My wife and I are nudists or at least naked whenever we want to be which for me is as soon as I get home. Like many men, when just relaxing watching tv or whatever, my hand will find its way to my penis. How many of both sexes openly play with themselves not necessarily full on masturbation, but just making yourself feel good. For me that includes maintaining an erection and caressing wherever on my body that feels good. My question is how many others are open this way and do not try to hide this or reserve it for full sex.
I know right? I am almost always nude at home as well and much of the time she is as well. We are pretty much nude whenever possible. When it is just the two of us and we are just sitting around watching tv or sunbathing by the pool, I will explore. I just think it adds to the relaxion. I like physical stimulation. Even tickling my arm or leg, but many times it is my penis. I am not "masturbating" per se, definitely not like edging or going for an orgasm or anything, I just feel better with an erection, so why not. My wife and I have been married for over 28 years. I have been more and more just "letting it all hang out" so to speak. If I want to touch myself then I do. If she is interested in anything she is more than welcome to join in or do the same for herself )although she never really does at least not openly), but my erection is not really saying that I want sex or anything. I just have got to the point that I do not feel the need to hide anything anymore. It is liberating and feels like another level in our relationship.
I'm with JH - I figure if she wants to play with it she is more than welcome to do so. But in the down time, I like to tickle my balls or slow stroke a semi. It just feels good. My partner doesn't get offended in any way. She joined in on many occasions but she seems to have lost a lot of her desires since menopause started messing with her body instead of me...
I'm not allowed to be nude at home, but I travel for work often and I am nude in my hotel room. My hand is ALWAYS on my penis. I'm not even trying to get it hard. I just like how it feels.
Me and the other half rarely wear much clothes if any at home, we are often playing with our selves and I usually get at least a semi hard cock around her dressed or un dressed
My wife likes me walking around nude in the house. I love just leisurely playing with my dick. We spend a lot if time touching each other. Even if it's just our legs lying across each other while watching TV. she will walk around in just a t-shirt (she's always cold). The t-shirts only go down to her wait so i get to see her shaved pussy and ass. It's really sexy watching her butt as she does things. Especially when she bends over and her pussy peaks through her legs (she's athletic petite). I love being a home nudist. I don't have the balls to do any public nudity.
I know it seems intimidating, but 5 minutes on a nude beach and you will get naked and never turn back.
I am not sure, but from everything I have read and experienced, this seems to be more of a guy thing. Women don’t seem to be the type to openly touch their privates for simple pleasure. Again, not full on masturbation, but just to heighten how they feel in the moment. Maybe we can get a few to weigh in on this.
You are the only one that says their woman also pleasures herself openly. From what I have seen and experienced, there are very few women that do this and I truly wonder why. Is it that they are shy about it?
Well I would be open to both my wife and I pleasuring our selfs whenever we choose. My wife knows I do it often just not in the open. Would be nice just to do it when and wherever I choose. With others in the house not so easy. I think a lot of woman are self conscious about their body and what others will think. I’m sure most of them shouldn’t be. We’re our own worst critics.
I've openly masturbated with my wife since we were dating. She has no issue and sometimes helps whenever I'm choking the chicken. Even masturbate in front of friends both male and female. Probably cums from an early introduction to circle jerking, posted elsewhere.
I think we feel our excitement in our cock and balls. I swear that when I'm very turned on my cock is electricity charged, humming with power, almost throbbing (when I was a teen, my cock would actually pulse with every heart beat). When we are turhed-on, men feel it in our cock, so why not play with him. I don't think women feel it that way in their pussy. My wife has said, after some fore play, that she can feel her clip being hard but I don't think it feels to them like our socks feel to us. So, if we feel excitement in our cock, why not fondle and play with him. I would love to hear from women what they think.