Absolutely! It works both ways m'dear. In fact, it only works when it's both ways, i.e., when the feeling is mutual. "Communication is key" is based on accumulated experience, in addition to common sense! Keep "up" the good work!
I'm not "legally married " but still consider myself married and I have to agree with married ( or committed sex) being the best! Our sex life has been wonderful and seems to keep getting better. The more you love , the better <3
Very late to the party but I agree. Because you get married doesn't mean a license to have dull boring bedroom action .This can actually cause destabilisation in some relationships. The key to a successful relationship has always been communication and this includes believe it or not talking to each other occasionally including the subject of sex. A happy bedroom increases the chances of a happy relationship. It's good to talk
Married sex is amazing! As our married life proceeds, sex evolves and changes. Before it was just standard sex, I don't think I can even do that anymore, I'd rather sleep. Now we're into all kinds of neat things like bondage, spanking, role playing, dirty talk. Some times its gentle and elegant, like listening to a jazz quartet with a glass of wine and cheese. Other times its straight pounding assault like listening to Slayer or Pantera (thrash metal bands), other times its sleazy and dirty like old school David Lee Roth or Van Halen. Super hot!
Let me give you a tip for a slow and gentle sex session to music. Start with most anything by Herbie Mann. Your wine and cheese goes well with about 40 minutes of his flute wafting in the air, I like his album "Push, Push". It's a good background for foreplay and oral on her. Once she's reached an orgasm or two switch to Ravel's "Bolero". Slide your cock into that pussy after the first few measures and then fuck along as the tempo builds. By the last few staffs the slow and gentle session will be a thing gone by. You'll be pumping her hard and both may reach orgasm simultaneously when it concludes. When we played this combination we ended up being totally drained at the end.
To be honest, I don't blow my load. To prevent that I usually "empty" myself the night before and the day-of otherwise I won't last more than 30 min. Another reason for unloading is we don't use birth control b/c of religious reasons. When we have sex its only once a week but it lasts 3-4+ hours starting at ~2AM when the children are sleeping. Most of the time I don't go back to sleep. Also sex has evolved as our preferred way to exercise. One of my main reasons to stay fit, active, and flexible is to have better sex. When its ground and pound night, by the end of the 2nd hour, neither of us can feel much. I get a way better work out than her because every climax she has seems to take a chunk of energy out of her. If she reaches a third one she's nearly out cold then I guess she's my treadmill haha
We have learned more about each other and about our bodies than we ever did before either of us were married. My wife especially. She is/ was definitely an onion and over the past 20 years I have peeled off many of those layers. I've always been an outside the box guy when it comes to sex, but there's been times where she has taken me not just outside the box, but outside the dang house! She's done things to me that I never knew were possible. So hell yeah! Married sex is hot sex! There is so much each of you can learn and explore and you have all the time to do so.
That's awesome and true. I also love the fact I'm the one who makes my wife horny and satisfies her as well, with the exception of a little help from some visual aid materials like well hung men on porn, men who shoot cum across the street, etc. But as her last lover as of late I can not only strive to outdo the others before me but I benefit from her experience with them as well;
My wife is all i want. She gets sexier and more desirable as she ages. She is the only thing that makes me cum. It takes forever to masturbate at my age but she can touch me and make me cum in minutes. I’d love to tell stories about our sessions and just how hot she can be.
It’s nice being with someone you feel comfortable with and van be straightforward and blunt with. And it’s exciting to send a text that says “do you want to fuck when we get home?” Or “receiving one that says “i need some cock” or “my pussy is aching to be filled with cum” getting to that point in a marriage is amazing.