alone often, but one night I accidentally walked in on her while she was masturbating. She had a massage oil bottle stretching her vagina while she buzzed her clit. She smiled and continued when I walked in so I watched her have a wonderful orgasm after which she begged me to fuck her. I readily obliged and gave her a big load since I was so turned on watching her.

 

My wife doesn't do so but if she did it wouldn't bother me. I'd probably get a hard on hearing it taking place and just start stroking myself to join in on the festivities. I do sleep better after having an orgasm.

 

I do it all time next to my wife. When the mode arrives she does it as well. But she always tells me because she knows that it gets me horny.

 

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I would love if my wife used her toys more

 

We do masturbate next to each other. Only two nights ago my wife gave me a good hand job and fingered herself to orgasm at the same time. It was fantastic.

 

I'd love my bed partner to masturbate next to me. Indeed, I'd like it if, at any time of day, whenever she may feel the need, to masturbate wherever she is.

I knew a girl once in her late 30s who 'never' masturbated. Her husband didn't approve. He wanted to be the only thing/person to give her pleasure. I know she did it but couldn't have toys in case he found them. Really sad. Wrong imv.

 

Would love it if my wife would do this but she's too self conscious. She rarely masturbates now, prob because of decreased libido and difficulty achieving orgasm.. she only masturbated in the past when I wasn't home and I never caught her.

 

I would LOVE for my wife to do this. I would get so turned on I am sure I would jack off too.

 

When I was with my husband, usually we would have sex, he would get off and clean himself up, then ask if I wanted my vibrator. I would use it on myself and he would often fall asleep before I came.

 

aw FFS MG! No words.

 

Really, if my wife even owned a vibrator I would admire her all day.
I mean I get us men can finish early but I think it's down to having a very sexy wife but at least make sure your wife has cum first. Licking it up is the best bit.

 

:-(

 

He missed out on second round and cuddling! Sorry you had to take things in your own hands.:-(

 

I would appreciate the open desire to take care of her needs, whenever and wherever she needed. We could please each other more than ever with such an open ability to please ourselves and one another.