Definitely not Probot. Ive been with my wife for18 years and when I wank, she's the one I think about. Only occasionally do I imagine sex with others. Good on you Probot. Lets hear it for the Wifey Wankers!!!
Oh there will be lots more Wifey Wankers out there! Do you wank about what you've done with her, or what you would like to do? For me it's both-regularly!
No not at all...in fact I think its kinda cool to still find your loved one a turn on..cos there are a lot that find the fizzle fades over the years......I have never been married but I was with a lovely lady for a few years and I fancied her more and more over the time together...in fact she was everything to me...but sadly she eventually found out I was a big turnip and she traded me in.....but its great to see you still have those vibes after all that time together....Good for you guys.
The key to a good stable marriage between husband and wife is a good sexual chemistry between the both of you, of course love is important to but I think sex is the cement that holds it all together. I think you guys are very lucky to have such understanding wives.
Thank you Backchat. My understanding wife often wakes up to find me having a nice gentle wank as I lie beside her. She will often finish me off if she's feeling horny and she always asks me what I was thinking about as I played. She knows full well that my answer will be "you", followed by a particular sex act we've done or one of my many fantasies. Understanding with a capital 'U'.
We both masturbate, usually together, but I quite enjoy some "me time" occasionally, I can't say for certain that he masturbates solo these days, but he used to when we used to be parted by work. he would tell me about it when we got together again!
See there you go you have a good strong healthy marriage there which is good for the both of you. I think it's the failure to understand the physical needs of a spouse in a marriage, where a lot of marriages tend to go wrong and will eventually result in a divorce or separation. Obviously we're not all the same regarding our sexual needs, so it's important that you understand each other and do all you can to make sure your marriage is as fulfilling as it possibly can be for your spouse who has the most need. If you're well balanced of course well that's just great.
Well said. Funny I just said this in the last post I made...society demands that once we are married, by GOD you can never-ever-ever want another woman/man. Why the very thought of such a thing is as good as cheating!! So what is the result? A society of frustrated people spending hours gorging on pornography, spending their lives wishing and wanting but never getting it. Or, if they do...they end up ruining their lives by getting caught. It is a sad tragedy. So many, many unsatisfied people.
Yes I think this is what eventually leads to infidelity in a marriage, as one spouse may be more sexually mature than the other and they only find out this miss match when it's too late. I guess it will always be a problem for someone finding the perfect sexual match in a marriage, but I think with a little understanding between the couple they should be able to overcome this problem. Perhaps sexual matching should be a requirement for a good marriage, but I don't think society is open enough to see this happen unfortunately. So until society comes to terms with this problem instead of keeping it tucked away as a taboo, nothing is going to change.
Married 30 years here and I still think about her when I jack off. Though today we masturbate together quite often.
Well said bamahandman. I've been with my Sexy Wifey for 18 years and it's her pussy that I think about when I wank off either alone, beside her as she sleeps, or in front of her as she watches me. Occasionally, I remember the naughtier times with other lovers but the fact is my wife and I have been dirtier with each other and pushed more sexual boundaries together than either of us had with other partners. So when I've got a sticky hot mess all over my hand, it's thanks to my wife one way or another! And I'm sure I will be thinking of her as I wank myself silly many years into the future. Great post bamahnadman.
My husband and I, married 25 years have an amazing sex life. we both masturbate, alone and together. He is an OTR truck driver so during the week we sext and send each other pictures and/or videos of our masturbation. He gets very tuned on watching me masturbate. It helps keep us sexually connected while he's away. We are looking to buy one of those Bluetooth vibrators that can be controlled from anywhere... Looking forward to having the vibrator go off while I'm shopping or something!
Absolutely not. I’ve been with my wife for 8 years and it’s still her I think about whenever I’m wanking. We still have great sex regularly and she never, ever leaves me with full balls for too long.
