Although we have masturbated together many times i havent started to do it like on the couch beside her for example unless we were both doing it. Once after our shower together i was horny and i said to her can u give me a hand and i lay down and masturbated while she rubbed my thigh and chest. we have discussed these situations, as she also masturbates alone, and the consensus is that 'needs must'. We agree its ok to do it when you feel the need, within reason. i find it really exciting doing it in front of her, and i love cumming on her tits.
We masturbate together almost as much as we make love together. Quite a while back, we made the inevitable (and very fortunate) discovery of our secret masturbation addictions during a two week vacation together. And we've been hooked on mutual masturbation ever since. Sometimes we simply lay in bed, at night, on our backs, with the lights off, and masturbate together, and fall into a deep sleep afterwards. Sometimes we sit in low web chairs, facing each other, in front of the fireplace, drinking wine. And sometimes we each wear stereo headphones and play "30 Minutes To Orgasm" masturbation countdown timer, a public domain mp3 soundtrack, to orgasm, gasp and moan, and writhe together at exactly the same time. Mutual masturbation also serves well to satisfy our wild adulterous side, and allows us to openly fantasize about others -and not each other. And we usually clean each other up, afterwards, with delicious oral sex. We've found that mutual masturbation provides a higher level of intimacy and satisfaction that we have never experienced before. If and when we get married, we will very likely enjoy mutual masturbation on our wedding night!
"hey, timmy, how was the meeting with your partner? Did you crunch the numbers, get everything in order???" "he jacked off in my face." :frown: