Male vs. Female

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  1. thesantos29

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    Do men like their genitals more than women like theirs?
     
  2. Panama Jack

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    That is a very subjective question. To each their own genitalia. I won’t even try to answer that.
     
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  3. straightma1e

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    I'll answer it this way. How many pussy pics are sexted? How many dick pics? I think that about covers it.
     
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    Just because girls may not share pics of their vagina, it doesn't mean that they don't like them. Lol
     
  5. Bazz888

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    I've asked some GFs and an FWB a similar question.
    Well, it was; "what do you like most about your pussy?" "Is it the clitoris, the vagina, the lips or somewhere else?".
    Their answers pretty much correlated.
    They don't have the obsession with their vagina that guys do. (I don't either).
    They like the general area when they stroke it and need to cum. The spots they stroke and arouse are different from girl to girl. (They all masturbate differently).
    For example; one masturbated only by rubbing herself on a pillow. She never stroked her pussy. (I think she had hangups from her upbringing)
    One used fingers toys and veg and masturbated frequently, vigorously and openly.
    One used just the side of her index finger and hand, from finger tip to wrist, to stroke her pussy from vagina to clitoris. Long slow strokes with a gentleness that I found intensely arousing and, when she finally came, after about 25-30 minutes, it was very very intense. :)
    Another banged herself with her toy as she rubbed her clit furiously. That too was very arousing for me :)

    Some don't like their vagina at all during one week per month.
    One liked it more during that week and said she masturbated considerably more often, despite there being some 'extra mess'.

    It seems they don't focus on their vagina but, instead, they play with their erogenous zones.
    I think guys would do well to try the same, with their own body, that of their GF/FB/FWB and, also, with a mate if he can find one.
     
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  6. straightma1e

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    Ah yes very true. Except the questions theme is who likes them more. And men, way more than women, like sharing their genitalia with others, especially women. So if you like something a lot don't you wish to show it off? Men do a whole lot more than women.
     
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    You speak the facts, my friend.
     
  8. Jenna1995

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    I believe men do and perhaps women are more interested in the male genitalia as well. To me, my pussy is a portal to my inner being, yes lined with sensory nerves. But a man, his cock is his manhood, his pride. It is how he projects himself into someone else. Just my thoughts…might be a little stupid?
     
  9. straightma1e

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    Not stupid at all. For women the vagina is inside the body, your inner being. For men, the cock remains outside and always visible (except when it's real cold outside).
     
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    When it’s cold outside brings up interesting topics.

    1) If you are just outdoors when it’s below freezing and you must pee, does it feel cold when you pull it out to do so?
    2) if you are erect outdoors with all the hot blood pumping in does it feel cold when you are in that state?

    in a thread I started yesterday about sex outdoors, I forgot to mention that the guys cocks would actually have steam coming off them when they were exposed to the air…wish I had a photo, but no photos were allowed.
     
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    Been out in sub zero temps and no it doesn't feel the cold right away. But steam rolls off the piss stream pretty good. The balls retract up real tight too.
    Like the rest of your skin it can burn a little. But once inside a warm pussy all is well.
     
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    :tearsofjoy:
     
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    If you're talking about visually, it's my experience that most men like their penises more than women like their labia. Most men are a lot more susceptible to simple visual stimuli. I love all the physical features of my penis and the way it looks and I know most men feel the same way about their penises. Women, on the other hand are quite different about the appearance of their inner and outer labia. I love looking at my penis. I love touching it and examining every inch and every feature of it. Whereas, I have talked to women that are indifferent or even disgusted with the appearance of their labia. I've talked to and dated women that have never even taken a good look at the labia. they've never sat in front of a mirror and examined and explored their genitally.They've never even thought about sitting in front of a mirror and masturbating, seeing how their labia and clitoris respond to different stimuli!!
     
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  14. thesantos29

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    I find this very unfortunate for women.
     
  15. Bazz888

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    I knew one whose labia were of different lengths. Her left side inner labia was much longer and (I don't like this term) meatier, than the other, which was of what I considered to be of normal length.
    One was within the outer labia whilst the other was about 2 inches outside and curled over.
    It took a lot to persuade her - and I'm not sure I did - that she was better than normal.
    Some days a guy will like to lick a long lip and other days he'll like to lick shorter ones.
    I explained that she had both variations which most girls don't have and I proceeded over the next 4-5 months to show her how much I loved them.

    I was asked by a platonic friend if I would photograph her 'down there' (and all over) because she couldn't understand what her BF was meaning when he said how beautiful she was there.
    She also wanted to know what the difference in appearance was between wet and soaking wet.

    She wanted to see how she looked just like he could look at her.
    I photographed her in a lot of positions, mostly described/chosen by her.
    She often became aroused and she needed to because she needed to see herself the way her BF could. (When he looked at her I'm she was aroused).

    As time went on she said she needed to cum and she let me video her as she masturbated herself to orgasm.
    Afterwards, she described how she was feeling much better, more sexy and confident and, also, she said she might ask me to do more on another day.

    I wasn't exactly certain that she felt much better but, over the next 6 months, I received texts from her about some of her friends as well as friends of those friends.
    They wanted me to photograph them based on what my friend had described.
    I concluded it must have been good for her and it transpired that she asked me several times to photograph and video her.

    Some were similar to my friend in that they had never properly looked at themselves, though others just wanted the fun of being naked and photographed.

    Of the ones who were on that learning curve, it was fascinating for me. I learned new things at the same time they learned. (I like to learn something new from each new encounter).
    That was quite an emotionally boding experience, with each of them.

    Two of them wanted to learn about my body as well and I learned new things about me when they held the camera and squeezed and stroked me.
    What was really interesting, for me, was that whilst we 'delved' into the exploration of each other's most intimate places, sex did not happen.
    It was as though sex wasn't a thing because we were engrossed in seeing things we'd not seen (or heard) before.
    We explored each others bodies, we did get aroused, we had orgasms and we learned about each others orgasm.
    We learned about our own orgasm too. (I still don't like my orgasm face).

    I would hope most girls and guys are able to find someone to learn with whether the opposite gender to them or not.

    I was surprised just how many were keen to learn in that way. It's like a secret undercurrent of desire, which in the ordinary run of the day is completely invisible.
    Yet, it all happened with one girl and then word of mouth from then on.
    Over a 6 months period, about 20 women and one couple asked me to photograph them with about 15 being inquisitive and the others wanting some fun.
    Four of those kept returning for various reasons for over a year after the first time. (New hair style [head], new hair style [groin], shaven groin, new sun tan new piercing [usually in the groin area], etc).

    Once they got a feel for it all, they continued to dream up new photographic scenes and things to try so they built up quite a gallery for themselves :)
    As they gained in experience of themselves, their confidence grew too.
    One girl was quite shy and naive though not long after the first time, she was sufficiently confident to be naked outside in her garden and not many days after that, to be nude in the open countryside.
    When I say quite shy, that's the way she appeared to be but demure and pragmatic are probably more accurate.
    When she got aroused she had no shyness when saying she needed to masturbate and the just did it.
    And then she carried on just as normally as if she had finished a phone call.

    I could described a lot more but shan't, not this thread anyway.
     
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  16. straightma1e

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    No need. You've said enough. What I can't get is how you were able to refrain from putting your cock into any of those pussies you photographed or have at least one pussy grab it and pull it into them.
     
  17. Bazz888

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    Apologies; I wasn't clear.
    After a while, I did have sex with my up-to-then platonic friend.
    Not the first time that I photographed her (I wanked in her bathroom the first time) but next time or the third time, she asked me to strip as well so, from then we were always both naked and it became more a play time than photographic though photos and videos were always taken. (It wasn't until her relationship with her BF became sufficiently serious that she thought she should stop with me, though occasionally she'll call over in the summer for the afternoon and join me in domestic nudity, sunbathing nude, mutual or simultaneous masturbation).

    First time we were both nude, she jumped onto me and rode me, apologising for not thinking of my needs sooner.

    When I had photographed others but not fucked them, (if I hadn't needed to wank right then but was able to hold off) I would visit that first friend after letting her know I was on my way and she'd be ready waiting with her entrance, for my entrance. :)
    My attraction with women isn't just to fuck them - never has been. (not criticising anyone)
    I always try to make sure they are satisfied before I seek my own orgasms. I love to watch a woman cumming, whether riding me, masturbating herself or when I go down and work my 'magic' on her.

    I've never cum first and with the more sexual of my friends over the years, they will usually decide when it's time for me to cum and they jump aboard or tell me to fuck them.
    And with several of the others, (those friends of friends that I mentioned), after the first few occasions it became sex and exploration of other types.
    For example, one was keen to try anal and pegging.
    She didn't want to try it with her BF/husband (I don't recall which he was), in case he liked it but she didn't.
    So she had her first time with me - and a few more times too. :)
    She did it once with her guy but it wasn't as 'good' as my doing it so she came back for a few months to repeat.

    Some wanted to learn how to play with cock so I did cum with them.
    I couldn't not cum and, as time went on, if I came in their mouth but they didn't want to swallow, I told them to kiss me and give it to me.
    Most who started that way soon did swallow when they knew it tasted OK.

    There was another woman of about 48 who had been single for about 10 years. Not totally without sex but, imv, without good sex ;)
    She was in grumpy form one day, and I asked why.
    She didn't know so I joked that she probably just needed to increase her orgasm count.
    She laughed but said nothing to encourage me.
    Next time I met up with her, she raised it and said, OK, help me get more orgasms. I did. :)

    I wish I was meeting women as often these days so I'd know if such activities would be as frequent.
     
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