Loving someone to the point where you can never disagree or argue?

Would you stay in a relationship like that?

As much as I am in love with my fiance, I think that if we didn't ever disagree or get into the occasional tiny argument (even the big ones, maybe)
I think it'd be too oddly perfect, in a way, and I don't think that would make me happy.

Thoughts?

 

I don't know my lady and I very seldom disagree on things and argue even less and we are both very happy! More happy then either of us have ever been. It is different for different people though. Some like conflict and don't like when everything is as good as it gets. I have never felt so at ease with anyone else before so I like it this way. It feels like I have my best friend and lover all wrapped up in one awesome package. It has also led to the best sex life I could ever imagine.

 

I pretty much have the same story as enhancer on this. I especially relate to the part where he says he's never felt at ease with anyone else. I feel the same way with my girlfriend. She and I are different people, but are very compatible with each other. We actually haven't even fought yet since we met in March. Disagreements don't even feel like disagreements because we just agree to disagree on rare occasions where we disagree. We're just so chill together, and it feels wonderful. I've never been in a relationship like this before to be honest. We're thinking we just might be each other's soulmate.

 

I think I would be happy if my wife and I never disagreed.

when we argue, she says something stupid or way over the top, then I usually say something assholish and she starts crying, then i feel bad, then we discuss the matter calmly. that's our cycle i think

 

I don't think it's a reality that two people spending a lot of time together would not argue or disagree. It simply does not happen, opinions and humans are too complex to have a complete one-to-one correspondence of thoughts.

The important thing is how you argue.