I, myself, enjoy pain, to a certain extent during sex or foreplay. I was wondering how many people enjoy this. Sometimes I feel a little strange for this...please, let there be someone out there.
I like bondage and mild-to-moderate pain. Enough to get my attention, but not enough to really hurt...
i like spanking, and bonage, and things rough at times, but i dont enjoy beatings or actual pain, just a good amount of force on both sides, but not all the time cus cuddlin and huggin and makin love is where its at for me.
i like some pain when a guy fucks me, like having my nipples pinched, bitten a lil bit, just thrusting into me really hard. i'd luv to try spanking or biting other places on my body but haven't found anybody willing yet lol
I love being spanked/tied up/handcuffed ect, nothing too painful or serious, but my problem is that the guys I've been with haven't really been into doing any of these things to me. I wish I could find someone who I could have a fun and equal relationship with, and a little bit of S&M in the bedroom too! I've asked guys to spank me before and they give me this little pat on the ass, saying they're "too afraid to hurt me" grrr...anyone else with this problem!?
A little pain at the end of foreplay is always nice. During the actaully sex, pain makes me lose my boner
i'd luv to be tied up and blindfolded during sex, handcuffed maybe. still trying to convince my bf to do that and the spanking thing(i've gotten the don't wanna hurt you line too) hurt me damn it i like it lol, not that i see him much anyway, he's like 500 miles away.
ive never actually done anything painful other then had a guy do the whole melted wax thing... but now and then some roughness is definately fun.
After watching the movie Secretary I have a whole new idea of masochism...its good to see that thats not "realistic"...at least not here lol