so me and my wife have been married a month and I’m already suggesting Marriage counseling Bc she doesn’t wanna be intimate with me we don’t have sex,we don’t cuddle,we don’t even sleep in the same bed any more but when I ask her why she says she just doesn’t want too and that she doesn’t like to cuddle and could care less about sex she said that she could always do with out a guy in her life and I don’t know what to do I’m a very affectionate guy we r both virgins and she tells me everyday that she loves me and we do kiss nothing g major tho just a small kiss on the lips and we hug that’s as far as it goes plz help.
You are both virgins? So not even on the wedding night. Get that shit annulled Dude, Get that shit annulled
I think that if a marriage isn’t “consummated,” you can get it annulled no problem. If she can “do without a guy” then maybe you should make that happen. Sorry you’re here. :/
Man, not even a cuddle? What was even the point of getting married? VG might be right here, as much as I hate to admit his cynical, pompous ass is ever right about anything.
It seems that you both like each other enough to get married (a life long togetherness agreement). Perhaps marriage counselling is a very good idea. There is some belief or definition that one harbours that motivates them to behave the way they do. Counselling can help to discover what those beliefs or definitions are. Whatever it is, both you and partner have opposing internal agreements (beliefs) about such things as intimacy, love, sex, and marraige. If those things can be sorted out. All may become very well indeed.
