When your wife cools off with sex , guys seem to open up to the bi option. Is that what you find to be true. It is with me
I wouldn't say in my case that it was the reason that I became lets say... Cock curious. But I'd say it was a contributing factor. In my teen years before having the opportunity for sex with girls, a couple male friends and I enjoyed paying with each other. Call it experimenting or tending to a need but we didn't consider ourselves gay, or queer back then. Through marriage I never felt the need but still always thought about those earlier days. Now that my wife is unable to perform as she once could I feel the need to want to experiment again. Maybe too it's a hormone balance with age. I think it would have to be someone I'm very familiar with to entice me though. Not just anyone.
I can't say it was for me, I was curious enough at 19, following losing my virginity with a girl, to go and find a guy to fuck me. After 20 years of then hooking-up mostly with women I got married to a woman and for the first 10-15 years we had a great sex-life. However the next 5-10 years my wife became less interested in sex generally and I gradually became more interested in guys again. I'd say that I am now on the gay end of bisexual and if I have a choice I generally prefer to hook-up with gay guys. Better lovers! Simon
I've always been cock curious, my wifes menopause aka men-on-pause gave me more free time to think about man on man sex, so it began, I shifted my porn viewing from straight to gay I found myself getting more into man sex until I had to do something about it, so I was looking around on the internet and stumbled across a gay dating/hookup website called Adam4adam it was free and easy to navigate, after browsing on many occasions I finally got up the nerve to meet up with a guy at his place to give him a blow job that was 5 years ago fast forward I never have sex with my wife at all anymore and I have a guy who I see regularly, I m a bottom and he's a talented oral hung top that loves to rim me, all I can say is I really enjoy sex with men and why did I wait so long
I love pussy but occasionally wouldn't mind feeling something hard in my ass. I have a dildo but sometimes you want that stroke. To be on the receiving end of a nice dick in your as is such a turn on.
It wasn't the sole factor why but her diminishing sex drive was a contributing factor. I started by getting occasional blow jobs from gay men. Shortly into that I became cock curious myself and took the plunge and sucked a few guys off that had sucked me off. I found that I really enjoyed sucking cock and became very good at it too. That was 30 years ago and I don't ever regret having evolved into a bisexual male as my inner feelings and desires began to flow outward. I'm still married to a woman and love having sex with her as she does with me knowing I'm bisexual and we both enjoy having sex with our boyfriend too.
I have a great sex life with my wife, and she’s very open sexually. But my appetite for sex is much bigger than hers. I love the thought of being with another man (or men) and wish I could explore my bi side more.
For us, it was an acceptable option. My wife was always curious about gay sex since her days in the garment center. She always suggested that I try it with our gay friend. When she was unable to have physical sex anymore,not even oral, she suggested I try it for REAL. She thought it was a great option to cheating with another woman. Our old gay friend was lonely and horny, since his former partner moved west. She thought it was an easy cure for the situation. I did too. It was a no hastle situation. A good bj is a great stress reliever, plus the fact that my wife loved watching us.
I've been bi curious my whole life. Came to grips with it just after my first divorce. My current wife kept me satisfied enough to not think about men in the beginning. When it cooled off tho, I absolutely went back to sleeping with men. Its not better. Just different and available anytime I want it
I opened up to my wife in a discreet way by saying how would you like to get fucked by 2 guys. She shot me down straight away. She won't do anal and hardly sucks cock. It was always on her terms and only what she wanted. Then I found craigslist. Met a guy freaked out but finally followed through. After that it's been an on going thing with the same guy and his partner a top. We share him together and separately. It has been one of the best times lately. In fact it always makes me smile when I have just come back from there house and later that night she jumps on and rides me not knowing where I have been. Hot!
My wife just doesn’t have the sex drive I have. She also went through mena pause as well. I found bisexuality kinda late in life at 38. I have now found and excepted that I’m way bisexual border line gay! As I almost think I would rather have sex w a guy on a regular basis. The pleasure for me with a guy is just incredible. And seems guys just love to ravish my body and cock way more then any woman ever has. My reg fwb guy just absolutely know how to get me hard! He will suck and ravish my cock for the longest time unlike any woman I’ve been with...