Well, over the weekend i was doing some reading. I came across this book, 48 Laws of Power. The 10th law, Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky. The verse is about Judgment and states the following. "You can die from someone elses misery - emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortuante sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it onto you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead." Hopefully this knowledge I have learned will extend to others. I know it sounds like something out of a forutne cookie. But I take those cookies serious. They are after all ways to prosper.
Seriously, your post is right. Imagine though, how hard it is to not judge others at all! We can barely even open our mouths to talk without speaking in some sense about other people.