Hey, I've been practicing holding back ejaculating for a long time, and I'm at the point where I can successfully do it. I never ejaculate when I masturbate anymore, I just have an orgasm for the fun of it. I find though that even though I don't cum, often I still experience the same sort of satisfaction that comes when you cum, which significantly reduces what was once a very robust desire to have sex. I'm looking for anyone who is experienced with this practice who may be able to address this issue I am having. I'm kind of thinking that I'm not supposed to let myself have a full orgasm, but rather just a smaller one so that my drive doesn't diminish. I'd appreciate any and all feedback though. Thanks in advance!
I hold back for 3-4 days then get ny gf to take the resulting load on her face. Supsr messy and even sexier
it's easy to have multiple orgasms if you learn to not ejaculate. Ejaculation is the reason why there is a refractory period, so your penis won't explode; but ejaculation and orgasm often occur at the same time because evolutionary we want people to think that cumming is good, make sure to cum to make kids. Just like woman need to find orgasmic techniques, guys do too. Luckily we have more tissue to trigger it, but some people might not know how to get it to be rocking. I like rubbing the bottom of my balls and the dent underneath the darthvader hat and really gets my legs bursting, and in order to feel in in my arms I like it when my nipples get played with (don't think it's taboo, it's COMPLETELY natural). Some times these orgasms can last for a while and be triggered over and over again. Hope I helped and have fun! It's always interesting discovering your body. Best wishes
That is so true, when we are having fun in the bedroom, he has mastered this to perfection. He comes so close but holds it in and does this multiple times which enhance my orgasm. On the other is when I beg him to cum he has done this so much that when he wants to cum he is like a mad man and the pounding is intense until he releases a huge load. Jesus sometimes he hurts my pussy fucking it so hard.
That's not multiple orgasms, that's just really good edging technique. The difference is he's building up to one BIG BIG BIG orgasm. I'm sure you notice it's a lot longer/stronger than usual.
Now THERE'S a hilarious mental image that just *begs* to be turned into a Warner Bros. cartoon (probably starring Foghorn Leghorn.)
The only way I have accomplished this is through a prostate orgasm. Both internal and ejaculatory. Highly recommended.
Here are a few techniques to achieve multiples if you like to read. What A Sensual Man Does When He Is Alone And Turned On
After my first marriage of 28 years I was with a couple women sexually and couldn't perform to the end...thinking my dick was still owned by the ex and now inflicted with E.D. I go to the doctor and get a prescription for Cialis and let the woman I'm dating know, she was pleased and assured me NOT to be embarrassed as it happens to many men over 50. Well, I misunderstood the prescription and took a pill a day, not the suggested one pill the night you want to perform. I only saw this woman on the weekends so when she arrived Friday evening I'd now has 6 pills in me. Holy Shit...I had 9 orgasms that night, never went soft and never pulled out of her. The last four orgasms were dry but just as stimulating as the five previous ones. NO, I won't do that again and stopped taking them to find out I had no problem getting hard and had multiple orgasms after that night with her and still do to this day. We're married now and have a fantastic sex life and after I cum she'll allow 10 minutes for me to relax before taking me into her mouth to suck it hard for another round. Multiple orgasms are achievable for me with a short break in between which I usually spent going down on her again, then climb on top in a great 69 suck & lick session.
Why on earth would you want to hold back ejaculation for the long? It's a pleasure! I can understand an hour or two to intensify the orgasm, but days? Fuck that.