Lucifer Sam's Lonely Hearts Club Thread

Well I'm glad to see you have no confidence in me.

Yeah, well... I don't know. I kind of wish I had the guts.

 

Aww... I didn't mean it like that.

Force yourself to do it.

 

Yeah, sure.

Haha, easier said than done, you know.

 

Well... yeah... but it's not impossible to do.

It's all in the mind games.

 

I know... truth is, things would almost certainly turn out all right, but it seems to be really hard to train your mind to actually believe that.

 

Well, concentrate hard, damnit.

 

Yeah, yeah... I'll try.

 

Hello my fellow humans

 

haha, derek, you situstion kinda reminds me of someing my friend is doing...

he wrote up thios fake survey and one of the questions is if the girl would consider going out with a skinny, pale, freckled kid...

teehee, but now he has to muster up the courage..

 

omg, that is such a brilliant idea.

 

......? grey skies are gonna clear up.....

 

put on a happy face...

 

Your situation sounds good Derek. If I were in your situation I would ask her out, but not really a "date". Just hanging out or seeing a movie. Then slowly increase the level of the relationship. Slowly. I also am very shy but it sounds like you have a preety good shot. Just dont wait too long.

 

Thanks. I'll consider what you said.

 

Sounds like you should definetely go for it, Derek. And get over self-confidence. It's such a nuisance. Good luck.

 

George, you need to invest in a good lesbian relationship.

Please pretend that was funny and smile.

 

Im loving myself and its not so bad but I do wish I had someone to share it with. Relationships are complicated.Im ready for love the only problem is no one is ready to love me.

 

Well, *I* love you, kiddo. Not in the way you're talking about, but you're my sister of this world, and I know it sucks not to have anybody to share your love with. Be patient. You can start panicing (sp?) when you're about 24...

Actually, I *AM* in love, and for the first time in my life, it's being reciprocated the way it should be. I think it's the first NON one sided relationship I've had in my whole life. Everyone else I've been with is a taker. My sweetie and I have a "give and take" deal happening. It's awesome.

So, sorry I haven't been around (not that ya'll give a shit, or anything). I've been attending to my man. *giggle*

 

Well, that's not really so bad. At least you can love yourself. I can't love myself, let alone like myself. If I know that someone else likes me it makes me dislike myself less. If I know that somebody loves me it makes me somewhat like myself more. It's pretty pathetic, but I can't help it.

And I know "people will only love you once you've learned to love yourself," but that's nearly impossible for me, so I prefer not to listen to that bit of advice. I'd like to think that love isn't impossible to find.