I used to feel really guilty about masturbating when I was young. I'm married, and the sex has kind of dropped off, so my masturbation has increased, but without guilt. I have always been very visual, and simply masturbating is rarely enough. After 4 or so decades of masturbating, I have a ton of variety to choose from...wondering if this is rare and do most guys simply masturbate to get it over?
Im not sure what your question is. I am married and i love to masturbate. Mostly as a result from an unfulfilling sex life with my wife. Not an ideal situation, but I make the best of it and take matters into my own hands a few times a week. Im a very visual person too and my wife is shy and insecure about her body. So I go online to watch porn on my own.
i'm not into porn, i have alot of different techniques or scenarios when i masturbate, it depends on what comes to mind so i guess my question is, do most men just masturbate and get it over with or not? even as a young adolescent i had urges to look at my ass in the mirror, stimulate my ass with anything and everything, masturbate outside, heck, once when i was a teenager, i was at a party at a public park during the day and got up in a tree, took off my clothes and masturbated, i like being naked outside. i like to be totally naked when i masturbate, maybe i do feel a little guilty as I am hesitant to share more...when i met my wife, she was my sexual equal, we did just enough creative stuff... that evaporated almost 2 years ago, she used to tongue my ass and that drove me crazy..i probably think about that daily. Since then, my creativeness with masturbating has increased...
Masturbation is a wonderful way to enjoy your sexuality. I think it usually increases your love making skills too.
Im married and i still have a great sex life. We masturbate in front of each other, if the other doesnt feel like sex we just masturbate in the others presence. We both dont mind. And when we are both horny we can make a night of masturbation and sex. I cant complain.
I truly do believe that most married men do go back to masturbating after the fucking with the wife starts to lose its excitement. In my own case, I lasted nearly a year before I grabbed my cock and went back to self-pleasuring. I do suspect, though, that many ,if not most, wives, would be put-off to know that their husbands are jacking-off. For that reason, most masturbating husbands keep it a secret.
Hitman hits it !!!! From the sound of things , quite a bit. Cool. Spot on. Mutual solo touching brings man and woman closer together.
My wife and I have been sharing masturbation since we first got married, which was a long time ago. I always enjoy in-depth, mature conversation about this topic.
The simple rules of Nature make it either impossible, or at the very least, undesirable for a woman to partake in active sex at certain times of the month, and as most men need relief at least every couple of days (usually much more frequently), then masturbation is essential. While some men may, indeed, keep this a secretive thing, I think most are pretty open about it. After all, it is being considerate towards his wife's feelings by not insisting on having sex when she's not ready for it. Even when they are having an active sex life, men also tend to require relief from just the very though of what's coming up, or even the memory of what happened last time. If a man is prone to premature ejaculation, then masturbating a little while before having sex can also be beneficial in increasing stamina. Once again, this need not be a secretive thing. Individual relationships are pretty much unique, and couples will usually adjust to what suits them best, but there should be a difference between being discreet & being secretive.
