Married men masturbating

I married for more than 40 years. I have had a very active sex life with my wife, and also I have masturbated as much as I liked. When I was a single man before marrying her, I had masturbated for 10 years. I believe both fucking and masturbating are different sex pleasure, and it is not a sign. If masturbation is an addiction, real sex is an addiction too. When you masturbate you fuck anybody who you like in your mind, and you touch her or his body by your brain imagination, and there is nothing wrong with your sex partner in reality. Also, when you fuck your partner mostly you touch your partner body physically as well as mentality. Consequently, real sex and masturbation both are natural sex activities, and there is nothing wrong with them.

 

It's a normal thing. I think most married PEOPLE masturbate. Ya never know when you might just be sitting at home alone, horny hits you and you want to squeeze off a round. As long as nobody is getting denied or their feelings hurt, then literally, nobody gets hurt.

 

This is just my opinion, but I know others feel the same way. Just like with sex with your SO, sometimes you are in the mood to make love, sometimes you want to have sex just because, and there are times that you just NEED to fuck! They are all different needs. Masturbation is the same. Some days I need to buzz one out just to clear my head other days I need a me moment. I personally don’t care if my husband fella the need to get a quick release without me. We have been together for over 25 years so we are well past the “I am a flawless person phase of our lives. If he wakes up early, I’d rather him go jerk off than mess with my sleep. Let your man jerk off, it’s good for his mental and physical health and he should last a little longer when you do feel in the mood to have a good fuck. Just my opinion. Good luck.

 

I like this analogy. Recently I needed to have someone masturbate me. Didn't want to make love, have sex, or fuck. Just masturbate me to orgasm. I wanted a slow build up to it though. Enter the massage parlor. A nice soothing massage that had plenty of teasing, low lighting, and soft music. It was just what I needed at the time.

There are times my eyes pop open in the wee hours of the night. It's out to the front room or other area in the house (sometimes outside) for some porn and me time. 30 minutes later I'm back in the sack into a deep sleep. The wife is not disturbed at all. If she does wake she may ask if I feel better as I slip back between the sheets.

 

In 34 years of marriage, there were countless times when I rubbed one out under the covers while my wife snored away in bed right beside me. Anybody else have that experience?

 

Yes, Lester Izmoore , I do many times. As I said already, I have a lot of sexual desire but my wife doesn't like to have too much sex activities. We have sex once or two times in a month, so, when she falls sleeps I have free time to wank off in the bed next to her. Each time it takes one hour to ejaculate, but it is fine with me. I apply a diluted water-based lotion, and rub my cock slowly to get hard, then I squeeze my crossed legs to get more erection. The brain imagination and fantasizing help me a lote. During the masturbation session, my wife is asleep and mostly snoring.

 

Yes with my first wife...The first couple of times I did so and she never knew or at least never mentioned she knew. Then one evening after I released my load she rolled over and said "You feel better?...Enjoy sleeping in your wet spot and don't forget to wash the sheets".

 

Married men are no different than anyone else .

 

Exactly

 

I masturbate at least once/twice a week with my wife's help...she knows I need to cum more often that her and enjoys helping and seeing my load shoot out. She likes massaging and fingering my "bung" and fondling my balls so we both get pleasure out of it.

 

Of course I masturbate between (my libido is greater than hers).

 

When we first moved in together my wife (then my girlfriend) asked me if I masturbated. I was rather surprised but said yes. She asked if I cared if she did. I said no. She told me she loved to, as she phrased it "bring herself off" and had been doing it frequently since she discovered it when she was 8 years old. She had briefly been married before we met and her then husband got furious when he caught her. It's never been as issue with either of us and we both became rather matter of fact about it pretty quickly. It helps that we've always had a good sex life and she enjoys fucking, but she can get 4-8 orgasms when masturbating but it's really hard for her even to get one from intercourse. Like a number of posts have said, I think we both just view intercourse and masturbation as noncompeting parts of our sex lives.

 

I still wank it 4-5 times a day....even after fucking my wife....I’m ready to fuck again 15 minutes later lol

 

It has been over two years since the wife and I have had sex...self pleasure is all I have...I just don't think she's all that interested anymore...

 

I've been married for 24 years now and I still have sex multiple times a week with my wife. But I still love to masturbate a lot and I know she does it too.

I've seen her do it so many times. Lol it was only yesterday that I walked in on her when she was playing with her self watching some very good porn on our computer.

I joined her and we both had a great time.

Afterwards I came here and after a while I got hard again and stroke myself to another satisfying orgasm.

My wife had been watching the entire time.

 

Nice that you guys are both supportive of each other, it's important especially when it comes to this!!

 

My wife gets turned on watching me stroke myself and helps in numerous ways. She enjoys watching the eruption. We have sex 1-2 times a week and we stroke me off 1-2 times a week.

 

How long do each session last?

 

If were having sex we'll go for about an hour and stroking me off can last 30-45 minutes.

 

Like others - my wife likes watching me stroke myself … she says its hot!