Married guys tell me about your first time

My wife and I new a younger couple that liked to use certain drugs to enhance thier sex life, one night we did some ice with them, and it got me so horny I asked them to leave, and my wife and I fucked all night. I had gotten some off the young man and the next day I was off work, I did more, and turned on someporn. It was a shemale video, and it made me so excited I was jerking off, thinking about sucking her fat cock !I got some pantyhose and put them on, and that really felt good. I did a little more, and was watching the movie, and I heard a noise, and turned to see the young man in the door way to our den! I was about to say something, when he walked up to me smiling, and pulled out his cock, inches away, I leaned into it , and sucked his dick until he came. It's happened 3 times, and I love it

 

I had played around with a male friend a few times in high school. Nothing to intense, mostly just stroking each other. Fast forward about 35 years. I had begun to think a lot about sex with a guy. Tried a few adult sites until I found someone on Adult Friend Finder. He was recently divorced and looking to explore sex with a male. Over time we did many things together. I started with me sucking his cock, but over time we worked up to very passionate sex. Even though he soon found a new girl friend, we continued to see each other for a couple of years until he had to move for work.

 

After my experience with the barber it took more than 20 years before I could not fight the urge to try sucking a cock. I met a guy in a yahoo chat room while I was working out of state. It took a couple of days of chatting about what we liked and would like to try before we agreed to meet. He came to my apartment on a Saturday morning and after some small talk and some porn on the computer he agreed to get undressed and try 69 with me. I was only wearing a bathrobe so I was ready to go. He was having a hard time getting erect and I was squeezing his cock at the base and sucking on it. I was amazed at how wonderful it felt to have a cock in my mouth. He played with my cock for a while and when he put his mouth on it I warned him I was going to cum. I was so turned on that I could not hold back. He never did get hard and we ended our session. The next time I chatted with him he said he felt ashamed of what he had done and didn't want to go any further. Respecting his wishes I moved on and found another guy that wanted to meet and this time he sucked on my cock first and I told him I wanted him to sit on the bed and let me suck him off. He had a really nice cock, not too big and a nicely shaped head that I thought would go nicely in my ass. I sucked him until he came in my mouth and when he did I shot my load all over my leg. What a great feeling! We were working on another meeting with talk about him fucking me when the job finished and I had to go back to Texas.

 

My first time was via Craigslist..

I had met women discreetly for 10 years or so... not that often.. but now & then. I would normally plan to meet someone during work hours. I would take a day.. or half day off work.. and meet ultra-discreetly.

Along the way.. I would peek at gay porn.. or usually those male massages that would turn into play.

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Anyway.. I first met a guy that was very close to my office.. We met outside his apartment building.. but I quickly agreed to come up to his apartment.

We chatted (awkwardly) in his apartment. This guy wasn't really what I had in mind.. he was older.. and was creepy. He was very interested in giving me head however.

In my mind I thought.. I may as well go through with accepting head from him. I didn't know if I would work up the nerve to be in a man's apartment again.

We moved to his bedroom.. and within a minute.. he was giving me head. Initially I enjoyed it.. but he would stop.. and stare at me. Later I realized he was probably interested in kissing etc.

I did go limp during this staring period.. but he got me hard again.. and sucked me to completion.

I didn't meet him again however.

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My second experience was much better. Younger guy.. low pressure.. He gave me wonderful head.. took his time.. worked my cock for a long time..

He was kneeling in front of me.. I found myself enjoying and looking forward to those moments when he would hold my ass to stay balanced.

I offered to move to his bed.. which was only 10' away in his small apartment.

While on the bed.. I was able to stroke his cock a few times..

I have been very curious about going further.. I have spoken to guys online.. and have met a few in public. I haven't felt that connection since however.

I'm still looking.

 

still waiting for 1st x, been done by guys tho

 

I was 60 y/o and hadn't had a cock in 40 years. I put an ad in craigs list met him at his house and sucked his cock until he
came in my mouth, a few months later i bottomed for the first time and love that now.

 

I didn't really feel the urge until my late 30s, during my first marriage - fairly suddenly began slipping on my wife's panties and having heroic wanks - I had one university friend who turned up every few years and we did some fun cock-sucking but I didn't really get a Jones for it till my early 40s.

I would have no desire to live with a guy though - definitely women all the way - women who read the Globe and Mail and go to pilates classes although diner waitresses were fine when I was younger and intellect was less of a must have (although a surprising number of waitresses are paying their way through college.)

There's an age when a man (if he's not crippled by either religion or his mother or both) is willing to fuck almost anything because his selfish genes are impatient to cover the earth like Sherwin Williams paint - it's a natural imperative.

later one looks for that lovely combination of butter wouldn't melt in her mouth when meeting parents, employers, senior officers etc, but enthusiastic whore in the bedroom (or . . . well . . . a reasonable facsimile thereof, in states where legal)

 

Nice one. Thanks for taking the time to elaborate (or 'etiolate' if you're a Harvard man)

 

New here guys. As a 71 year old married guy, I also admit to no sex with the wife for years. Still great together but I have been getting more and more interested (watching videos etc) about sex with guys; anal sex in particular. I think I would like to try it but want a guy with a smaller cock. Over the decades I've sucked a few cocks; mostly 30 years ago but a few times over that period when I found a safe married guy with similar interests.

I think many married guys, especially older and sexless ones. explore the enjoyment of cumming with another guy. Either passively or actively. Sucking or being sucked, fucking or being fucked or all of the above. I know that describes me pretty well.

 

I've always been very sexually minded. Crazy about women but also intrigued by the thought of the taboo of men. I was in college and having a great time with a couple of girlfriends when I was first seduced by a Bi man. He was a professor at the school (not my professor), and he was next door neighbors to the house in which I rented a room. He and the owner of the home loved to get together and have drinks and discuss different heady topics. He was a nice guy, and he had some ideas that made you think. He was an Anthropologist and postulated that as society evolved, eventually the taboos of sex would fall away and it would be okay to engage with whoever we wanted, regardless of gender. Hmmm

After the school year ended his wife left for Europe on Sabbatical and my landlord went on a month long vacation. Ding ding. He promptly invited me to come to dinner at his house as he had a couple coming for dinner. I accepted and showed up that evening. They were a great married couple. Great food and drink was enjoyed by all. At about 10 pm they left. He and I poured a couple stiff drinks. He went and changed out of his jeans into some running shorts and a Tee shirt. We sat in the living room talking. He was in a lazy boy across from me. He had a leg thrown over the arm of the recliner. Oh lord, I could see one of his balls peeking out. He obviously wasn't wearing shorts. I wondered if he knew what he was doing. I drank my drink pretty fast.

When we got up for new drinks he found opportunities to touch me in the kitchen near the bar. I was so nervous I just kept moving away from him. My mind was going crazy. We got back to the living room. Over the course of a few minutes his leg once again went over the arm. This time though, I could see so much more. He was totally exposed to me. Both big balls and the biggest cock I had ever seen in my life. It wasn't hard, but I certainly wouldn't call is soft either. Big and long and fat. To this day I have still never seen a bigger cock in person. I was so horny, but I was more scared. What if he really didn't know I could see it? In retrospect it seems so silly. Me sitting there drunk, watching as he showed off. I was a mess. I finally took my leave for the night. Before I left he invited me to join him the next day on his second story private deck to get some sun. I agreed. At the door he leaned in for a kiss, but I turned my face away. At the same time his hand roughly grabbed my ass, He squeezed it and briefly pressed his crotch against mine. I virtually sprinted home. What the fuck had just happened. I masturbated 5 times that night thinking about the events of the evening and fantasizing about what I wished I had been brave enough to do.

The following morning I woke up to find him standing in my bedroom. I was actually a little perturbed he was standing there. It was really early, and he knew I was going on a bike ride before I was coming over to sun. He stood there watching me as I got up and headed to the bathroom, my morning wood pointing almost straight up! He asked if he could hold my cock while I peed. I scowled at him and said no. When I got back to the room he watched as I put on my riding gear. I actually got into it a little, bending over in front of him as I put on my jock and them my riding shorts. It was litlle bit of a thrill and it sent a jolt through me. I took off for a very distracted ride.

A few hours later I rode back into the neighborhood, hot and sweaty. I went directly to his house. He welcomed me in and we quickly went up the stairs, through his bedroom and out to the attached deck. It was totally private and beautiful. He immediately dropped his shorts and stood there by the railing on full display. He told me he always tanned nude, but I was free to do whatever I wanted. I told him I needed to run home and take a shower. He didn't miss a chance and told me I could take a shower in the master bathroom. I went in and he asked if he could get in with me. I said no. When I was done he asked if he could dry me. I let him do that. He didn't take too much advantage of it, but did manage to get a little rub and squeeze in.

Once out to the deck we took up positions on lounge chairs and chatted and drink a couple drinks. My drinks seemed to be very strong. The tension was so thick I was just going crazy with fear and lust. I wanted him to just take me. He didn't but he did ask me to put oil on his back. As I did I got a hard cock that could have drilled through concrete. I quickly laid back down on my stomach to hide my excitement. Over the next few hours we talked more. At one point I had been facing away and when I looked back he was stroking his cock. It was fully hard and wow, truly magnificent. There was pre-cum coming out the tip. I wanted so bad to jump over and suck it, but I didn't. I froze. There I was with the opportunity to fulfill a taboo fantasy and I was too confused and scared to do anything about it. I went home without pulling the trigger. He invited me over for a nightcap that evening at 8. I said ok.

I went home and was so angry at myself. Why had I chickened out? I knew I wanted it, but I was scared. I promised myself right then that tonight would be the night.

I showed up determined! We went into his big library. It was a cool room with floor to ceiling bookshelves and art. He put on some soft music and asked if I wanted a drink. He got me a drink and we sat on the sofa. I said "Let's get naked" and we did and sat back down. He started to talk but I wasn't listening. I slid down on my knees, pushed his legs apart and dove in. His cock was semi hard and I hungrily licked and sucked it. It quickly got huge! I didn't know what I was doing, but I was doing it with a lot of passion and abandon. My mouth stretched around the huge cock. It felt so odd and wonderful. The texture was so different. I was really getting into it. we ended up going to the floor and just greedily exploring each others cocks and balls. We tried 69 but it wasn't great. back to straight sucking and licking. I was in heaven.

He got up and left the room and came back a minute later with a tube of KY. Uh-oh! His cock was so big, I knew this was going to hurt. I didnt tell him no. He squeezed out a huge glob into his hand and ran it up and down his shaft and then rubbed it on my asshole. He laid me on my back and got between my legs. He pushed my legs wide and placed the head of his cock against my asshole. WHen he started pushing I thought there was no way this was going to happen, but then it did. The head slipped inside. I saw freaking stars. It hurt. He waited a minute for things to calm down then started slowly inching more of the shaft into me, in and out. When about half of it was in me and I wasn't feeling I was going to die, he pressed his chest against mine and roughly bit my neck. Our bodies lurched and he shoved the entire length of that huge cock in to me. His teeth dug into my neck as he started sawing in and out of my ass in long strokes. He stayed in control as i thrashed around. He varied his speed and depth. He started talking dirty. He told me I was his. He could do with me what I wanted. I agreed.

Without coming he pulled out of me and stood up. He led me to the bathroom and put me in the shower. This time he didn't ask, he just got in. He washed me, and I washed him. It was amazing. After we dried off we went down to the bar and poured two drinks and went back to the library and sat drinking for a few minutes. Then, he stood and told me to get on my knees. His cock was deflated but he told me very bluntly to suck it. I did. It very soon got hard. Then he took over and started pumping his hips towards my face. It got uncomfortable because he was pushing in so far. I gagged a couple of times. My eyes were tearing up. He was getting more and more aggressive. Then he told me to get on all fours.

With more KY on his big cock he lined up behind me. His big head slid in with little more than a twinge. He grabbed my hips and started rocking in and out. As he picked up speed he made clear who was boss. Dirty possessive talk and a few swats on my ass. He was getting close and he reached around and grabbed my cock and jacked me off as he was coming. I came so hard.

That was my first Bi experience

 

I went to an adult book store and had an unstoppable urge to wear panties. I bought some fishnet panties n went into a movie Booth n got naked n put on the panties, then some one tapped on the door, I let him in n he pulled his pants down n had an awesome erection..so I sucked his dick as I went down on my knees n he came in my mouth, I swollowed all n loved it..I now want to suck n be sucked all the time. It was the best ever new experience I ever had..

 

married man that loves sex with other men, that's been going on for years now. I'm always at the arcades in a booth with glory holes waiting for guys to put their cocks in my mouth. I always leave my door unlocked for closer contact. I must give head to 6 or more each time. It seems the more I get the more I want. I can't keep track of all the guys ive suckrd off, thiers so many. I went to Italy a few years back and was at the beach in my speedo shorts, I got real drunk on sambuka one night and day, and passed out only to be woken by 4 guys trying to rape me. I tried to resist but was soon was taken over. I started sucking theres cocks when I got so turned on I just let them have their way with me. They all took turns fucking me and I must have came 4 times. the next day I saw a couple of them and went back to there place for more. what a great trip

 

Great. I love it

 

I’m still looking.....

 

Life is not fair at times. I have had quite a few offers, but have never taken them up. They always seemed to be when I was wearing my leather shorts, so perhaps you should get a pair see what happens. LOL

 

Yes maybe lol

 

Ha-ha. My shorts have quite a history. Jane bought them for both of us when we went on a rock climbing week end (needless to say we did not climb too many rocks). Over the years and since we moved to London, they have attracted quite a few guys and although nothing sexual ever happened, some of them have become quite good friends. I always remember the first time that one of the guys saw Jane all in leather and told me that she was enough to make him go straight. Life is very odd, but can still be good fun. LOL.

 

Nothing "strange" here... completely natural dudes.

 

I was seduced by my scoutmaster I was 13 on a summers day in the woods I sucked his big cock and loved everything about it his sweet pre cum and his warm cum in my mouth

 

Told my wife early on in our relationship i was bi. She was totally cool about it. After going out for about 4 years she said that she wanted me to sleep with her workmates husband. It took about 6 months to organise it but when it happened the 2 girls watched us and even gave instructions. I must add his cock was huge even when soft.