man asking question about objectification of women

Discussion in 'Ask a Woman' started by gib_0101, Nov 19, 2012.

  1. Coachdb18

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    Reminds me of an old Twilight Zone episode, where the aliens had come to Earth, and mankind was debating whether they were coming in peace or for harm. The aliens were found to have created a book, entitled 'To serve man'. The subject became panic when it was discovered it was a cookbook.
     
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  2. princess peedge

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    But if it's all to get on her pants, then it's highly disrespectful. Why waste both our time? Pretending to be interested in my thoughts and opinions so he can get off?

    I'd much rather be approached like, "I only want sex. Any chance?"

    "Nope."

    "K, bye."

    Why do some men search high and low for the right way to treat us like prostitutes?
     
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  3. drumminmama

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    What a load of rape apologist crap.

    you literally said she deserved unwanted physical touch because of how she was dressed.
     
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  4. wilsjane

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    Killjoy,..... I assume you don't enjoy being "Picked up"
    Staying on this ridiculous fantasy theme, I assume the quicker they "Dropped you", the better. :D:D
     
  5. drumminmama

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    If they don’t want broken bones or smashed testicles, they’d better not touch without express permission.
    I’ve injured attackers before, I’ll do it again.
     
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  6. ~Zen~

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    I have known many men who think just because a woman is dressed nicely that she wants sex with any stranger that walks by...

    Where do they get these ideas?
     
  7. drumminmama

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    Generations, centuries of women being told, having it used in court cases, societies built around men using clothing as an excuse to grope, assault rape and kill women?
     
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  8. princess peedge

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    This is unfortunately spot on.
     
  9. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    The fact that this is a question which seems reasonable to ask illustrates the overarching situation that we've been conditioned to accept that our inherent biological instincts are invalid.

    And then we ask why mental illness seems to have become so pervasive.
     
  10. drumminmama

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    Seriously? You are saying men have mental health issues because women aren’t toys for your use???
     
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  11. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    I said, the lack of understanding about how innate biology works leads to ignoring it and that there may likely be a link between that new trend and increasing mental illness.

    I can't even imagine how you translated what I said into what you're asking if I'm saying!

    Unless maybe that's what you wanted me to be saying so you'd be able to legitimately discredit me?
     

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