Because of this exact concern, whatever toys I may have are home-made and only made at the time of need.
I would like to, but not sure if she would like it. She is aware that i masturbate as we both masturbate alone and together. We have a strap on, but i cnsider that 'ours' rather than mine. Would love a fleshlight hiding down there with the strap on lol
I have a few toys. The wife doesn't know about them.... yet and I plan on keeping it that way until she's more comfortable with anal play. She's used a toy on me before while I masturbated and has even fingered my ass, but generally, she's not into it.
My wife offered to buy me a flesh light & I turned her down. They seem like a cleaning nightmare. She has purchased Tenga eggs for me & I like them.
I use my wife's toys. Her anal probe feels great whilst having a wank and her clitorastimulator is brilliant on the tip of my cock. Fleshlight next!
I've got 3 or 4 sleeves and she knows about them and that I play with myself. She doesn't masterbate as well as anything else, because she's to much of a prude, so I usually take kink matters into my own hands. That's an entirely different thread all together. My latest addition is my Njoy pure plug anal plug. I can wear it all day. Feels great rubbing one out with it in there. Highly recommended.
I have my own secret stash of toys. And we have toys together. Some of hers do great double duty. I like strapping my suction cup dildo to her Hitachi Magic Wand.
Since my last post we have talked about masturbators and sleeves etc. I now have a masturbation sleeve that i bought online, and my wife bought me a masturbation sleeve on her recent sex toy party. No complaints here.
Glad to know I'm not alone here. Been using little things I could find around until yesterday. I got creative and made a dildo with a rubbery ripe tape. Then attached it to an old suction cup for a gps and used it when I got home. I rode it and fucked myself just like my wife does me. It was freaking amazing and I came all over myself without even touching my cock. It was soo good.
I have several toys. The Doc Johnson vibrating prostate stimulator is my favorite. I showed it to her when I first bought it but I don't think she remembers it now. I have bought several other toys, some anal and some masturbators. She does not know about those. I also have used homemade type masturbators as well.
i have more toys than she does, and i still sometimes use hers too. I have a fleshlight, a vibrating butt plug, Nexus prostate massager, billy anal vibrator, rude boy, another smaller vibrator, a couples kit of vibrators and insertables balls and dildos and a buttplug. Wife knows about most of them - in fact the other night she used the billy vibrator in my ass for the first time while she gave me a blowjob!
I have toys stashed. There's an access panel in the wall to get to some plumbing components. Its dark, she's admitted its scary to even look in there. I have a pillowcase stashed full of goodies in there.
I just got an Aneros Helix Syn that she doesn't know about (as of yet), but I've not had a chance to try it yet.