Married Bisexual Bottoms 'taking It' Bareback, Getting Bred

You obviously enjoy having gay sex with this man, including being truly intimate (kissing/making out, and now bareback sex) with him.
If you're really falling in love with him, why is it so frustrating?
If you're single (or even married for that matter), why not make this man your boyfriend, and just intimacy and romantic sex you're already having with him for however long it lasts?
Has he fucked you bareback more than just that one? I can see how having sex/making love bareback and him cumming in your ass would intensity your feelings for him. Does he feel the same way about you as you do about him.
It seems like you're already more than halfway there with him becoming your boyfriend with the level of intimacy and romance you share together.
Could you imagine saying out loud that you love this man, and he's your boyfriend? If so, then ask him to be your boyfriend (it doesn't sound like he'd object), and enjoy your life to the fullest, instead of being frustrated.
There's nothing wrong with 2 guys falling in love and having as much gay sex/making love as the two of them can handle. Stop being frustrated, accept it for what it is, make this man who you obviously love your boyfriend, and carry on

 

I was talking to my protege one day and he started talking about how much he'd love to breed me and... I instantly got offended and asked him, "Do I look like a female to you? What, do you have it in your head that just because you bust a nut in me that it's the same as getting a woman pregnant?" He thought I was kidding for a moment until he realized that I was well and truly offended by what he said - and then assuming that I was like his FWBs, all of whom are gay bottoms who talk about him breeding them and like the female they behave like when they're in bed with him.

Yes, I've been fucked and creamed more times than I care to admit to; yes, I will get offended because there is nothing "girly" about me; I can bottom, but I'm not a bottom and, yeah, I can top with the best of them. I told my protege that if he thinks he can breed me like I'm his bitch or something, well, the mentorship is over. I didn't speak to him for two whole weeks, and going forward from there, I try to keep calm when he uses the word "breed" when talking about how much he loves to fuck his FWB and, ooh, man, that shit just rubs me the wrong way. You can fuck me. You can inseminate me. Very damned unlikely some actually breeding is going to happen.

 

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Yeah, I know about the fantasy and all that and I think it's silly - but I've always been more literal minded when it comes to this. I know - and probably better than most - how... bitchy it feels to be fucked and creamed by a guy; and I learned that us guys are wired just like women are when it comes to being inseminated but, okay, let's keep it on the real and, oh, yeah, being fucked by a straight male - if that's not an oxymoron, I don't know what is anymore. This is all too serious to me to be playing games but, sure, I had a moment where I had to grow up a little more and not be that offended by some of today's terms but since you can only breed a woman, well, the implication is plain to see and... I don't like it. Don't have to like it. If I'm sucking your dick, you are not feeding me anything and don't fuck up and say, "Yeah, suck my dick, bitch..." or call me a good cocksucking slut or whore - just don't.

I take it bareback. I always have except for maybe three rare moments where he wanted to strap up and it wasn't all that good for me because I couldn't feel him and especially when he came. Not when he bred me. Yeah, I'm one of those old school bisexuals from way back in the day and I've long since understood that when I get fucked, I'm "being the girl" - but I'm not a girl. My asshole isn't a pussy. You got me confused with that woman you've been wanting to fuck but she's not giving you the time of day. If this is how you think, then congratulations: You're now my idea of an asshole and we won't be having sex. Ever. Be on the real or no deal.

 

would haved loved to see my first wife breed with another man. she was going to do it but the guy wouldnt. ithink she was going to let a neighbor do it but i said no, to close and then i think she was goung to do it when we were wife swapping. dont know what happened but aftert hat she did get pregnant, not sure whose it was and she never told.
she ended up getting an abortion
I would haved loved to see her bred black

 

See, you understand why it offends the shit out of me...

 

I am completely 100% a bottom. This is all “want to” so far but getting bred to me is just a term of he cums in your ass. That is what I really want and I’ve really tried to dissect why I want that and I’ve come to the conclusion it’s multifaceted. It’s a feminine feeling I think that most guys at least wonder what is like to be a woman. There’s a power dynamic that when a guy is on top of you pumping his cum in you that he is dominant and you are submissive. I’ve also learned recently learned is I’ve never felt desired and I think that bottoming is something that would make me feel desired. I don’t want a relationship with a guy but laying on my back, legs wrapped around him as he has his way with me and yes kissing as he cums in me. It’s very taboo and erotic. Now I’m not into the alpha dudes that wanna talk dirty like I’m their bitch, bend over while they fuck my man pussy…eww gross.

 

As PapaSmurf wrote how it is with some guys, using the term breeding a guy's ass holds a very special place in my heart. It is the hottest thing in my fantasies and the greatest pleasure in my watching gay porn and writing about gay sex, and has been so for many years.

At 61, I've never been married, I have no children, and I've only had sex with 3 women--2 girlfriends for three years each and one prostitute once--and I've always had to use a condom because they--the girlfriends anyway--were not on the pill. So far, I've only had the opportunity to fuck bareback with my last girlfriend, in her ass a bunch of times, and it was the greatest fun for me, including to cum inside her ass. But overall, she was the wrong sex for me, the wrong gender: it was a man's ass that I wanted to fuck bareback and cum inside of. I finally realized that near the end of our relationship, which ended just before the pandemic hit.

So I've had in my mind for years now how my sperm has always been meant to be given to other men, not women, that that's what my sperm were created for, in particular given to men through their anal cavities, shooting deep inside of their ass, with my cock buried deep inside their magnificent assholes. I imagine my sperm merging with their body, getting into their bloodstream, and coursing through their body, going everywhere. Of course the reality of my live, viable little guys being active in such a way is rubbish: they'd probably die within seconds or minutes. But in my fantasy it's real--my very essence coursing throughout a man's body, merging with another man, becoming one with him, me becoming one with another man.

To me, it's the most intimate sexual act--physical act--possible between guys, between me and another man. And I'm all about greater intimacy with guys. I've even fallen in love with a couple of guys, or at least developed very severe crushes, although unrequited. In general I consider myself a gay man, though in reality just a "mostly gay" man, since I still find women very attractive (but have no interest in having sex let alone romantic love with them anymore). God, to join with another man, truly making love and breeding him, is the ultimate--at least sexually the ultimate, if mutual love is not present. Actually, that would be fine by me, as I think I'd be happiest with just a close FWB (love relationships are just so messy and challenging).

And, though still a bottom virgin, I would love to be versatile, have him breed my ass as well, sharing our nectar semen and sperm together. So far I've only fucked one guy, as a top of course, but with a condom. But I have tried to fuck with a couple other guys, but have had so much trouble with a condom that I can't stay hard long enough to penetrate his ass. Condoms are just such a huge turn off for me, probably because that's all I ever used with women. So all that together led me to go on PrEP. But I have yet to find a guy to go bareback with. But, truth be told, I haven't put myself out there very much the last couple of years.

So I can't speak from experience shooting my manseed into a guy's asshole. But my hottest fantasies involve that all the time. Also, as I've said, I haven't bottomed yet, but would love to with the right guy, as the idea of him breeding me is out of this world arousing. Also, I do want to point out that in no way do I feel in my bottom fantasies like a WOMAN being impregnated. First, I'm very much a man, and love everything masculine (though I am equally attracted to more effeminate gay men as well). At the conscious level it's not about me mothering or fathering a child with a man, because I no longer have any desire to have children, especially at 61. But perhaps at the unconscious level there may be some element to that, I don't know. I guess a woman and man making a child together is the greatest intimacy possible with a straight couple. But I think at the unconscious level I want that kind of intimacy with a man. Or maybe that's all hokum. Maybe it's just me wanting my seed essence to become one with a man, and his seed essence to become one with me, a total merging of our bodies and selves--without creating new life that's part of both of us. Or maybe it is about creating new life--two men becoming one.

 

I want to play around for the experience. I want to be fucked and would return the favour.

I don't like the terms Bred, breeding and man pussy. Those that do can hookup with those that do I guess

I just want to feel the physical sensation of being fucked, sucking cock or getting sucked off by another guy. Just for fun and if I trusted him to be clean I would want to be fucked bareback. I want to feel a guy blow a load in my ass but I'm not his bitch I'm just another guy hooking up for NSA fun. If he likes I would suck him and fuck him too if we got around to it. .

I would be thankful to have some discreet fun with a like-minded person.

 

no shit...

 

Offhand....I'd say most married bi-men (mostly hetero) leave the emotional crap at the door! It's just (can be) hot sex for us, and not anything more.

 

Sounds like a type of situation I'd enjoy.

 

Exactly. I'll kiss a woman in a heartbeat but can't see myself kissing a man passionately. In the heat of the moment, maybe, but not off the break. It's more sex than anything. We chill and hang out, rub and tug each other, suck, then fuck, then go back to chilling. Then repeat.

 

Back in the day, that was the ONLY way I would even consider doing it! If I couldn't feel them unloading inside me, I wasn't interested. No kissing, no swapping of spit, just hot man to man sex....and a hot load in my ass. My last group encounter back then, was with 5 other guys, who were all very well hung! Nothing like a hot semen enema...

Oh, those were the days...been decades now.

 

That's it for me too! When he first penetrates me and begins to slowly fuck me. After that I love the sound and feel of his hips smacking my ass. My lovers have all cum in my mouth or my ass.

 

I'm a married versatile. I enjoy cumming in a man's ass the same as cumming in my wife's ass. Only difference is a can stroke a cock while I'm fucking a man. A man can give me something my wife can't. A cock up my ass until he comes
She does use a dildo on me at times but a real cock is much better. I love it as the head enters meand the rubbing on my prostate is almost enough to make me cum. And when he pushes in really far and starts cumming is the best. I don't think about what it's called, I just enjoy it. Give it a few decades and the terms will change again

 

The term is "pure pleasure". Lol. That won't change, I'm sure.