Male and Female help with this problem...

So am a pretty confident guy i can speak to most about anything if i know them , the real problem i have is sparking up conversation with someone new, especially when am out say in a bar i have no idea how to start of a conversation say if she gave me a smile i wouldn't know how to start it.

Anyone got any tips on what to say....

Thanks.

 

You have to exercise some real Patience.Never intrude.Wait on an opening as long as You need to make sure You don't seem pushy..Then try to be cheerful or at least a Optimist.Noone likes a person that bitches or talk's to much.Never ever mention any other peoples names and problems.You will be making the new friends think that You will be talking about them next.Think about everything before You say it..Keep as much as possible to Yourself until they are true friends and will overlook shortcoming's..

 

If you are going to a bar, then "Can I buy you a drink" usually works. LOL!

 

if you're really ballsy, you could try "can you buy me a drink?"