my wife of 14 yrs likes to only have sex on the weekends but masterbates multiple times during the week should that bother me being that i am around and ready to jump into action at a moments notice
Maybe during the week, she feels more stressed, than on the weekends...so on the weekends, she has more time to really be with you, fully. But, if it bothers you, just talk it over with her, and see if there could be a compromise somewhere. (if you want sex during the week, not just on the weekends)
Gracias thats kinda what i figured already and u just cofirmed it i know she stresses alot at wrk and i dont want to push the issue and be selfish its just getting a piece of mind of knowing im not the reason she doesnt want to as often as i do
So jerk off with her. Could be a fun during the work week activity - you might just like it, or even get a quick bj out of the party..... It takes so little time to please your partner with sex, so don't fall for the I'm stressed and tired routine for long because next you know you'll be doing it monthly instead of weekly. Sleep naked and stay sexually connected. Keep in front of the ball here !!
I concur. My wife and I masturbate together about once a week. It is a lot of fun and very satisfying. As you do it more together, inhibitions fall so you might be surprised by her enjoyment of getting a little active during it. My wife likes me to ejaculate on her body, which is an amazing turn on. (not face, and neither do I want to on her face)
We are a senior couple, now retired. We have always been open to masturbation, together and apart. When we worked,sometimes we would go the bed tired, but stressed, and masturbate. Sometimes with toys together. Many times we would just do oral on each other drifting off to sleep. The important thing to remember is to communicate. It has all kinds of health for men and women. Now, we do have a great sex life together and have sex 2-3 times a week and masturbate in between if needed. It is acquired over a lifetime.
