M/M spanking: "Appetizer" or "Main Course"?

Being such a die-hard "ass man", it is no wonder that my biggest fetish is m/m spanking.

Whenever I see a nice, round, meaty set of man mounds, the first thing I say to myself is "Man, I'd pay to get those hot glutes over my knee for a good butt-blistering!"

Heating up a hot set of manly butt globes and, literally "spanking the cum" out of the guy would have to be one of the hottest m/m scenarios going.

BUT, there are also times when a good, hard OTK session leads to the spanked guy getting a good, hard fucking, his red, sizzling glutes split by a big, hard cock.

So, what do you guys enjoy more, regarding m/m OTK spanking?

A scenario where the spanking is the "main event", or, an "appetizer", whetting your lust for a more intense "main course"?

 

I've also read (on this board and elsewhere) that spanking a guy's ass hard can be used as great stress release for the spanker (both m/m and f/m)

I've also read that many guys spanked hard over someone's knees can also experience a release of strees and emotions.......

 

it's an appetizer for me it gets me wanting more of him

 

I will spank you if you don't answer your PM. LOL

 

Gray PM????

 

I would let a girl spank me

 

That's when it is really great, to be spanked by a female

 

I'd be open to being spanked, especially while sucking him. But nothing too intense or crazy. It needs to enhance the sexperience, not distract from it. Same with a female partner.

 

You'll love it, esp when sucking a guy

 

Being sexually submissive with men, I'd love to have another guy spank my ass, maybe even lightly spank my balls if I was locked in chastity (my cock cage).
My wife also playfully spanks my ass before and during her pegging my ass with OUR strap-on dildo.

 

How about neither? The last guy who slapped me on the ass got his nose broken, paying a painful price for thinking that I liked having my ass slapped or he thought it would be hot and sexy. How about there is no conceivable scenario where I'd want some dude beating my ass like I'm a rented mule or a recalcitrant child? Homey don't play that shit...

 

KDaddy23: At least you are HONEST: would indeed rather hear the TRUTH being spoken about one's sexual turn-ons/turn-offs than hearing nothing but a sugar-coated LIE----just because they THINK that it is WHAT you want to hear---------I prefer the truth about one's "preferences" than bulls**t-------

 

My protege said that when he fucks me, he was going to tan my hide... and I told him that (1) he just assumes that because he's a top, he just gets to fuck me and (2) I hope he has really good insurance because I will let him live so he'll know about the near-fatal mistake he made. He thought I was joking; I assured him that I wasn't. He got all weird on my when I said that, sure, if I let him fuck me, he's going to get fucked, too... or I might fuck him and he'll never get to return the favor - and like he was saying he was going to do to me. I don't play that shit; this isn't a game to me; this has been my life over the entirety of my life. You beat my ass and you'd better be ready to get your ass beaten... and you might not like my idea of that.

This is me being straight-up for real. Violent/rough sex isn't a turn on; do us both a favor and ask first.

 

For me it both

 

Makes me wonder when male bisexuality turned into "Intro to BDSM 101." Maybe it's always been that way and I missed it but, then again, there are more very submissive bi guys today than at any other time I can remember and submissive guys who don't mind getting a beat-down while getting dicked-down. I just know that it's not my idea of fun to be spanked. Have I spanked some asses? Yes, because their owners wanted it spanked and I do aim to please and I know how to make it hurt really good but I don't take any pleasure from spanking that ass and if that makes me weird, well, I'm used to being seen as a weird bi guy...