marriage failing

I agree. Don't ever think putting your happiness on hold will be better for your kids in this situation. They can tell when you're unhappy and first of all, they won't like seeing you sad. And second, like daisy said, you don't want them thinking this is acceptable in any relationship they have in the future.

 

Do you have to leave now? I wish there were words one could say to make you feel better, to help you go through it. A friendly cyber hug is all I can offer and it doesn't sound like much...

 

We are going to have a counselor walk us through it. So the first step is that we go see him, and discuss some ideas. We'll handle it that way until we are in some kind of agreement. I'm hoping it's that we can cohabitate.

Plus we want to make sure our kids are doing ok, so they'll go with us at some point too. I think the way I envision our near future is that we are all speak about things plainly. It would be more healthy.

And he seems happier. He speaks of unhappiness and agony, but then acts totally fine.

 

How are you doing/feeling now Calgirl??

 

I'm mostly unhappy and restless and anxious and wishing my life would move along. I'm very close to getting a job, and that will help. Playing tons of tennis keeps me distracted. Going out with friends, and having fun keeps me sane. We'll see the counselor soon, and that will clarify things. My kids are doing well and that is very important. However, I get scared they aren't expressing what they need to say. That is why I want them into the counselor with us. It's difficult to know how transparent we should be. There is a man that fulfills me, and I'm thankful for that. I fantasize about me being free to build a life with him. It's only in my head though.

 

No facepalm meme would be adequate

 

True. Meme and primates don't realize the importance of companionship.

 

LOL, I actually prefer you like this, It took one little push for you to go from 'Oh I'm so sweet and vulnerable i need someone to hold me' to Ftttt Ftttt Raaaaooowww and all Jenny from the bloc.

Plenty of 'companionship' with your husband, so much you ended up thinking about going into the garage, sealing the doors and letting the engine run while you gently fall asleep. This new one that 'satisfies you so completely' you are talking about his Cock, his big thrusting cock and manly hands, OMG so thats what an orgasm is

But dont shoot the messenger, I'm a tossbag, here to make smart alecky jokes, but it doesnt have anything to do with me. If he knows how to use it and the others see you dizzy all the time. How are you going to keep all the other slutty skanks away? You are a slave to the cock, and you love it when he's all rough and mean

 

Ah crap, you're not supposed to prefer me one way or the other. I like making jokes, as well cocks thrusting in me. I'm vulnerable yessiree, and it makes me feisty as hell. Face it, I'm complex. Yet, simple enough to enjoy forums.

 

Never a good situation never had to deal with it and don't think I will.sorry to hear but the two of you had feeling once so there must be some way to re spark the intrest? Couldn't imagine just getting up one day and saying I'm done. Something terrible wrong musta led up to it .