Lucifer Sam's Lonely Hearts Club Thread

Soulless||Chaos · Nov 22, 2004

Poor Alf, being dumped for that fuzzy lil' bastard... He must be heart-broken...

mystical_shroom · Nov 22, 2004

hahah yeah, but me ALF and snuggles had a tri thing going there for a little bit

madbeast · Nov 22, 2004

mystical_shroom said:

hahah yeah, but me ALF and snuggles had a tri thing going there for a little bit
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omg hahah when i was little i always daydreamed about a three way with raf and ALF (not really though...hahah) but snuggles is sooo cute...when i was younger i remember always wishing to get a snuggles stuffed animal...was there ever such a thing??

Soulless||Chaos · Nov 22, 2004

mystical_shroom said:

hahah yeah, but me ALF and snuggles had a tri thing going there for a little bit
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My god! That's illegal in most states!

madbeast · Nov 22, 2004

Soulless||Chaos said:

My god! That's illegal in most states!
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glad i dont live in one of those hahaha

Soulless||Chaos · Nov 22, 2004

You mean you enjoy bestial threesomes?!

lover/young_peace · Nov 22, 2004

Dear god, how did we get to this topic.

madbeast · Nov 22, 2004

Soulless||Chaos said:

You mean you enjoy bestial threesomes?!

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whoever doesnt is a LOSER jk lol

willpower · Nov 22, 2004

you know i have posted on many sights about trying to meet someone...ha...
some of you will say that love doesnt come when you look for it... or want it. well unfortunately i work so much all i do is go in to there and home for a few much needed minutes in front of the monitor before a bath and bed ready to enter the continum again... where i live doesnt afford me many oppurtunities to meet alot of like minded women... there was a time that i was willing not to be me for the sake of finding that special someone but i cant do that anymore i have to be real to me first... some of you good folks give me hope like apllespark and yogi(aint they the sweetest?)
but then sometimes i get down in the dumps cuz i have a monicum of things against me...lifestyle, future goals, etc. etc. i also realise that race plays a big factor as many of my fellow afro americans think im some sort of sell out cuz i dont choose 20 inch rims and cadillacs... even though im half native american i get rejected by them bucuase im not a pure blood! so im stuck in the middle... i want happiness too... i want to enjoy a kiss for no reason and the closeness of a chosen mate.... to feel the magic from making love....enjoy the ups and downs of child raising and in and outs of maintaining a long - term relationship... so at times i wonder what if anything am i doing wrong? i read about women who want nice men,sweet men, whatevr the case and somehow i feel overlooked! why is that?

in keeping in conjuction with the forums i am just expressing myself... but all comments are welcomed... i know there can be good vibes and love beuyond a physical attraction... i mean sure i love sex who dont but damn i would just like to meet a girl that wanted sex and more... you know someone to talk to, to share your fears with, dreams with... more importantly the rest of my life with... i am celabate by choice... i want to find not "a" woman but "the" woman! i dont want to keep adding women to a hard to remember list ... nut instead find the one woman i can make love to solely for the rest of my life....
why is that so difficult or am i being unrealistic? has times changed so much that the thought of mating for life is comical or referenced to bald eagles and polar bears? where is she?

i dunno just venting getting things off my chest... out of my heart!

FrozenMoonbeam · Nov 22, 2004

aw, that's so lovely. I so know what you mean - I only ever meet people that want nothing but sex, it would be nice to meet someone who wasn't afraid of affection and love.

lover/young_peace · Nov 22, 2004

FrozenMoonbeam said:

it would be nice to meet someone who wasn't afraid of affection and love.
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I am not afraid of affection and love... other people are afraid of my affection and love.

Burbot · Nov 22, 2004

lover/young_peace said:

I am not afraid of affection and love... other people are afraid of my affection and love.

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im not...jk...i am afriad...very afraid...

madbeast · Nov 23, 2004

aw....willpower...im so so so sorry. shes there, trust me, cus ur right, women DO want nice guys, most at least. god knows i do...and if i had a celebate it would make things a lot easier too shell come, trust me, keep ur hopes up, and remember, theres a ton of nice girls on this site, especially this thread! (though im not single, i just joined to give insite and sympathy)

everynes friend
madison

OctoberMoon · Nov 23, 2004

I think I belong here. I've been feeling very lonley and un-loved lately. I have great friends, yes, but I havent had a PROPER hug or kiss in ages. I miss sex, yes, but I miss cuddling with someone I care about sometimes even more.

madbeast · Nov 24, 2004

omg guys...help me feel better...please...im in a fight with my bf...i didnt think it was a big deal, and he blew things outta proprotions...and he wont TALK...its pissing me off...iv cried so much my eyes hurt...help me feel loved

lover/young_peace · Nov 24, 2004

madbeast said:

omg guys...help me feel better...please...im in a fight with my bf...i didnt think it was a big deal, and he blew things outta proprotions...and he wont TALK...its pissing me off...iv cried so much my eyes hurt...help me feel loved
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Aww, I'm sorry sweetie. What's the matter? What are y'all fighting about?

virgo4life · Nov 24, 2004

Hi everyone, Im new here and Im lonely
Good luck to everyone one their journey to find love
*cheers*

jo_k_er_man · Nov 24, 2004

virgo4life said:

Hi everyone, Im new here and Im lonely
Good luck to everyone one their journey to find love
*cheers*
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I here ya.... i've been lonely for a long time now and havent found nothing yet.. and for some reason i dont think i'll find anything in the distant future. But hey, maybe we can make two lonesome people not so lonesome, whatcha say? PM me if ya wanna talk

Edward G. · Nov 25, 2004

Advaya said:

I'm stuck somewhere between being a teenager and an adult. It's as if life is throwing choices at me I'm forced to make when I do not want to think about them. I don't feel I've had a suffiencent childhood, nor past and I think that clouds my judgement or my readiness. Anyways, I'm in a relationship and have been since I was 16 years old. We're both 18 now, I'm nearly 19 and I can't figure out what we have. We love each other, in varying degrees. I think we love each other truthfully because of what we've shared, and I don't know what that means. I want passionate love, which I think we could have perhaps if we didn't see each other for a while (we're long distance for now anyways, so I guess not talk to each other for a while would be more correct). Either way, I know both of us would be ok if we broke up and would move on, but I don't know if doing that is the right thing. Our interests and our goals don't always match up, but it's not so incompatable as to pose problems so much as just little tremors in our relationship. I can't explain that either. I do hope if something happens to Ed and I, that I would find someone closer to my goals of a more natural lifestyle with the cob house and organic gardening and anthropology and midwifery. None of that is prevented, perhaps stifled just a bit. You may be wondering why I want to be in this relationship at all, and the answer is really easy to understand but hard to write about. There is too much to let go of for so little, if we had guarentee's we'd be more secure with either staying together or letting it go, but of course life has no guarentees and we're not looking for them. At this point, I'm not in or out of your club, but I'd love more friends. I think I rely on Ed too much to replace my friends who I've lost (usually to marriage, go figure)....... I am online most of the time, waiting on either Ed or another online friend when really there is a lot I'd love to do here, but I'm lonely for friendships. I think my relationship relies a lot on me finding very close friends and the ablity to develop my interests independently of him for it to work.

I'm not sure how this relates, except I wish life were easier and pretty all the time, but I guess then it still wouldn't be perfect and perhaps even monotonious. I never had the 13-14 year old relationships, it was always serious for us. From the start. I can't relate to needing that sort of love, I am glad at 13 and 14 and 15 I was not in a relationship, as I do feel I'm better off having not for my own reasons. I do feel the lonliness of someone totally understanding me, feeling me and knowing me though. I do hunger for that. Intensly.
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hahahaha!!! you and me eh? hahaha

lover/young_peace · Nov 25, 2004

Edward G. said:

hahahaha!!! you and me eh? hahaha
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I love you.

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