had a surprise today - two visitors - first to come was a new guy - second to come was my repeat buddy - and the surprise was my son coming home from work early - he walked in about 15 minutes after my buddy left. That was close. Even though he is a solid adult man himself, I would rather not have my son walk in to see his father on his knees blowing some guy.
I had a strange, sad thing happen to me the other day... I got a text from someone who identified themselves as "Bob's wife". She confessed to snooping on his phone and found a text message between him and me. She said she confronted him but he denied everything - but, of course, she had my phone number so she asked me what the nature of my relationship was with "Bob". she had his phone number in the text message so I had to look it up to find out what she was talking about. I didn't honestly remember anyone named Bob until I read the text which was pretty revealing about what Bob was hoping for, who he was, and what I was willing to do with him. I remembered warning him - that it was not a good idea to keep these messages on his phone - and was it smart to want to text in the first place like that. He ignored my warnings and now he's paying the price... Well, whether you guys would agree with me or not is irrelevant - after I read what I knew she had read I decided to answer her - since I had never met him, I told her that because it was true - I told her that he never followed through with meeting me. I debated about ignoring her text, but when I reviewed what I knew she had seen, I saw no reason to ignore her. Maybe it would help her. She replied - appreciative of my honesty - she was not sure what my gender was and was quite surprised to realize that her husband was sexually attracted to men. I assured her that his denial of the facts is just as tough on him as it is for her to discover it this way ( I really wanted to chastise her for snooping - I find that a major violation - but human nature - she must have had a reason for snooping) I wished her well, offered her a hope she might try to be patient with him and encourage him to be honest with her - but not for the purpose of bombasting him. They have three little kids under the age of 5 - it's just so hard on everyone - I was there once - I remember the struggles so very well. I don't expect to hear from him any time soon - although he did have my address so maybe he will come by and show me how angry he is for outing him with my honest reply.
Boy Papa that’s awful! I never text sexual things with guys for this purpose. I hope this doesn’t become a problem for you. Stay safe buddy.
Lucky for me there is no shortage of guys who don't get blow jobs at home. My buddy brought a guy to my place that he met at a bar, bemoaning the fact that his wife was done with blow jobs. He was a little nervous at first being his first blow job from a guy, but he stayed for a second round.
Some many years ago I got to know a guy at a local pub being we both stopped in after work (2nd shift) food, drinks, and conversation. He and I had a lot of things in common, so we always had things to talk about. After about six weeks the subject of sexual frustrations at home with the wives became a regular subject with him. Being that I was in the very same boat and had already given in to my curiosities about sucking cock I wanted to see how far this conversation would go without freaking him out. So, about two days later at the same pub he asked me if I'd ever had a blowjob from another guy what was it like. I replied: "If you'd really like to know I'll suck your cock for you". He was a bit shocked to hear me say that as he chuckled and said, "You suck dick"? I say, "Yes Sir, I like sucking dick and I'm good at it". We went to the parking lot and got into his truck. His first words were "Man, I'm nervous about this". I said, it'll be fine, but if you want to forget about it, it's cool. He says, no, I'm already getting hard thinking about it. I sucked him for a good 20 minutes before he started fucking my mouth and released his load for me to swallow. For the next 12-14 months I was sucking him off 1-2 times a week. He never once wanted to suck dick himself, but he really enjoyed having me sucking his cock on a regular basis. I enjoyed being his personal cock sucker as I'd been for a number of other married guys over that time period.
two married men visited me today - separately - one might identify as bi, and one, at least, tipped more toward the straight end of that spectrum. both told me it is easier to meet up with a man for relief of the sexual tension than any other way. both men said their wives have lost interest. both men have been married for several years.
I met up with a new man today. It was good. He turned out to be a very passionate bear of a man - and for a change, I got my needs met instead of the other way around. Married, having some ED issues, some weight issues - wife is not as interested in sex as much as he'd like, but he did surprise me by telling me she has taken to some toys he has introduced. And she likes it. Not sure where this one will go - nice guy, though.
You are 100% correct and the number of married men accepting oral services from another man has been growing larger and larger over the past 20 years. I speak from experience being the oral provider to so many other married men over the years. It's all satisfaction for both parties involved with no hang-ups what-so-ever.
I've had a number of married men come to my residence for oral services and several were dropping their pants as they walked across the living room floor as I just dropped to my knees and began sucking their cock and in 15 minutes he blew his load in my mouth, I swallowed it, sucked his cock clean to witness him pulling his pants up and saying thank you and leaving to get back in his car. It's just a blow job that was really needed and I was glad I was available to help him out. Yeah, I would have liked to have sucked him for 40 minutes, but he had things to do and many times he returned for more of the same so it's all good. He and I know why he is there, so it was never a big deal. A "win-win" for both of us.
Exactly my experience, @LowHangers - a few months ago I decided this is what I wanted and I have managed to accomplish it - some days are better than others. For me, today - it was three men. Cum and go throughout the day. Each one not knowing there were others. Each of them different but each of them - the same thing. Dropping the pants, getting their cocks adjusted for me, and me on my knees. It is just a blow job and it is all they need. For whatever reason they don't get it elsewhere or don't get enough elsewhere - and that's all they want and I get satisfaction in helping them out.
I find it odd that a guy wouldn’t want it returned. But I get it with ED etc…not that I mind the no reciprocal, but much more prefer to return the favor