Married men masturbating

I have been very happily married for many decades and we just love sex together. I still lust after her body every day ! But I am now retired so home most days whilst my wife is still working and gets very tired. Consequently the most we fuck together is once a week. Being at home and thinking of her luscious tits, very fuckable **** and fabulous arse makes me very horny and I greatly enjoying wanking several days a week whilst she is at work. If any other guys are in the same position, then PM me and we can chat and cum together !

 

I masturbate almost everyday and my Wife and I have sex regularly. We are just crazy horny. Honestly I feel like the men that cheat are the ones that feel like they aren't allowed to masturbate.

 

Yeah I jerk off a lot. Not really sure why. My wife knows and it doesn't bother her. It's never interfered with us having sex. My wife masterbate but not as often as I.

 

I agree with your assessment about sexual frequency in marriage. In my case it is me who wants to continue to have sex at least a couple times a week in our marriage. At first we had sex at least a couple times a week, but as time has gone by, her sexual frequency has subsided. I take good care of myself and consider myself attractive as I age. I told her in the beginning of our relationship that I masturbate. She said she knew, that it turned her on and she did it too. I have always been there sexually for her and never turned her down. I would think that I masturbate for the same reason I always have, that I need sex and a partner is not available or won't be available that night..

 

Me time on both sides is important. Wife works on Saturdays which gives me mine. This past Saturday I had 4 ejaculations during my "Me" time Followed by some mind blowing sex on Sunday.

 

Been happily married for a long long time. Although our sex life is ok, I masturbate about as much as when I was a kid. Nothing's changed looking out of these eyes with sex drive. It's got nothing to do with her - it's a solution to a need that is usually strong and immediate. Never a deep topic of discussion, but hey, it's no secret - if we're not doing it for a while, what do you think I am doing? As I think with most 'mature' men, masturbation is a primary release, where, when sex happens, it's a wonderful secondary.

 

Well for(wife and I) masturbation is an accepted part of sexual health. We love our sex life together, but masturbation keeps the prostate healthy for me. I may not always masturbate to completion, but it’s almost like edging. I try to stay hard a lot during the day. For my wife, it keeps her vigina lubricated and endorphins working.
We are a senior couple.

 

I only masturbate for the purpose of prostate health as well.

 

My wife would rather have me jerk off then pressure her for sex. She's well past her prime so not into sex that much. She caught me recently and begged for me to continue so she could watch.

 

Several comments to make to your post:
Masturbation is a form of sexual enjoyment not a second-best alternative to sex with a partner. It is separate and distinct from sex with another, not better or worse just different. All men and all women masturbate despite being in a happy, functioning and sexually active relationship.
Forgive me but your post displays a selfish and unproductive approach to sex with a partner. It is not just about what you want and need! If "the thrill of every-day fucking" as you put it has worn off after just a few months it suggests your relationship is far from what it should and could be/

 

I masturbated when I was married, I have always loved to masturbate, I would have loved if we could have done it together, it I had to hide my masturbation from her because she would have freaked out on me

 

Married and live in a sexless marriage I masturbate all the time

 

We have a great sex life. Been married over 30 years and still jack off every day.

 

I've read about the many ways you eat cum. Very hot! Does your wife know about your cum eating ways?

 

I'm in my second marriage and started masturbating at age 12 and continue to do so at 55. It has nothing to do with/about her...It's all about me, I enjoy rubbing one out from time to time. Hell, many times I'll stroke out a load before having sex just so I last longer and able to provide her with a really good fucking.

 

I've been masturbating before and all during our time together. I masturbated while having steady sexual relations with other partners before, all throughout our marriage, and even after we decided to curb sexual relations between us. We don't have sex anymore but if we did I would still masturbate enjoying it as much as intercourse. Since our sex life is null I find other women to have sex with but masturbation is the most common form of release for me. After a highly enjoyable tryst with one of my partners I often relive the encounter while I masturbate. I find it is an easier way to satisfy my daily urges, relieve stress, and help me to sleep while not having to exert as much effort as I do when I'm with a partner for an hour or two. An hour or so of sex with a partner which always includes intercourse to orgasm towards the end of our session is quite a workout. Anything short of that with a partner is just not worth the effort. Being able to masturbate to orgasm within 20 minutes, do a quick clean up, and take a nap gets me through the day. I can't orgasm as much as I did 40 years ago but the frequency has been replaced by the quality.

 

My situation is a lot like Barry's. I'm married, but over the years, our sex life has dwindled away to almost nothing. She's a great gal in every other way, just not much sex left. I've never strayed for an in-person encounter, so masturbation is what I have. I can't ignore my urges, and there's no way I'm going to deny myself the sensation I experience during the buildup and release, so I do it. While I'm doing it, I either indulge some very non-vanilla fantasies, or surf here - it is fun to chat and read about others' experiences and habits. I'm planning on a long session of it tonight. My frequency is now more like 1-2X/week than the roughly 4X/week I maintained as a teenage boy and as a lonely college student, but it still feels just as intense. And, even in the first 3-5 years of our marriage when the fucking was hard, raw, and frequent, I still found myself regularly lubed up and stroking in the shower or on our bed during alone time, and it never felt abnormal at all. It's just something I've always done.

 

Why not if you enjoy it and you are not hurting anybody

 

2nd post here.

I am now 80 years old and I have been solosexual for over 25 years, ever since menopause. My now weekly masturbation keeps me sane, keeps my sexual urges under control, and probably keeps me out of jail.
Wife knows and is 100% supportive of my needs and actions. Usually watching porn in front of my computer, but also in the shower with my beloved adjustable shower head.
LOVE to chat with other seniors and to compare notes on what i love best.
Skype = john.b.1939

 

I masturbate more because sex is less often!
So I masturbate more I love to masturbate!