I've heard coconut oil is probably the best sex lube you could ever use, apart from the obvious that oil breaks down latex condoms. So has anybody tried it, what are your thoughts on it?
Yes my wife and I have used it and it works great! I once heard a ob/gyn say that you should never put anything in your vag. That you wouldn't put in your mouth. We still use it.
Is it safe and good to use vaginally/anally? Also does it make a good massage oil? Can I add some essential oils to it like lavender for a nice scent and sensual massage?
Absolutely! Coconut oil is a great carrier oil. (Obviously though you'll want to keep the coconut oil mixed with an EO separate from the plain coconut oil used for lube).
Coconut is pretty useful. I have two client who love it as massage oil. It's a bit of a bear with laundry. Soak soon after any dribbles. I like it cut with Shea nut butter.
Yes, we have used it several times. My wife loves the feel of it on her lips as it melts during "intimate massage". If you get the right one, then it also tastes and smells great too. ....and you can use it for cooking. All round, it really is one of the most versatile oils going - just as long as you remember it is a solid at (UK) room temperature, and you don't believe some of the appalling medicinal hype/claims for it elsewhere on the web!
We absolutely love coconut oil (CO), in particular unprocessed type. Unprocessed CO has the natural coconut fragrance that my wife n I like. Next, it melts at body temperature. It's "ritualistic" for us to take a quarter of a tea spoon of the semi-solid CO, then let it melts on my private part before intercourse. It's very smooth and can be cleaned easily. No hassle after the deed. In short, I highly recommend CO if you're not using latex condoms.
Coconut oil is a great lube! My wife loves putting some on my cock before I slip into her, the combination of the oil and her natural juices makes for a truly great session! Works great for anal too, you just slide right in.... Fantastic!! I also keep a small bottle of coconut oil with a couple of drops of lavender essential oil for massage purposes. We love the stuff!
I can also recommend Wheatgerm Oil, I used it on my perineum & vulva for 3 months prior to childbirth (massaged in daily it helps promote elasticity in skin), didn't tear (externally at least!) at all despite giving birth to 2 10lb babies in 5 years! Also, I had a full Tantric massage including yoni massage a couple of years back & the therapist switched from sweet almond oil on my body to wheatgerm oil when she started to massage my yoni.
Coconut oil (warmed) is hands down the sexiest substance on earth, and the best substance for massage purposes. Highly recommend.
Love the stuff. You can eat it, moisturize with it and use it as a lube. When I visited my gay friend we messaged each other with it and eucalyptus oil and used it to jerk each other off.
I think so. I use premium grade (IOW I pay out the ass for it at the store) coconut oil. I'll have a rounded tablespoon every other day or two. I consume it like soup, pretty much. For moisturizer, it's great. I did some last night and my skin is still moist. With lotion it wouldn't be.
I agree, we have a pot upstairs specifically for lube, mainly for him when he wants a handjob. Sometimes, I use the whole jar like a fleshlight on him. He loves it!