I'm 72 my wife 68. We have quite a lot of sex . Usually 3/4 times a week or roughly every other day. I was abused by an uncle between the age of 5 and 9. I can wank myself, although I really have no need. My hang up is that I have a mental block which stops me from letting my wife wank or suck me to orgasm. Masturbation is a wonderful and exciting part of lovemaking. My wife gets tons of it, she is very multi orgasmic and I love to do her. I get none. I miss it terribly. Is there anybody out there who had a similar problem and overcame it?
The pleasure of intercourse sex and masturbation are quite different. Each one has its pleasure. When you have sex with your partner everything are real, but while you masturbate you have to fantasize. Most people who have no access to their partner, or are not satisfied with a partner or even have high sex desire like to masturbate, otherwise, there is no needed to masturbate. On the other hand, masturbation is a type of addiction, that's why many men or women masturbate even after marriage. I think, if you are satisfied by having sex with your wife, why you like to masturbate? just let your wife does it while you watch her to turn on and on.
