Married men masturbating

I masturbate, when I'm horny or stressed, usually 2-3 times a week. My wife never initiates sex and almost never masturbates alone. I try to help her get off at least once a week - in sunday morning, when she is relaxed and more open for caresses. Usually I start kissing and caressing her. When she gets hot, I lead her hand to her genitals or give her a vibrator. She will rub her clit or use vibrator on it while I kiss her, caress her breasts, butt and insert her with my fingers or dildo. If we try hard and if she can concentrate her mind on it, she would get orgasm - I like to watch her very much, I get intensive warm feelings to her, After that I usually jerk myself off or try intercourse if I'm not too tired yet. Sometimes she can't get herself off and get anxious - then I listen what I did wrong and rather should hide my masturbation from her. We both are over 60 and married for 40 years.

 

We've been married for 13 years, together for 18 years, and I still love to masturbate regularly. The different circumstances I will masturbate in are, in no particular order;

1. If I've been sniffing her panties and they smell rather nice.
2. If I'm in the mood for sex and she isn't. I will simply masturbate beside her in bed.
3. If she wants to watch me cum. This is my particular favourite as I love to strip for her and then cum as she watches.
4. If I've just got a hard on and feel like it!

Happily married does NOT mean less wanking. For me, it's just a different sensation that suits the mood sometimes when pussy is not on the agenda for any reason.

 

26 years old, Married for almost 8 months and I still love to masturbate! I do it once a day if I can... Sex with my wife is great, but I also like to imagine situations and also people in those situations. Even my wife (and it's obviously hotter!).
I really satisfy myself... It's a shiver.
I use some porn but I prefer amateur things, better if caught in normal situations (home, beach, gym, fitting room, and so on). Normal girls!

 

Ok, i am 38 years old and married to my second wife. We both enjoy sex greatly, but with four kids (aged 9-23) and two grandkids (7months and 2years) it is not always possible for our "schedules " to match up. Add on top of that my 50 plus working hours and her 40 hours in a billing office (yea, there is a fair amount of stress there) we can not always have sex like we wish we could. My day starts at 4:30am, so my 10 is like her midnight. So if i go to bed and pull out my sleeve it does not bother her. Sometimes she will come in tbere and lay down and kiss me or pinch my nipples, sometimes sbe will get her toy out. Most the time we will start having sex, sometimes she will tell me she wants to see me cum on myself. And yes, i am still healty Eneough that i hit the headboard with that first string. That is why she wont let dlo it in her mouth, did it once and that was all for her. I respect that. When we can get time when kids are not there i enjoy wanking out in back yard. She enjoys sex on trampoline or in pool. Those however are rare occasions. But sex or masturbation,it is no secret between us and we enjoy both. Alone and together.

 

My husband still masturbates even tho we have sex quite often. even on days we have sex there are times he still jerks off, which doesn't bother me at all.

 

I have sex with my wife. I have sex with my girlfriend. And I masturbate.

I don't see a problem with whacking off when I need it. I do and still manage to keep two women satisfied.

 

I think it is important for men and women to have a physical relationship with themselves. It is healthy.

My husband and I have a great sex life. We also have a great sex life with ourselves.

Yar tee tee.

 

My husband and I both do. There's just some times that solo is where it's at, not a problem.

 

I mastubate most days my wife knows I do it and she is fine with it. if my wife is not home I video or photo it on my phone and send it her. She has also watched me do it and helps me.

 

I have a very high sex drive and sex alone is never enough even when I have sex I will still masterbate at least twice a day sometimes more .

 

My wife and I still have great sex, but we have two young children so the reality is that we don't do it very often. Recently, we got away for a couple nights and the sex was as hot as it's ever been. Having said that, I've always masturbated and I enjoy it. I don't really see it as a substitute for sex with my wife, but I'm sure I do it more often since sex has become less frequent. I would like to masturbate with my wife now and then, but usually if I start to play with myself in bed, it turns into sex and that's fine. I think if we had sex more often, we might masturbate together, too. Although we don't talk about it much, I certainly don't have any problems if she gets the urge and masturbates. I will generally sit down at the computer (home and work...I have a private office) and I'll jerk off to some porn. On rare occasions when my wife takes the kids and goes to see her mother for a couple days, I'll usually take it up a notch and have phone sex a couple of times.

 

After 3 kids and being married, sex is never what it use to be. I do have a higher sex drive and still masturbate on a regular basis. Although the wife does watch sometimes if its during sex or some mornings I tend to enjoy it more if she isnt around. She has caught me a number of times over the years and its still comfortable to some level. I dont know about other guys but when you get in the zone of masturbation and your suddenly interrupted, its hard to get back in the groove of things. I do enjoy porn and that is one thing that she isn't real agreeable on so I have to choose that when I know she wont be home.

 

I sort myself out all the time. I have to.
Since the birth of my daughter 2 1/2 years ago our sex life nose dived. Once in 4 - 6 weeks on average (used to be 3-4 a week atleast).
My wife has been to the doctors about her lack of desire for sex and is being treated for depression but as of yet no change.
I spent at least an hour on her last week, tickling her, massaging, playing, going down on her, using toys on her. I loved it, she got frustrated at not being able to cum, we put it down to maybe the meds. I refused to finish thinking it would ease her frustration and leave things open for another night. NOTHING! Was our wedding anniversary Monday just gone. No attention or passion what so ever. Meal out, then she just got pj's on and lay on the sofa just waiting to go to bed to sleep.
So if I didn't use my hand I'd get fuck all.

 

I feel you man. I hate to say it, but there is no magic bullet here, she has to deal with the depression first if sex is going to continue. I have finally gotten to a place/age where sex or the lack thereof does not interfere like before when I was younger and hormone driven. I do have to say that straight masturbation never replaced sex, but with prostate massage and edging now a routine, I am far less driven to initiate,get turned down and pissed off. I'm not a negative guy,but life id's full of disappointments, I've always been self reliant,and usually find a way to overcome disappointment. There is no replacement for patience.

 

Masturbating is normal.
If I want to do it most of the time my wife will watch or let me do it over her tits. and the same applies to her also...

 

I am married, I masturbate and my wife knows it and sometimes watches. Schedules, family and other things don't always leave us with much alone time for each other. So we both masturbate. I bought her a small vibrator and she sometimes uses it in bed before I come to bed. She also knows I masturbate very often to a picture of her naked body. I am an old fashioned guy and I like a natural pussy and she took a great side view of her full bush. Just thinking about it makes me puffy! And of course it tastes good as well. I don't have th einches I used to have due to age so I tell her she has a choice. I drop my pants and say do you want this 3" or I stick out my tongue and ask do you want this 3". We have fun!

 

Married, age 66 and I do enjoy masturbating and edging !!!

 

always have...always will!

 

I'm married for the second time and masturbated for both those marriages.
I enjoy it and it is easier and faster to just do it myself than to get her off first. I have numerous fantasies that I think of during the act and most times prefer it.

 

i got married comparitavely late so I think by then I no longer had the expectation that sex would completely replace masturbation. We also had a discussion really early on in which I said I loved sex and would do it as often as she wanted, but I was also used to taking care of myself so if there were times I was horny and she wasn't, I wasn't going to wait around for some indeterimate amount of time to see when that would change, I'd just have a wank.

So, for the first few years she was really horny and we had sex just about every day, sometimes more than once, and I probably only masturbated once a week. Gradually that has declined and now how horny she is depends very much on her cycle so there are times we have lots of sex and times we don't. When we don't I masturbate.