Married?When did you become bi curious?

What prompted your bi/gay curiosity, if you were a regular married family guy ,dad, husband or single hetero guy?
Mine was after long droughts, because of my wifes problems. We also had a gay friend who had always wanted to suck my cock. With my wifes incouragement, i let him give me a bj, as my wife watched. With her almost insistance, I returned the favor. It was like a free pass to experiment, plus I promised her in the past, when she experimented with another woman.Im sorry I resisted so long before I tried. After doing it, it was hard to resist doing it again and again and again and again.

 

I'm jealous that your wife supports your bisexuality.

 

The sex had pretty much become boring with the wife, began to notice guys dicks a lot, like in the showers at the health club. Saw some hard ones and it got me hard too. So I wanted to expirement a bit, got sucked by a guy which made me want to suck a dick. So I went for it and found I loved it

 

So many men share this . . .

 

Yep, during her droughts of providing sex I finally accepted a proposition from a gay man to suck my cock. He was sucking me off a couple times a week for a few months before I finally had the courage to suck his cock being I really wanted to try for a long time. I wasn't instantly hooked but after a few times I was as he kept telling me I was a natural as I honed my oral skills.

 

I was curious long before I was married. My wife was never really into sex and now it’s nonexistent so I find myself fantasizing a lot about guys now. Sometimes I wonder if I would even be bi if I had a normal sex life.

 

I became bi while watching my wife with a lover at some point my wife asked me to join them.in a threesome.......that's when I became bi.....

 

I was bisexual in my 20s before I got married, it submerged for quite a few years after I got married, then re-emerged in bisexual shemale fantasies beginning in my 50s.

 

My mistake................I became bi curious in my early 50s but never let it known until watching my wife with another lover "a male" a few years later......"sorry"

 

Love to spend a night with you.. never had a shemale I'm sure you would enjoy it............

 

Well, that only happens in fantasy--but I do have an erection from fantasizing about it, and I've got such a big weakness for having sex with men in fantasy!

 

It was with a friend I'd known for over 40 years. Neither of us ever approached the idea with each other or anyone else. My wife and I were long term nudists. He and his wife were curious about it. We took them for a first visit to a resort. We then began being just nude together. Our wives both became non sexual for their own different reasons. One day while he and I were nude we got to discussing the fact and thinking of how our wives once was. We ended up with erections. In short we both masturbated together. It eventually lead to more things. We were in our 60s. It started about 2.5 years ago. Our wives don't know. Admittingly I'm more into it than he is unfortunately.

 

I did not start having sex with others until I was in my early 20s, but when I started, it was bisexual from the first month. Been that way ever since, and not just on a purely physical level. I was lucky to discover so early that physical sexual activity does not necessarily equal intimacy. Another man demonstrated that to me, and I had the courage during that first experience to drop prior social conditioning I had received about homophobia and objectifying men or women. Intimacy happens when people recognize how much we have in common.

A lot of aggression in the world could be averted if more people could get over their fear of intimacy. Humans are animals, and if we fail to recognize our deeply programmed need for intimacy, that need can get expressed in destructive ways. I'm glad I was able to learn a constructive way to express my need for intimacy.

 

What ever works for you.............

 

I have been happily married for 45 years…however my masturbation fantasies have involved men from about the age of 16. First it was all imagination that would get me off, then I progressed into gay magazines, finally of course gay sites on the internet. I jerked off for years looking at gay porn. All this time I still enjoyed sex with my wife. Sometime however the next morning after making love to my wife I would still be horny and I would log on and jerk off.
Finally about six years ago and after several false starts I hooked up with a guy I found on GL and he let me suck his cock, we meet three times….we progressed to me finger fucking him and licking the sweet spot.
Now I have two friends with benifits. I really look forward with my naked time with each of them. One man we pretty much cover all the bases, we suck each other’s cocks…..lick each other..(my favorite to give and receive) , we make out and I top him. The other man, I suck his cock, (he has an awesome unit), I lick and kiss him and he especially likes it when I fuck him. (I have an implant so I can fuck as long as is needed, many times he has had hands off organisms)
He does not reciprocate, but that is fine with me.
BTW…my wife does not know.

 

My memory isn't the best, but I'm guessing about 3+ years ago around the age of 49. Both the wife and I were swingers before we ever met, it definitely helped out fucking around other couples and men. We're both quite naughty and find very few things "taboo". Watching porn together one evening, we were going through videos and came across one where it was either a cuckold or MMF. The gal was giving a great BJ while her hubby walked in. She popped it out of her mouth, looked at her hubby with a huge smile, and motioned for him to join her. He got on his knees and smiled at her, she angled that cock towards him and he started to love that cock himself. As they started sharing it back and forth, me and the wife looked at each other with huge smiles. She asked me if I would do that with her. I looked back and watched another 10 seconds, and answered with a big "OH FUCK YES" lol. It was different, yet so damn hot due to them doing it together. And we're always looking for more new ways to have fun, so it went on our bucket list. I really want to feel a beautiful cock's smoothness and warmth sliding down my throat. Hasn't happened YET. But only time will tell. She wants this just as much as me.

 

You are so lucky. My wife would never support that

 

Sorry to hear. My wife is a greedy cock whore. And so so naughty! Quite the change for me after my previous relationship. My ex licked the very tip of my cock for under 5 minutes one time, that was it in 10 years! From that, to getting thrown against the wall and spanked, BJ's and deepthroat, and almost anything else. Couldn't ask for anyone better.

 

She does like spanking . . .

 

I got started in my early teens with a neighbor. I enjoy sex with men but don’t really want a full relationship with a man. Most of my adult life I’ve been single so. Most of the men I’ve been involved with were married.