hi hon, dont worry your in safe hands. i have to say i am a huge make up fan. to me its like art i enjoy putting on peoples make up so much. i dont wear it much myself because when i do i like to do it right. anyway if your pale like me, a beautiful shade of blusher to use is NARS orgasm. its really natural and is just really pretty. and you get to embaress yourself by asking for it at the counter. its a bit expensive i know but i've tried all the cheap brands and this is the nicest shade and it really lasts! go for it!