I just got of an abusive marriage but we are not divorced he sent me papers saying he wanted a divorce but thats it I have not heard from it yet and he was sent anything since which is odd. I don't understand what this means I have not talked to him. I am not dating because I feel its cheating because the divorce is not done with and I still love this many I married. Lets call him Andy. I am not using his real name. Andy and I have been on and off since 2014. I will take him back because I really love Andy. He treats me so nice and is romantic and the other times he is a bully and makes me feel like I am the bad person. I feel so depressed because I have my freedom but I miss Andy.
It's always so hard during the "in between" stage like this. I've been through it more than once, listen to your heart hun. Good luck.
My pleasure. Any time you need an ear or a shoulder, look for me if you want. I give great advice to other people, as to my own....LOL
Be thankful you got out before it got to bad. Do you know if he cheated? Andy should learn to control his temper I think
No I do not. Andy also has other issues like bipolar and drinking and cutting. I am bipolar. We met through a Mental Health support group.
I imagine that alcohol was the trigger to his violent outbursts, correct me if I am wrong. To some people it is a poison, turning a caring gentle person into a mad bull. These people are not alcoholics, they are just allergic to alcohol.
He was nasty after one beer and when he was sober he would flip out over small things I am bipolar so I have done that but not that bad, He would think I was cheating. He said before he had meds he heard voices and saw shadow figures.
