Anyone else here locked into a male chastity device and are subject to orgasm denial by the person who holds the keys to the chastity device? I am a male whose wife is bi and prefers women most of the time; something she learned about halfway through our marriage. She has no use for my penis as she prefers her vibrator. My penis fits into a 1 1/4" chastity cage and I can no longer get erections, even with Viagra, to give you some idea of why my penis is of no use to her. We have not had intercourse for longer than we can remember in our 44 year marriage. My guess is 20 years. I know that Chastity Play is not as popular as other fetishes but it is gaining in popularity as more and more chastity devices hit the market that can be adjusted for various sizes of penises. I had to have one custom made to fit me. The off the shelf ones are too big. As far as I know there is just one forum on chastity play and most of the people on it are into "Sissy" play or female domination. We are just into locking my penis up and orgasm denial. We do have sex once or twice a week but only my wife gets to orgasm. I get teased and edged over and over again before I my penis is locked up again. It is amazing how close this has brought us since sex is all about my wife's pleasure and she does not even have to reciprocate if she does not want to. Sometimes she just wants a quick orgasm and that is it. I have learned to share her orgasm over the last 4 years. I do get about 8 orgasms a year and they are extremely intense to the point of painful. I thought chastity play was stupid when I first read about it but I was masturbating too much and wanted to stop so I gave it a try and it worked. It is amazing how obedient you become to your wife when she controls your sexual pleasure. Anyone else her into chastity play? This is also very popular with men with small penises. As my wife says, she is doing womankind a favor by locking mine up to spare them the disappointment. She humiliates my penis but it is just part of our chastity play. When we take a break from chastity, she cuts out all of the small penis talk. She does love me a lot and has proved it. It was my idea to lock up my penis and she was against it because she enjoys making me orgasm. I asked her to try and now she loves not only the power exchange in the bedroom but gets aroused by my moans of sexul frustration. Just thought I'd give you a peek into my world.
Sounds like your marriage is awesome. You shouldn't even be here with us losers. I'm not belitting you, by the way. I'm being quite serious. Not that people on here aren't married, and happily married in that. And not that they're losers. I'm just saying that forum life is for certain people who have more time on their hands. But, you seem busy with your healthy sex life and marriage. Of course it's alway fun to find people that are interested in what your interested in. So, I understand why you made this thread. But, your topic is related to sex. And sex is really suppose to be done, not talked about. Also, it's not like you have any questions about it. You seem to know what you're doing. And why have friends that are into this, considering it's only between you and your wife? Unless you're into group play, then I can understand that, but I don't think you are. Anyways, screw us and lock your dick up. That sounded weird. But, you know what I mean.
